shira
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- Jan 12, 2005
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This is just nonsensical. Everyone has private thoughts that they don't want anyone to know. Almost everyone has petty jealousies, feelings of inadequacy, strange sexual fantasies, negative thoughts about friends and loved ones. Almost everyone has prejudices, even though their "higher" self knows that it's unfair.But you're missing my point. If the person you represent in public is who you are in private, then you should be fine with that person getting out(unless someone tried to twist your words).
According to you, people should openly air all of these negative traits. People should display to the world everything they know is bad about themselves.
This is an insanely stupid attitude, because we know we'll suffer for this "honesty." We know we'll alienate our friends and family. We'll lose our jobs. It doesn't matter that everyone else is just as bad; only those who "honestly" reveal their bad qualities will be punished.
As I wrote in an earlier post: People should be judged by their actions, not by their words.
