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Just found out news about my ex

edmundoab

edmundoab

Diamond Member
Hi guys,

all I know is that my ex is officially together with him.
Heard from my friends that they are moving into a one bedroom apartment too.

Now I know its an ex.
please don't insult me or condemn me by telling me forget it and move on.
Coz if it was so easy, I won't be posting this issue here.

Somehow over 6 months has passed since we broke up.
But it still bothers me with any updates I get from my friends. Who just want me to know whats going on and tell me that its not worth waiting for her anymore.

Poiint is, I know these things take time.
But my head just loves to flash back all the happier moments and such.
How do I overcome this?

get busy? I haven't got a job yet, still looking hard for it.
socialize around.. I'm doing it, but mon to fri everyone is working.
That leaves the weekend for life thus far.

 
the best thing would be to try to avoid getting updates from your friends. it helps you move on when you don't talk about her.

i've been there, done that. i am still curious, but i don't ask. it hurts a lot less as time goes by.
 
i feel ya man...my ex-fiancee is getting married less than 2 years after she broke off our wedding. it gets better, hang in there.
 
force yourself to stop thinking about her

actively try to meet someone else

don't compare now to then.
 
i know what you're going through. you got to do whatever it is that you have to, to distract yourself. play games, comedy movie, etc.

or just confide in someone, talking to a friend usually relieves some stress and agony.
 
Originally posted by: edmundoab
Hi guys,

all I know is that my ex is officially together with him.
Heard from my friends that they are moving into a one bedroom apartment too.

Now I know its an ex.
please don't insult me or condemn me by telling me forget it and move on.
Coz if it was so easy, I won't be posting this issue here.

Somehow over 6 months has passed since we broke up.
But it still bothers me with any updates I get from my friends. Who just want me to know whats going on and tell me that its not worth waiting for her anymore.

Poiint is, I know these things take time.
But my head just loves to flash back all the happier moments and such.
How do I overcome this?
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Post about it at ATOT so you can dwell on it..no wait that won't help.
 
yes I know when I don't hear about it I am fine.
But it just seems to be natural that words flow into my ears.
In anyway possible.
we have common friends.
 
QUIT LIVING IN THE PAST... seriously. Quit asking about, quit wondering about her, SHE IS GONE FROM YOUR LIFE.

Thats really all there is, and ever will be. Sorry man some things in life have no easy answer, just have to accept the facts and fvcking deal. Time heals all wounds, but booze and babes make it go a little faster.
 
Well if its any consolation (maybe it just makes you feel worse) she's moved on and probably isn't thinking too much about you, its probably time for you to do the same.
 
Have you tried showing up at their new apartment drunk to confess your undying love for her? Because that usually goes over pretty well for most guys.
 
Originally posted by: jonjonsanfru
QUIT LIVING IN THE PAST... seriously. Quit asking about, quit wondering about her, SHE IS GONE FROM YOUR LIFE.

Thats really all there is, and ever will be. Sorry man some things in life have no easy answer, just have to accept the facts and fvcking deal. Time heals all wounds, but booze and babes make it go a little faster.
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Yeah but he sounds like he'd be crying in his beer and the last thing any girls wants to hear is that.

 
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