jlee
Lifer
If it isn't swing music, it isn't swing dancing. They play a lot of non-swing music here at "swing dances". The dancing reflects the lack of swing music (I'm not talking about WCS either).
The people aren't friendly. People don't engage in conversations with me when I am there, even if I ask them to dance or what not. The amount of people who ask me to dance is absurdly low.
Your experience in the WCS community might differ from mine in lindy hop.
Dancing is different than a MR2 club. I don't know what you guys do with your club but I can tell you that hosting a dance isn't somethin' that I can just do as an outsider with ease. I know you may think it's similar but doing it right is not at all something to take lightly. Requires good DJs, good teachers, a good venue, and a good organizer/promoter. All of that is hard to find here. EDIT: And all of that costs money... And I rather not waste what little money I have left on a stupid risk. It wouldn't do anything for me in any way.
I'm not even going to touch the fire hazard that is of the rest of what you said.
Nope, I didn't say it was similar. I just anticipated that you'd whine about hosting a dance being different than starting a social club. There are already established dance scenes here with dozens and dozens of people. There's no need to start a new one.
You likely aren't friendly either. Or maybe you're the guy who was creeping out my date at WCS a few months ago, I dunno. I'd forward you to the blues dance community because they are awesome - but you are, by all indications, a terribly negative person, so I don't want to contaminate the pool.
The beauty of WCS and blues is the versatility. Dance isn't about a stringent set of rules, IMHO. If it is to you, go do competitive...I dunno, ballet, or whatever the fuck has specific rules.
That's easy to do with everywhere. However, I don't like Phoenix.
I rather live in other places. SF and NYC are what I've been eyeing. Portland is what I was settling for before but the job market is horrendous even if you live there.
Pro-tip: then fucking leave!
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