Is your university life as boring as mine?

Blackroat

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All I do is go to school and come back home. There is nothing else. I have no chick friends, there is no activity. I take the bus get to school and after the lesson is finished, I again take the bus and get home. Its not like I am living an university life. My university life is this bad. Is yours as boring as mine or you have chick friends and have activites unlike me?
 
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lozina

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are you dorming?

if not, that's the world of difference. I commuted so my university life was pretty boring.
 

Franz316

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Pro tip: you can't watch life like television.

Yeah really. You're going need to get out there and do stuff like join clubs, play intramural sports, and really make an effort to meet people. College is the easiest time of your life to meet people and have an engaging life.
 

Scarpozzi

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I say, "Dress like those you want to be around."

You say you want chick friends? Go out and buy yourself a dress and a nice set of pumps. Make sure the heels aren't too high. You want to look comfortable and don't want to look like you're trying too hard.
 

gorcorps

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campus is where stuff happens

If you leave campus immediately, what would you expect?
 

Kaido

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I say, "Dress like those you want to be around."

You say you want chick friends? Go out and buy yourself a dress and a nice set of pumps. Make sure the heels aren't too high. You want to look comfortable and don't want to look like you're trying too hard.

Oh my gosh, the tears :D
 

Ns1

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that was me in community college. when i transferred I vowed for that to not happen again so I joined a fraternity.
 

Hugo Drax

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The problem with Fraternities is the whole gay shit that you have to let the guys do to you before you join.
 

z1ggy

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You're problem is you're commuting, to what I assume is a mainly live-on campus. If you're introverted, you'll prob have a hard time making friends and meeting up, so you're best bet is to join a school run club. Whether it be sports, debate team or whatever it may be, most colleges and universities have a club for you.

When I was in school, I was in a fraternity, ice hockey club, broomball club, another ice hockey team, and rugby club. I never had a dull moment for about 4yrs straight.
 

PieIsAwesome

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I commuted to school, went to class, took care of whatever business needed taking care of, then went home/work/errands/etc. I didn't mind at all. I liked it. My concern was getting my shit done, finding time for good sleep, and finding free time for fun and personal projects.

If you are unhappy then do something about it. If all you have is class to worry about then you have plenty of freedom to do whatever.
 

Exterous

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I think living on or near campus has a lot to do with it. I really enjoyed my two years in the dorms as there was always something interesting going on. Granted my dorm was co-ed and the females outnumbered the males 3:1* but I imagine thats generally the case. If you aren't around its hard to be more involved in fun aactivities

*additional bragging rights: Our dorm was right next to the all female dorm so we were the first stop when they wanted male companionship.

The two years off campus sucked but it was also a different university and I was in a college where it was expected that you spend at least 80 hours a week on school so that probably would have sucked regardless of where I stayed

And the fact that you have to pay monthly dues.

National Buy A Friend
 
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Blackroat

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I think living on or near campus has a lot to do with it. I really enjoyed my two years in the dorms as there was always something interesting going on. Granted my dorm was co-ed and the females outnumbered the males 3:1* but I imagine thats generally the case. If you aren't around its hard to be more involved in fun aactivities

*additional bragging rights: Our dorm was right next to the all female dorm so we were the first stop when they wanted male companionship.

The two years off campus sucked but it was also a different university and I was in a college where it was expected that you spend at least 80 hours a week on school so that probably would have sucked regardless of where I stayed



National Buy A Friend

You were with chicks?
 

doubledeluxe

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All I do is go to school and come back home. There is nothing else. I have no chick friends, there is no activity. I take the bus get to school and after the lesson is finished, I again take the bus and get home. Its not like I am living an university life. My university life is this bad. Is yours as boring as mine or you have chick friends and have activites unlike me?
Based on your two threads you are short, fat, socially awkward, not that bright, and you like to blame everything but yourself.

There. That's the truth.

Now go do something about it.
 

Blackroat

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Based on your two threads you are short, fat, socially awkward, not that bright, and you like to blame everything but yourself.

There. That's the truth.

Now go do something about it.

I am not short. I was not fat until last year but nothing had changed. This year I got fat but until last year I was not fat. Consider it. Nothing is changing
 

doubledeluxe

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Here's a pro-tip.

Woman want men who have some confidence. You need to lose weight, stop complaining, get dome hobbies and activities where you meet women, and practice your social skills with them. Get shot down 100 times? 101 might be it.

If you want to meet nice women you need to put a lot if effort in. They don't just come knock on your door.

Rather than go to prostitutes spend your money in something that will give you long term results like a gym membership. Want to blow cash to get some? Spend a weekend in a hostel in Istanbul. Go to ios or another Greek party island. With Turkish air and Pegasus you can get anywhere cheap.
 

Blackroat

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Here's a pro-tip.

Woman want men who have some confidence. You need to lose weight, stop complaining, get dome hobbies and activities where you meet women, and practice your social skills with them. Get shot down 100 times? 101 might be it.

If you want to meet nice women you need to put a lot if effort in. They don't just come knock on your door.

Rather than go to prostitutes spend your money in something that will give you long term results like a gym membership. Want to blow cash to get some? Spend a weekend in a hostel in Istanbul. Go to ios or another Greek party island. With Turkish air and Pegasus you can get anywhere cheap.

2 years ago I was 69 kilograms. Now I am 89 kilograms. I was 20 kilograms less than now. I have been in university for 3 years. In chemistry, most of students are girls but they talk to their own groups. I feel stupid when I try to talk to girls, they dont seem to want to be talking
 

doubledeluxe

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You meet most people outside of class at social events. I took chemistry at university too and unless you get a lucky lab partner that is not an ideal place to pick up women. A party, hooka lounge, hobby, club, etc? Now we're talking.

If you want to meet women in class take classes with lots of group projects.