Is your university life as boring as mine?

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doubledeluxe

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There's always time for a social life. We're talking an undergrad degree here I think. If he was working on his PhD I get it but he's in his early 20's and studying Chemistry. I knew guys who doubled in Chemistry and something else and they still had time to have fun. P chem might suck but there's really no excuse for not enjoying your undegrad years.
 

smakme7757

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Mine was pretty easy going. I went to the exam parties and any big social gathering, but didn't do much else. Of course I'd go to the pub with my mates from uni, but it was pretty easy going. Talking to chicks was never really a problem though :p

I just got smarter and ended up with a nice job and a few memories to go along with it.
 

M0oG0oGaiPan

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Dude,

The last person that I know of that talked like this did some very bad stuff at my daughters college. If you are trolling you need to stop.

If you are serious you need to go talk to a school counselor/therapist. They are free and everything is confidential.

good job taking it out of context. he's just saying he doesn't know how to approach girls to get them to hang out.

@op: what you should try is joining a club or two that interests you. talk to people. doesn't have to be girls. get to know other bros or whatever and you will probably get invited to events/parties where you can meet girls in a casual environment.

and with girls be nice to all of them even the ugly ones because they'll tell their hot friends how nice you are. if you're mean they'll tell them that too.

you can also try a meetup.com group or talking to a girl in your class. once you get more comfortable you can approach random girls around campus.

also try to make it a habit to ask a girl for her number early in your conversation. most girls are too nice to say no. they'll either give you their actual number or they'll give you a fake number (rarely).
 

Mai72

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Guide to Get the Honies:

1. Hang out on ATOT
2. Learn the tricks we tell you
3. Invite the honies over
4. Talk smooth and use our tricks
5. Profit

 

Stopsignhank

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I am not really sure if I want to answer that. I don't know if I want to give him ideas.

These are the words that the person I wrote about said in his diary.

I was desperate to have the life I know I deserve; a life of being wanted by attractive girls, a life of sex and love. Other men are able to have such a life ... so why not me? I deserve it! I am magnificent, no matter how much the world treated me otherwise. I am destined for great things
 

M0oG0oGaiPan

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Would it be Alky?

DJFuji

Darren “DJ” Fuji is an internationally-acclaimed motivational speaker and confidence/dating coach. He’s been featured in popular media including the New York Times, VH1, Gothamist, ABC Nightline, and The Dr. Phil Show.
Darren’s structured, disciplined background comes from being both a United States Marine Corps Sergeant and a black belt with over a decade of martial arts training. He combines this “tough love” approach with professional experience in counseling, mentorship, and leadership coaching to provide his clients with actionable solutions, success-driven principles, and most importantly, real-world results.
 

mmntech

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I was a commuter student. I treated University like it was a job. Got up, drove in, went home. Lather, rinse, repeat.

Community college was a lot more fun since it was hands on. Even then, I never really participated in extra curricular activities.
 

Mai72

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DJFuji

Darren “DJ” Fuji is an internationally-acclaimed motivational speaker and confidence/dating coach. He’s been featured in popular media including the New York Times, VH1, Gothamist, ABC Nightline, and The Dr. Phil Show.
Darren’s structured, disciplined background comes from being both a United States Marine Corps Sergeant and a black belt with over a decade of martial arts training. He combines this “tough love” approach with professional experience in counseling, mentorship, and leadership coaching to provide his clients with actionable solutions, success-driven principles, and most importantly, real-world results.
He posts on ATOT?

 

HamburgerBoy

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Apr 12, 2004
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Dude,

The last person that I know of that talked like this did some very bad stuff at my daughters college. If you are trolling you need to stop.

If you are serious you need to go talk to a school counselor/therapist. They are free and everything is confidential.

Yeah, I'd like to know what kind of "very bad stuff" as well.

PS op, school counselors don't keep everything confidential. Be careful with what you discuss.