So, I was talking to a co-worker the other day about the lead singer for Smasking Pumpkins and described him as a little wuss. My co-worker, who is gay, threw a little temper tantrum and said that using that type of language was inflammatory towards gay people and that I should take the time to tolerate people that are different. My reaction was one of shock, I had no intention of offending him and do not see his point at all..