Is it wrong..

[her209]

But what if Mary wants to date Jane?

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Kwan1

On the other hand, who wants some other dude, sitting on the side lines, chipping away at your relationship whenever a disagreement arises "He's so unreasonable, I'd never do that. What as ass...you know what I heard..." blah, blah, blah.

It its your responsibilty to keep your SO happy, if you can't you have no one to blame for your incompetence.

nah.

We know this scenario...it breaks marriages and even the strongest of relationships. After all the counseling I've done and taken there is one constant that keeps being brought up.

"Any relationship/marriage no matter how strong will not survive if a third party is trying to undermine it"

Every relationship has tough times, and it is IMHO a dispicable persone who pounces on a woman during those times.

 

[imported_vr6]

haha your their B!tch.

Right you can't keep your SO happy all the time.
It is when you find someone that realizes you are the best choice for them, no matter what anybody does or says, you have found the person that will end your dating life, and start your family.

edit-- that bitch comment was for krunchykrome

 

[LeetViet]

Originally posted by: freesia39
if mary was your girlfriend, would you want John making a move on her?

of course its friggin disrespectful to go out with someone else's gf. she's already going out with someone else! if she says yes, who's to say she won't do the same thing again to the next guy.

:light:

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Yes, it is wrong.

 

[isasir]

Two things.

1. I think that if you know that someone has a bf/gf but you ask the person out anyways, it's up to the person to lay down the law that he or she is with someone. If that is done, then you shouldn't pursue. If for whatever reason, the person decides to say yes, then yeah, I guess to a certain extent I can see your point.

2. At the same time, I do think it's wrong if you were to purposely wait until a point that you know this person is weak (ie: You know they just had a fight with their significant other) and you use that to your advantage. To me, that's just playing dirty.

So overall, I think it's still wrong, but there are some exceptions.