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Fingolfin269
Lifer
WTF, of course you're going to jump ship. Hell, anyone who is married has probably 'jumped ship' before. It's called DATING. We aren't talking about trying to make a move on someone's wife.
imported_vr6
Platinum Member
what does kicking johns ass have to do with this. It is not johns fault for getting what he wants, it is peters fault for not be the best "option"
to tomato,
If you don't try and get what you want, you will never get it.
Of course marriage draws the line, this is all during the dating and relationship period.
to tomato,
If you don't try and get what you want, you will never get it.
Of course marriage draws the line, this is all during the dating and relationship period.
PhlashFoto
Diamond Member
Yea, um one guy tried to hit on this girl i was with in front of my face while me her and a few of my friends her at a bar back in March. One of my friends I was hangout with knew him. Told all my friend that very same line. So i walk up to him and I told the lil b*tch, "Yep all is fair in an a$$ beating".
😀
Well this all depends.
John and Peter are friends - no brainer NO.
However if they aren't friends. Peter is going to be pissed, and John might want to watch out.
Ring or not, a relationship is a relationship.
Second problem, if Mary is in a relationship and is willing to stray, then whats to say she won't
find someone better than John down the road and John will then be in Peters position (probably bitching
about how someone is trying to steal his girlfriend).
John and Peter are friends - no brainer NO.
However if they aren't friends. Peter is going to be pissed, and John might want to watch out.
Ring or not, a relationship is a relationship.
Second problem, if Mary is in a relationship and is willing to stray, then whats to say she won't
find someone better than John down the road and John will then be in Peters position (probably bitching
about how someone is trying to steal his girlfriend).
imported_vr6
Platinum Member
If my g/f was presented with a better "option" then me, i would have no problem with it. I wouldn't even blame the guy for making the move.
I might not be very happy with it, but it is only human to be selfish when it comes to happiness.
I might not be very happy with it, but it is only human to be selfish when it comes to happiness.
Fingolfin269
Lifer
Jesus Christ people. Isn't the point of DATING to find 'someone better down the road'? If you don't find someone better or find yourself not bothering to look then that means you're more than likely with the right person.
I'm starting to wonder if people on these forums know what 'dating' is an what 'dating' is not.
imported_Tomato
Diamond Member
Sure, but you're not entitled to get what you want. Hell, I want a private yacht, but I'm sure not entitled to it. I'm going to work hard and try to get one, but I'm not entitled to it.
imported_vr6
Platinum Member
This is how i Lost my last g.f and i know how it is. I have no grudges agains her new b/f but i was engulfed in flame for being John this time around.
Fingolfin269
Lifer
Well, the situation of the dumped guy sucks, but that doesn't mean it's the other guys fault (as you seem to already be aware of).
imported_vr6
Platinum Member
I never said i was entitiled to get what i want, i am saying that it is not wrong to pursue something that you do want.
imported_vr6
Platinum Member
I never said i was entitiled to get what i want, i am saying that it is not wrong to pursue something that you do want.
PingSpike
Lifer
First of all: John should expect to potentially receive an ass beating regardless of the outcome, and he should expect it to be an unfair fight that he isn't prepared for.
Second of all: John knows damn well he's being an asshole, he just doesn't care. He can justify it in is his head all he wants, but he is being an asshole.
Third of all: Assuming John actually gets Mary...what is he actually getting? Mary has proven herself to be a weak and unfaithful person by succumbing to him without first breaking off things with Peter, thus her only suitable use at this point is a quick lay. She is not girlfriend material.
So is summary, John wants tail and gets off on destroying other people's relationships while aquiring it. Mary is probably one of those self esteem devoid women who like to jump from one relationship directly to another because she lacks any ability to function as a unit on her own. And Peter probably should have seen it coming a long time ago.
Second of all: John knows damn well he's being an asshole, he just doesn't care. He can justify it in is his head all he wants, but he is being an asshole.
Third of all: Assuming John actually gets Mary...what is he actually getting? Mary has proven herself to be a weak and unfaithful person by succumbing to him without first breaking off things with Peter, thus her only suitable use at this point is a quick lay. She is not girlfriend material.
So is summary, John wants tail and gets off on destroying other people's relationships while aquiring it. Mary is probably one of those self esteem devoid women who like to jump from one relationship directly to another because she lacks any ability to function as a unit on her own. And Peter probably should have seen it coming a long time ago.
universal truth:
"if she did it to him, she'll do it to you"
Meaning if you "steal" somebody's girl she will eventually be "stolen" from you.
Yes its wrong and dispicable if you pursue a woman in a committed relationship. But if they're just casually dating then is acceptible.
"if she did it to him, she'll do it to you"
Meaning if you "steal" somebody's girl she will eventually be "stolen" from you.
Yes its wrong and dispicable if you pursue a woman in a committed relationship. But if they're just casually dating then is acceptible.
SociallyChallenged
Elite
Elaborate. You can't help what your heart is feeling. Why should you have to suffer because you have feelings for someone? If you can get her away from her boyfriend, then it was worth it.
Fingolfin269
Lifer
Rofl.
imported_vr6
Platinum Member
This is not a thread seeking advice, it is a discussion on peoples opinion.
If i was John, i will not be committed to mary until she is broken off with peter.
The point of "she did it to him, she'll probably do it to you." is not legit.
Chances are your mom and your dad went through something like this themselfs, but they are together aren;t they? It is the point of dating. It is when you get married you decided that you have found the best "option" for yourself and that your are gonna stop searching for others.
If i was John, i will not be committed to mary until she is broken off with peter.
The point of "she did it to him, she'll probably do it to you." is not legit.
Chances are your mom and your dad went through something like this themselfs, but they are together aren;t they? It is the point of dating. It is when you get married you decided that you have found the best "option" for yourself and that your are gonna stop searching for others.
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