Is it wrong to L_ v _ a married woman?

[SuperCyrix]

Not saying it's me, but just curious.
I read somewhere on the Bible that God says it's better to pluck out your eyeballs.

 

[goog40]

Can't bring yourself to say the L word?

 

[SuperCyrix]

<< I don't think so.. >>



so your for the pluck the eye approach?

 

[Whitecloak]

fun but dangerous

 

[SuperCyrix]

what if she feels the same way about you?

 

[IBuyUFO]

It's just morally wrong! How would you feel if some guy loved your wife?

 

[mjquilly]

No.

 

[adams]

I think its natural for people to have feeling and emotions. However, one must learn to act responsibly in dealing with those emotions. Just because you happen to feel things when you're around a women, doesn't mean you need to act on those feelings.

 

[JohnnyKnoxville]

It is perfectly alright.Most women are looking for some action on the side especially if their hubbys do nothing but sit in front of the TV and watch sports.

 

[SuperCyrix]

<< The EXACT same way or the way in which she wants to be with me instead of her husband? >>



whooooooa...let's first all make sure it's not me......ok cool

Just curious, what if a man and a woman want to be with each other, but for some strange reason that can happen so she marries somebody else she doesn't like as much.

Be it wrong for him to still like her?

 

[SuperCyrix]

is this the kinda thing that's a Springer episode waiting to happen?

 

[SuperCyrix]

err..circumstance?

circumstance of what?

 

[pulpp]

if she is married, then you should find the decency in yourself to respect her and repsect yourself enough to not get involved in anything.

just what i think. if you love her you would respect her too, which means you wouldnt want her to be in such a situation.

 

[MrCodeDude]

I think it's okay if you love the married woman, however if she loves you, I think that's a lot worse.
-- mrcodedude

 

[SuperCyrix]

oh..lets say the dude's afraid to get married and she want's to.

 

[HelloBrother]

mrcodedude - that was super

 

[Johnlee]

<< It is perfectly alright.Most women are looking for some action on the side especially if their hubbys do nothing but sit in front of the TV and watch sports >>



LOL! I'm not sure about &quot;most women&quot;, however, that is more of a truism than anything else I've seen you post. (And I bet more prevelant than a lot of you wish to believe)

A married woman is in love with me. (an ex) But that wasn't the question.

 

[Siva]

My mom's married, and I love her. Is that wrong?

 

[geno]

<< My mom's married, and I love her. Is that wrong? >>


Just don't love her in the wrong way and you'll be all set.

 

[Isla]

Sigh.

Some people are fortunate enough to marry their 'soul mate' if such a thing exists, but most of us forge partnerships based on more practical things, like shared goals and values.

I have been foolish in my youth and twice 'married in haste and repented at leisure' only the difference is with the Mister, I have learned that sometimes the struggles between you are what make you better people.

There is someone in my heart who will stay there for the rest of my life, whether I want him to or not. The Mister knows about this as it is part of our history together. The love I carry for him is not wasted... it reminds me that my own flaws--- impulsiveness and impatience--- cost me what might have been with him. At the same time, I wonder if he is out there remembering me... and realizing that his indecision and inability to commit cost him dearly as well. I forgive him and I hope he's forgiven me... I sincerely hope that wherever he is, he is happy.

Above all, the shared commitment the Mister and I have to supporting each other and our children is what I value most. There was a time when the Mister and I did not have what we have now, but time has forged a stronger bond between us than I thought was possible. Really... imagine a marriage between Russ and Isla... there you have the Mister and me. (Russ, don't take offense, as I mean it most respectfully)It's not what either of us expected but yet we have created something better together than we could have separately. Even my neighbor commented on it... she said she would never have picked us out as a couple if she didn't know we were married... yet we make it work.

So, to make a long story short... love is never 'wrong'. If you go by the definition of love in Corinthians, love has the power to heal. Being irresponsible and dishonest is wrong, but love--by the definition I use-- is always a blessing.