Is it weird to sleep (non sexually) with females who aren't your GF? (UPDATED)

[deerslayer]

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Or, you could just ask your roommate wtf is going on.

I'm with him, just ask him, and tell us the results.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Azndude51
First of all, my roommate isn't currently dating anyone and he is my friend, though not close friend. We have three beds in our single room dorm room because one of our roommates moved out.

My roommate recently had one of his female friends sleep over about 4 times in 1.5 weeks. For reasons I'm not going into, I know for a fact they aren't in a relationship. They slept in the same bed, even though there was an extra bed in the room. They seemed pretty close and looked like they could've cuddling. Obviously no sex, kissing, etc. since I was in the room the whole time.

Now, there's another chick who has slept over 3-4 nights in a row (I wasn't here for a night) who actually has a boyfriend. My roommate and this new girl are really good friends since they talk ALL the time on the phone. They also slept in the same bed in the same manner, though the first night my roommate slept on the 3rd bed.


Cliffs:
Roommate in dorm has 2 girls sleep over (at seperate times) who I know as a fact aren't dating him, one has boyfriend.
We have 1 extra bed, yet they sleep under the same blanket in his bed.
Possible cuddling occurs, but no kissing or anything else goes on as I am in the same room the whole time.


Do you think this is weird? I don't really mind since it doesn't really affect me that much that they are here, but I didn't think this was very normal to have girls over so often who aren't dating you (or having sex). Even my roommate last year had a girlfriend and she only slept over 2-3 times the entire year.

somebody is jealous

 

[Aikouka]

Originally posted by: fuzzybabybunny
Cuddle buddies

Yeah, Fuzzy, it seems some of us went to college .

 

[Hyperlite]

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: George P Burdell

Originally posted by: mobobuff
Either way, he's sleeping with chicks, he's doing something right. :thumbsup:

/thread

QFT

X2!

 

[skyking]

This is quite remarkable, over a dozen posts and no pic requests.

 

[bignateyk]

A girl asked me if I would be her "cuddle buddy" once. That quickly turned into "fvck buddy"

Oh, and my roomate also did this on occasion. He had a girlfriend, but he also had a few really close female friends from highschool who would come up sometimes, and since we didnt have any spare beds in our dorm, they would share his.

 

[tfinch2]

You should be taking notes OP. It sounds like your well is dry.

 

[MangoTBG]

Reply to topic:

No, what's weird is that you are so obsessed with what your roommate is doing sexually. Are you jealous of the girls?

 

[Jeeebus]

It's not just the girls he's having sex with at night that you're unaware of...

 

[tfinch2]

Originally posted by: Jeeebus
It's not just the girls he's having sex with at night that you're unaware of...

Does the OP walk funny to the bathroom in the morning? :shocked:

 

[MercenaryForHire]

So many QFTs I can't pick just one, so I'll bullet-point them:
- You're jealous
- Take notes and learn from the master
- He's doing her while you sleep
- And the other one too



- M4H

 

[khas]

I met a guy at my old job who mentioned that there was one girl (maybe more, i don't know) who would sleep in his bed occasionally as a cuddle buddy, but said he didn't get any action from her. He said he was basically being used as emotional support. I think that girl had a boyfriend, too.

So... the OP's roommate MIGHT be getting it on with these girls, or might really be a cuddle-buddy.

Cuddle buddy seems weird to me, why not date? And what's with the girl with the BF? That just doesn't seem kosher in a relationship to me.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

I stopped reading after you said I know nothing is going on between them because one of them has a boyfriend.......

 

[shortylickens]

This whole thread is officially:
LAUGH OUT LOUD!

 

[miniMUNCH]

A screen door in the wind, young grasshopper, a screen door in the wind...

 

[AMCRambler]

1. Next time they're cuddling quietly slip into bed next to them.
2. ...
3. Profit!

 

[erub]

The first girl I ever slept in the same bed with, I never did anything with, and we are still friends. She's too annoying to date. On random occasions throughout college she would spend the night in my bed, sometimes even when both of us had SO's, who may/may not have known about it. Every other girl though that spent the night, though, somethin was going on

 

[K1052]

options:

1. He is a cuddle bitch
2. He is gay
3. He is knocking the bottom out of it when you go to sleep

without further evidence it is impossible to know which

 

[CraigRT]

haha, that sounds like much fun.... props to buddy if he's not ghey

 

[zephyrprime]

They're probably just having sex while you are gone and holding themselves back out of politeness while you are around. Be glad that they aren't going at it while you are there.

 

[CKent]

Originally posted by: Gooberlx2

Obviously no sex, kissing, etc. since I was in the room the whole time.

That's not obvious at all. I've gone to town with a couple girls in the presence of a sleeping roommate. It's not terribly difficult to remain quiet.

Lol... When I lived in a quad one of our roommates and his g/f started going at it one night. My other 2 roommates and me, and one of the other roommate's g/fs who was staying over (but not fscking his brains out), all started coughing comically loudly but these 2 were so in heat they'd just slow down for a sec when it sounded like one of us was going to come up with a lung. They finally finished and we were all able to go to sleep...

Moral of the story: You're not as quiet as you think

 

[IceBergSLiM]

The real question here is why don't you leave so your roomate can hit it if he isn't already doing so?

you suck at roomating.

 

[Journer]

hop in his bed and see what happens. if he goes after you, he is gay....if he lets you join in and there is fun for all...he might be only bi, lol

 

[Mo0o]

have a a friend that does it too, what's weird is that he's in a long distance relationship w/ another girl. awkward if yo uask me

 

[SirStev0]

Originally posted by: Aquaman
Cliffs are as long as the OP :Q

Cheers,
Aquaman

thats what I thought!