First of all, my roommate isn't currently dating anyone and he is my friend, though not close friend. We have three beds in our single room dorm room because one of our roommates moved out.
My roommate recently had one of his female friends sleep over about 4 times in 1.5 weeks. For reasons I'm not going into, I know for a fact they aren't in a relationship. They slept in the same bed, even though there was an extra bed in the room. They seemed pretty close and looked like they could've cuddling. Obviously no sex, kissing, etc. since I was in the room the whole time.
Now, there's another chick who has slept over 3-4 nights in a row (I wasn't here for a night) who actually has a boyfriend. My roommate and this new girl are really good friends since they talk ALL the time on the phone. They also slept in the same bed in the same manner, though the first night my roommate slept on the 3rd bed.
Cliffs:
Roommate in dorm has 2 girls sleep over (at seperate times) who I know as a fact aren't dating him, one has boyfriend.
We have 1 extra bed, yet they sleep under the same blanket in his bed.
Possible cuddling occurs, but no kissing or anything else goes on as I am in the same room the whole time.
Do you think this is weird? I don't really mind since it doesn't really affect me that much that they are here, but I didn't think this was very normal to have girls over so often who aren't dating you (or having sex). Even my roommate last year had a girlfriend and she only slept over 2-3 times the entire year.
EDIT:
I can confirm that the first girl = cuddle buddy
Normally when I wake up, the girls are usually gone.
Today, I didn't go to my 9:30 morning lab because it was cancelled. I woke up about 10:45 and heared what could be described as slurping. I peeked over and they (him and the 2nd girl) were making out. Last night I remember her saying that she was going to set the alarm to 9:30. So, I'm assuming that they were going to wait until I went to class before doing anything. But since I didn't go they decided to just make out. Either way I woke up and got out of there real fast to give them some alone time so she could cheat on her BF.
My roommate recently had one of his female friends sleep over about 4 times in 1.5 weeks. For reasons I'm not going into, I know for a fact they aren't in a relationship. They slept in the same bed, even though there was an extra bed in the room. They seemed pretty close and looked like they could've cuddling. Obviously no sex, kissing, etc. since I was in the room the whole time.
Now, there's another chick who has slept over 3-4 nights in a row (I wasn't here for a night) who actually has a boyfriend. My roommate and this new girl are really good friends since they talk ALL the time on the phone. They also slept in the same bed in the same manner, though the first night my roommate slept on the 3rd bed.
Cliffs:
Roommate in dorm has 2 girls sleep over (at seperate times) who I know as a fact aren't dating him, one has boyfriend.
We have 1 extra bed, yet they sleep under the same blanket in his bed.
Possible cuddling occurs, but no kissing or anything else goes on as I am in the same room the whole time.
Do you think this is weird? I don't really mind since it doesn't really affect me that much that they are here, but I didn't think this was very normal to have girls over so often who aren't dating you (or having sex). Even my roommate last year had a girlfriend and she only slept over 2-3 times the entire year.
EDIT:
I can confirm that the first girl = cuddle buddy
Normally when I wake up, the girls are usually gone.
Today, I didn't go to my 9:30 morning lab because it was cancelled. I woke up about 10:45 and heared what could be described as slurping. I peeked over and they (him and the 2nd girl) were making out. Last night I remember her saying that she was going to set the alarm to 9:30. So, I'm assuming that they were going to wait until I went to class before doing anything. But since I didn't go they decided to just make out. Either way I woke up and got out of there real fast to give them some alone time so she could cheat on her BF.
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