Is it true that women have two different types of orgasms?

[djheater]

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[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile

Originally posted by: Pocahontas
Ohmygosh ...

It's like asking , which comes first the chicken or the egg?

As long as you are a man you will never understand. Some women (thankfully) not I .. have figured their own bodies out, but a man attempting .. Its a great effort, but a waste of time sweetie.

The whole point of you learning about your own body is to then convey that info to your SO, correct? Or do you mean that men just don't have the patience to absorb that information and use it properly, while women can?

No, no, no...they're just suppose to figure it out without any help at all. You know, innately know it.

 

[Pocahontas]

Of course you can absorb, but I'm not into "teaching"



In a good relationship, it just works.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: J Heartless Slick
Freud said that women had two kinds, vaginal and clitorial.

Masters and Johnson said it was all clitorial with the "vaginal" orgasm being the result of indirect stimulation of the clitoris.

My experience with women agrees with Master and Johnson.

Freud was a freak. i'm with M&J, too, but there are two different types of stimulation that lead to an orgasm.

Yeah I don't know why people are always saying 'Freud said this' because roughly 90% of what Freud said was wrong, as he didn't do any research.

Kudos to him for being the father of phsycology and all, but even I could sit around and make sh|t up and be right 10% of the time.

 

[GTaudiophile]

Originally posted by: Pocahontas
Of course you can absorb, but I'm not into "teaching"



In a good relationship, it just works.

Sorry, but in a good relationship, the lines of communication are wide open, even in bed. And experimentation is frequent: let's try this, now let's try that. And this communication is based on what we know feels good.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Pocahontas
Of course you can absorb, but I'm not into "teaching"



In a good relationship, it just works.

This is why women have bad sex.

 

[Lola]

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile

Originally posted by: Pocahontas
Ohmygosh ...

It's like asking , which comes first the chicken or the egg?

As long as you are a man you will never understand. Some women (thankfully) not I .. have figured their own bodies out, but a man attempting .. Its a great effort, but a waste of time sweetie.

The whole point of you learning about your own body is to then convey that info to your SO, correct? Or do you mean that men just don't have the patience to absorb that information and use it properly, while women can?

I think you have something, however, i think its important for anyone, man or woman to know their bodies, if not only to know when something is not right.

I also think its nice for one to know about their body and give that knowledge to the one they are most intimate with. Also, i think that most men want to learn to please their s/o so anything a female gives them, should be pretty well taken!

 

[Ricochet]

Originally posted by: Red
My girlfriend has been with a moderate amount of guys before me..

That's an understatement.

Anyway, with all this talk about giving girls orgasm. Who cares? As long as I get off, that's all that matters.

 

[GTaudiophile]

Originally posted by: ricochet

Originally posted by: Red
My girlfriend has been with a moderate amount of guys before me..

That's an understatement.

Anyway, with all this talk about giving girls orgasm. Who cares? As long as I get off, that's all that matters.

Selfish SOB! Good luck maintaining any kind of long-term relationship with that attitude! I'm sorry, but when it comes to sex, it's better to give than receive IMO.

 

[Red]

Selfish SOB! Good luck maintaining any kind of long-term relationship with that attitude! I'm sorry, but when it comes to sex, it's better to give than receive IMO.

Agreed.

 

[ArmchairAthlete]

All I can say is...

fa p fa p fa p

 

[NFS4]

Originally posted by: nourdmrolNMT1

Originally posted by: Red
I don't want to be locked, I'm genuinely curious about this because I've heard so much conflicted FUD. My g/f doesn't think there is a g-spot, she thinks her clitoral orgams are as good as it gets, she really enjoys them. However, another girl I talk to in my PR society went into this in depth g-spot versus clitoral orgasm speech and it made me totally rethink things.

ok here we go. from my reading/experience

when you do the fingering, put one in, bend it towards like making a fist, however, dont move in and out apply direct pressur, you will see a reaction almost guarenteed. use thumb on the clit for better action

myabe go for two if you can move fingers in multiple ways at once, apply direct pressur with one, and and use the other to "twiddle" around in there

MIKE

:thumbsup::thumbsup::beer: Have always had good luck with that one. Two fingers is optimal, but three is quite a tight fit but still works.

 

[GTaudiophile]

Originally posted by: NFS4

Originally posted by: nourdmrolNMT1

Originally posted by: Red
I don't want to be locked, I'm genuinely curious about this because I've heard so much conflicted FUD. My g/f doesn't think there is a g-spot, she thinks her clitoral orgams are as good as it gets, she really enjoys them. However, another girl I talk to in my PR society went into this in depth g-spot versus clitoral orgasm speech and it made me totally rethink things.

ok here we go. from my reading/experience

when you do the fingering, put one in, bend it towards like making a fist, however, dont move in and out apply direct pressur, you will see a reaction almost guarenteed. use thumb on the clit for better action

myabe go for two if you can move fingers in multiple ways at once, apply direct pressur with one, and and use the other to "twiddle" around in there

MIKE

:thumbsup::thumbsup::beer: Have always had good luck with that one. Two fingers is optimal, but three is quite a tight fit but still works.

Agreed. One hand there, the other on her breasts, or fingers in her mouth, or elsewhere...

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: NFS4

:thumbsup::thumbsup::beer: Have always had good luck with that one. Two fingers is optimal, but three is quite a tight fit but still works. Unfortunately afterwards my fingers always smell like sh!t. Am I doing something wrong?

:shocked: Nanjiska (Japanese for wrong hole)

 

[NFS4]

What's really interesting is that this has been a rather calm, informative and intellectual discussion without degrading into kiddie banter and nonsense.

Let's keep it this way!

 

[Red]

Originally posted by: NFS4
What's really interesting is that this has been a rather calm, informative and intellectual discussion without degrading into kiddie banter and nonsense.

Let's keep it this way!

Definitely. NFS, are you saying to do a type of "come hither, come here" motion with your fingers? Kind of like tickling the upper wall?

EDIT: Or do you do just press/pulsate your finger on the upper wall?

 

[Lola]

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile

Originally posted by: NFS4

Originally posted by: nourdmrolNMT1

Originally posted by: Red
I don't want to be locked, I'm genuinely curious about this because I've heard so much conflicted FUD. My g/f doesn't think there is a g-spot, she thinks her clitoral orgams are as good as it gets, she really enjoys them. However, another girl I talk to in my PR society went into this in depth g-spot versus clitoral orgasm speech and it made me totally rethink things.

ok here we go. from my reading/experience

when you do the fingering, put one in, bend it towards like making a fist, however, dont move in and out apply direct pressur, you will see a reaction almost guarenteed. use thumb on the clit for better action

myabe go for two if you can move fingers in multiple ways at once, apply direct pressur with one, and and use the other to "twiddle" around in there

MIKE

:thumbsup::thumbsup::beer: Have always had good luck with that one. Two fingers is optimal, but three is quite a tight fit but still works.

Agreed. One hand there, the other on her breasts, or fingers in her mouth, or elsewhere...

Try stroking with that way too. Long strokes that lead to shorter ones.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: NFS4
What's really interesting is that this has been a rather calm, informative and intellectual discussion without degrading into kiddie banter and nonsense.

Let's keep it this way!

Sorry
:frown:

 

[NFS4]

Originally posted by: Red

Originally posted by: NFS4
What's really interesting is that this has been a rather calm, informative and intellectual discussion without degrading into kiddie banter and nonsense.

Let's keep it this way!

Definitely. NFS, are you saying to do a type of "come hither, come here" motion with your fingers? Kind of like tickling the upper wall?

EDIT: Or do you do just press/pulsate your finger on the upper wall?

Yes. Facing her, turn your hand so that your palm is facing up. Stick in two fingers then bend them back towards you pressing up against her inner wall. Apply strong pressure with the two fingers, then press in your thumb over (well, you know) and rub it around as fast or as slowly as you (and she'd like). That's sure to make her squeal.

 

[Red]

Yes. Facing her, turn your hand so that your palm is facing up. Stick in two fingers then bend them back towards you pressing up against her inner wall. Apply strong pressure with the two fingers, then press in your thumb over (well, you know) and rub it around as fast or as slowly as you (and she'd like). That's sure to make her squeal.

See, I make her squeal now just using two fingers/thumb on the clit, she never likes me to put my fingers "inside" so I need to tell her to relax and let me show her how it feels =)

 

[GTaudiophile]

Originally posted by: Red

Originally posted by: NFS4
What's really interesting is that this has been a rather calm, informative and intellectual discussion without degrading into kiddie banter and nonsense.

Let's keep it this way!

Definitely. NFS, are you saying to do a type of "come hither, come here" motion with your fingers? Kind of like tickling the upper wall?

EDIT: Or do you do just press/pulsate your finger on the upper wall?

I prefer to use the "come here" motion with my right pointer finger and gently press lightly on the upper wall, making small, tight circles with the tip of that finger

 

[UlricT]

Originally posted by: vood0g

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
I tend to disbelieve the g spot thing, it's a myth.

The reason she gets off on top is because women can control the clitoral stimulation much more precisely and work up to an orgasm.

However, orgasms can be triggered by other things, one of the surveys I read made note of the mental component of orgasms, one of their subjects had mastered the mental aspect so completely that he was able to achieve an orgasm by simply touching his penis once with one finger..

I don't know/haven't met any women with that degree of control myself.

The best part is the experimenting, Red

WTF? whats the fun in that?

poor guy... and they talk about minutemen!

/edit: oh yeah, must be real hard for him to pee

 

[meltdown75]

Originally posted by: rhino56
gayest thread ever

for some reason i am nodding in agreement...

Originally posted by: ArmchairAthlete
All I can say is...
fa p fa p fa p

:laugh:

i'm emabrassed at the LOD in this thread, but whatever. hope your chickie never finds out you posted this. if she's cool with it, maybe you're exhibitionists waiting to happen.

OMFG x infinity

 

[Kelemvor]

Originally posted by: Injury
Yes, real and fake. jk

That's the first thing I thought of too.

 

[NFS4]

Originally posted by: meltdown75

Originally posted by: rhino56
gayest thread ever

for some reason i am nodding in agreement...

Originally posted by: ArmchairAthlete
All I can say is...
fa p fa p fa p

:laugh:

i'm emabrassed at the LOD in this thread, but whatever. hope your chickie never finds out you posted this. if she's cool with it, maybe you're exhibitionists waiting to happen.

OMFG x infinity

What's wrong with an open discussion on what most people of age do anyway?