Is it true that women have two different types of orgasms?

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moshquerade

No Lifer
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Originally posted by: ricochet
Originally posted by: Red
My girlfriend has been with a moderate amount of guys before me..

That's an understatement.

Anyway, with all this talk about giving girls orgasm. Who cares? As long as I get off, that's all that matters.
you are a total loser.
 

SP33Demon

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Red
Originally posted by: NFS4
What's really interesting is that this has been a rather calm, informative and intellectual discussion without degrading into kiddie banter and nonsense.

Let's keep it this way!

Definitely. NFS, are you saying to do a type of "come hither, come here" motion with your fingers? Kind of like tickling the upper wall?

EDIT: Or do you do just press/pulsate your finger on the upper wall?

I prefer to use the "come here" motion with my right pointer finger and gently press lightly on the upper wall, making small, tight circles with the tip of that finger
Also, at the same time use your other hand to caress the "button", if you know what I mean. You want to go it laterally, not vertically for better stimulation. Of course, the circle action will always work as well ;)

 

GTaudiophile

Lifer
Oct 24, 2000
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Red
Originally posted by: NFS4
What's really interesting is that this has been a rather calm, informative and intellectual discussion without degrading into kiddie banter and nonsense.

Let's keep it this way!

Definitely. NFS, are you saying to do a type of "come hither, come here" motion with your fingers? Kind of like tickling the upper wall?

EDIT: Or do you do just press/pulsate your finger on the upper wall?

I prefer to use the "come here" motion with my right pointer finger and gently press lightly on the upper wall, making small, tight circles with the tip of that finger
Also, at the same time use your other hand to caress the "button", if you know what I mean. You want to go it laterally, not vertically for better stimulation. Of course, the circle action will always work as well ;)

Of course, use the thumb for that. Clitoral stimulation is a given...felt there was no need to even mention it.
 

illustri

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you know my hand gets tired doing the things discussed here, that kind of stimulation seems great for foreplay and starters but I always finish with my penis

now cunnilingus is something more enjoyable, i don't have to strain as much and can easily go beginning to end without feeling uncomfortable

/or maybe I should get in better shape
 

NakaNaka

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Originally posted by: Red
Originally posted by: JohnCU
there is no such thing as a g-spot.

<- has the book, "Sex for Dummies":thumbsup:

So I've been searching for a myth? :Q

If you think there's no GSpot then you are obviously doing something wrong. Using the right position, I have given my gf back to back to back g-spot orgasms.

There are 3 orgasms: Vaginal, Clitoral, G-Spot. All feel different.
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
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Originally posted by: illustri
you know my hand gets tired doing the things discussed here, that kind of stimulation seems great for foreplay and starters but I always finish with my penis

now cunnilingus is something more enjoyable, i don't have to strain as much and can easily go beginning to end without feeling uncomfortable

/or maybe I should get in better shape
umm... yeh.... you need to work on your endurance.

 

GTaudiophile

Lifer
Oct 24, 2000
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Originally posted by: illustri
you know my hand gets tired doing the things discussed here, that kind of stimulation seems great for foreplay and starters but I always finish with my penis

now cunnilingus is something more enjoyable, i don't have to strain as much and can easily go beginning to end without feeling uncomfortable

/or maybe I should get in better shape

Perhaps you need to slow down, breathe, and stretch out the entire experience. Don't get into a frenzied rush.
 

GTaudiophile

Lifer
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Originally posted by: NakaNaka
Originally posted by: Red
Originally posted by: JohnCU
there is no such thing as a g-spot.

<- has the book, "Sex for Dummies":thumbsup:

So I've been searching for a myth? :Q

If you think there's no GSpot then you are obviously doing something wrong. Using the right position, I have given my gf back to back to back g-spot orgasms.

There are 3 orgasms: Vaginal, Clitoral, G-Spot. All feel different.

Life is so damned unfair for men :(
 

illustri

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: illustri
you know my hand gets tired doing the things discussed here, that kind of stimulation seems great for foreplay and starters but I always finish with my penis

now cunnilingus is something more enjoyable, i don't have to strain as much and can easily go beginning to end without feeling uncomfortable

/or maybe I should get in better shape
umm... yeh.... you need to work on your endurance.

for what my fingers and forearm? if anything I'm at fault for not orgasm'ing, and when she's finished with that dreamy wet look in her eyes its a disincentive to do anything else but cuddle
 

Adul

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i dunno, I seem to be able to find that right spot my girlfriend has ;) .

What i have notice is if you feel around, you will notice a spot with bumps on it. work that area and see what happens. :)
 

0roo0roo

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: NakaNaka
Originally posted by: Red
Originally posted by: JohnCU
there is no such thing as a g-spot.

<- has the book, "Sex for Dummies":thumbsup:

So I've been searching for a myth? :Q

If you think there's no GSpot then you are obviously doing something wrong. Using the right position, I have given my gf back to back to back g-spot orgasms.

There are 3 orgasms: Vaginal, Clitoral, G-Spot. All feel different.

Life is so damned unfair for men :(

not really when you realize how many women don't have reliable or any orgasms at all:p
 

Adul

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Originally posted by: loic2003
Jeez.

Girls do have G-spots. All of them do. 1 inch up the front wall and it's easy to find. Rear penetration is most likely to stimulate it. Of course you can use your hand to great effect for this during cunnilingus.

Girls can also orgasm from deep penetration where the entrance to the womb is stimulated repeatedly., so I guess there's 3 types or orgasm.

Some girls do ejaculate, but not all. Unfortunately to them it feels like they're about to pee before they reach this stage although it's not urine that is secreted. A lot of women 'hold back' because of this.

Everything is linked up down there so you're best going for a dual 'clitoris and g-spot' orgasm together, this means some nifty finger work whilst you're on the job. Deep penetration, varying angles of attack, fingerwork after prolonged cunnilingus is the most rewarding and most likely to display the 'shaky leg' syndrome when the girl loses count of the number of orgasms she has had.

Spend some time fooling around and talk a lot with your girl. It's not as hard as you think, nor is it some big mystery. It's easier than fixing a computer. Communication and foreplay is the key.

Also, inform her that her giving you head a couple of hours before sex will result in much, much better sex for her. True fact.

If none of the above helps, send me her number, k ;)
ah yes the dual stimilation works great I found ;)



 

GTaudiophile

Lifer
Oct 24, 2000
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Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: NakaNaka
Originally posted by: Red
Originally posted by: JohnCU
there is no such thing as a g-spot.

<- has the book, "Sex for Dummies":thumbsup:

So I've been searching for a myth? :Q

If you think there's no GSpot then you are obviously doing something wrong. Using the right position, I have given my gf back to back to back g-spot orgasms.

There are 3 orgasms: Vaginal, Clitoral, G-Spot. All feel different.

Life is so damned unfair for men :(

not really when you realize how many women don't have reliable or any orgasms at all:p

Yep. Unfortunate, but I blame society. For far too long, masturbation was a huge taboo for women (and still is), therefore they weren't freely able to explore and learn about their own bodies, much less communicate their needs to their SOs.
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Yep. Unfortunate, but I blame society. For far too long, masturbation was a huge taboo for women (and still is), therefore they weren't freely able to explore and learn about their own bodies, much less communicate their needs to their SOs.

Yeah, true. But masturbation is sort of a taboo for men...we just ignore it.
 

OutHouse

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I had a cadaver class over the summer and one of the female students asked the doc where the G-spot was. well we got to watch him dissect the vagina, he removed the clit which is huge! all we see is the gland but the rest of it is deep i was very suprised. Then he pulled out the entire vagina and showed us exactly where exactly the G-spot is. very facisnating.

G= Dr Graffenberg started the whole mess.
 

MithShrike

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Originally posted by: Citrix
I had a cadaver class over the summer and one of the female students asked the doc where the G-spot was. well we got to watch him dissect the vagina, he removed the clit which is huge! all we see is the gland but the rest of it is deep i was very suprised. Then he pulled out the entire vagina and showed us exactly where exactly the G-spot is. very facisnating.

G= Dr Graffenberg started the whole mess.

Well, that's one way to find it.
 

bob4432

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Sep 6, 2003
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my wife and i dated for 1+ years (don't remember the actual amount of time) and have been married for over 7 years and i have known my wife for nearly half of our life, so our communication is excellent and i know her body well. we are both very open and trust each other so there are no issues at all.

i can guarantee there are clitoral and g-spot orgrasm differences and women do ejaculate, but they need to feel comfortable with their partner. as far as anal goes, my wife likes it but feels it is painful at first, then is heavenly for about 10-15minutes and then after we are done painful for a couple of days after, so we don't do that very often (we do it the correct way, lots of lube and SLOW). with the anal, she seems to like it with her stimulating her clitoris then the orgasm is literally bed shaking.

these orgasms can be achieved in many different posititions, but the most important thing is the women's frame of mind.

a little bit of advice - guys, you will always reach orgasm (unless you are on some drug, not necessarily illegal - like antidepressants) so get the girl done first and all is good. no matter how many multiiples my wife has, she is always willing and able for me to get started. always give the girl a headstart, you can easily catch up.

and know, my wife wouldn't care if she i posted this.
 

Raiden256

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Originally posted by: Citrix
I had a cadaver class over the summer and one of the female students asked the doc where the G-spot was. well we got to watch him dissect the vagina, he removed the clit which is huge! all we see is the gland but the rest of it is deep i was very suprised. Then he pulled out the entire vagina and showed us exactly where exactly the G-spot is. very facisnating.

G= Dr Graffenberg started the whole mess.

Okay, well, this thread just took a turn for the worse....
 

bob4432

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Sep 6, 2003
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Originally posted by: Raiden256
Originally posted by: Citrix
I had a cadaver class over the summer and one of the female students asked the doc where the G-spot was. well we got to watch him dissect the vagina, he removed the clit which is huge! all we see is the gland but the rest of it is deep i was very suprised. Then he pulled out the entire vagina and showed us exactly where exactly the G-spot is. very facisnating.

G= Dr Graffenberg started the whole mess.

Okay, well, this thread just took a turn for the worse....

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