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Safeway

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Originally posted by: BrownTown
so maybe you DO want to be rich so that you don't have to deal with assholes...

This is a joke, right? Ah hahaha. Haha. Ha. Ah ... ha.
 

Mo0o

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Originally posted by: BrownTown
Also, if YOU become rich then you won't have to work at a crappy job like a video store where assholes can bitch at you. If YOU are the rich person then you can just tell other peopel to shove it, so maybe you DO want to be rich so that you don't have to deal with assholes...
Just because you're rich doesn't mean you dont deal w/ assholes

Safeway is gonna be a lawyer, probably gotta deal w/ a ton of assholes

Same for me, especially if i somehow end up a colorectal surgeon (hopefuly not)
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: tjmudder
Will I forget about that people with lower paying jobs are still equal to me and I am no better than they are?

All people are not equal. Some are smarter than others, some are better-looking, some are more successful in their career, some are luckier, etc. You could very well be "better" than someone else, just as another person could be "better" than you at something.
 

tjmudder

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Originally posted by: Kadarin
Originally posted by: tjmudder
Will I forget about that people with lower paying jobs are still equal to me and I am no better than they are?

All people are not equal. Some are smarter than others, some are better-looking, some are more successful in their career, some are luckier, etc. You could very well be "better" than someone else, just as another person could be "better" than you at something.

But what I'm saying is that I should not look down on somebody because they are not as good at something as I am. I do not want to think of them as a lesser person than me.
 

BrownTown

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Originally posted by: Mo0o
Originally posted by: BrownTown
Also, if YOU become rich then you won't have to work at a crappy job like a video store where assholes can bitch at you. If YOU are the rich person then you can just tell other peopel to shove it, so maybe you DO want to be rich so that you don't have to deal with assholes...
Just because you're rich doesn't mean you dont deal w/ assholes

Safeway is gonna be a lawyer, probably gotta deal w/ a ton of assholes

Same for me, especially if i somehow end up a colorectal surgeon (hopefuly not)

well don't have to deal with them at a video store for sure. As for being a lawyer or doctor, I guess thats a matter of determining "richness", when I see the term "high society" my view is more than just making 200,000$ a year or something, maybe more like making a million a year, if you are that sucessfull of a lawyer or surgeon than you can choose who to help and who not to, even making 200,000$ a year, you don't HAVE to deal with all those assholes, you could just make 150,000 a year by not representing a few assholes or whatever, but I guess it depends on your job.
 

Safeway

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Mo0o
Originally posted by: BrownTown
Also, if YOU become rich then you won't have to work at a crappy job like a video store where assholes can bitch at you. If YOU are the rich person then you can just tell other peopel to shove it, so maybe you DO want to be rich so that you don't have to deal with assholes...
Just because you're rich doesn't mean you dont deal w/ assholes

Safeway is gonna be a lawyer, probably gotta deal w/ a ton of assholes

Same for me, especially if i somehow end up a colorectal surgeon (hopefuly not)

Medical school? Where? I have friends at UT Southwestern, Baylor, Johns Hopkins, UPenn, and Yale. The UPenn and Yale are the most prestigious since they got into the M.D.//Ph.D. program. Talk about some schooling.
 

Safeway

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Originally posted by: BrownTown
As for being a lawyer or doctor, I guess thats a matter of determining "richness", when I see the term "high society" my view is more than just making 200,000$ a year or something, maybe more like making a million a year

A doctor friend of mine banks upwards of $2,000,000/year. He is one of three partners in a pathology clinic. He deals with assholes all the time. LA is full of them.
 

Safeway

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Originally posted by: SSSnail
If you think $160K a year will get you into high society, think again.

That is starting, and I don't. My girlfriend will be making $105k in about a year.

$160k + $105k = $265k. Starting. Her earning potential will remain constant. My earning potential, however, is nearly limitless. I can give you the salary table if you want.
 

BrownTown

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Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: BrownTown
As for being a lawyer or doctor, I guess thats a matter of determining "richness", when I see the term "high society" my view is more than just making 200,000$ a year or something, maybe more like making a million a year

A doctor friend of mine banks upwards of $2,000,000/year. He is one of three partners in a pathology clinic. He deals with assholes all the time. LA is full of them.

I'm just saying he doesn't HAVE too, if it were really that important I am sure he could take a pay cut and work with friendlier people and still not have to worry about his next meal or making the car payments is all. And he still likely isn't dealing with a bunch of people bitching about a movie not being in stock or something at least they probably have real problems.
 

sactoking

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Income does not equal wealth.
Spending does not equal wealth.

Some of the biggest spenders in America are dirt poor. They're leveraged to the hilt. High-income generators tend to blow through money b/c they think they need to maintain an image. Remember those stories about Britney Spears making $750,000 per MONTH and spending every single penny? THAT is typical of high-income people. I have a car loan, a credit card balance, and student loans and a modest income. I would bet everything I have that my net worth is higher than hers. The OP may work in an RITZY neighborhood, but I am highly skeptical that it's a WEALTHY one.
 

FeuerFrei

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Well upper economic class and upper social class are not the same thing. Granted the more socially classy types tend to be more well off, but still, there are some classy people without much money.

You'll notice a lot of Hollywood types materially well off but socially bottom-feeders. So yeah, money doesn't buy class.
 

hiromizu

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When a poor person suddenly becomes rich, they become certified douchebagholes.

When a rich person becomes independently wealthy, they don't change.

Many wealthy people have permanent smiles on their faces and are very humble and confident as a whole. They usually think they're being helpful by giving out useful information rather than giving out money.

Poor people think rich people are assholes because they think rich people have it easy and since they have everything why aren't they giving to the poor?

It's all about how you look at it IMO.
 

JS80

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Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: SSSnail
If you think $160K a year will get you into high society, think again.

That is starting, and I don't. My girlfriend will be making $105k in about a year.

$160k + $105k = $265k. Starting. Her earning potential will remain constant. My earning potential, however, is nearly limitless. I can give you the salary table if you want.

I was under the impression that in the legal profession your earnings potential is capped to the number of hours you can work (and subsequently bill). I think law is one of the worst professions in terms of effort input to earnings output. Don't even partners do actual work?
 

Leros

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Originally posted by: tjmudder
Originally posted by: Kadarin
Originally posted by: tjmudder
Will I forget about that people with lower paying jobs are still equal to me and I am no better than they are?

All people are not equal. Some are smarter than others, some are better-looking, some are more successful in their career, some are luckier, etc. You could very well be "better" than someone else, just as another person could be "better" than you at something.

But what I'm saying is that I should not look down on somebody because they are not as good at something as I am. I do not want to think of them as a lesser person than me.

Then don't. Remind yourself why they are equal to you (if you think so).
 

tjmudder

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So if what I'm understanding is true then your saying that you think your better than other people. You look down on others because they are not as good at something than you. If thats true does this mean you treat people differently? Because this sounds like some of the people that come into my store. Just like the guy that told someone else to not get smart with him because he was chewing us out and I was tired of it and so I gave him some crap back because it was not our fault. Because that guy is not above me whether he thinks so or not.
 

JS80

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Originally posted by: tjmudder
So if what I'm understanding is true then your saying that you think your better than other people. You look down on others because they are not as good at something than you. If thats true does this mean you treat people differently? Because this sounds like some of the people that come into my store. Just like the guy that told someone else to not get smart with him because he was chewing us out and I was tired of it and so I gave him some crap back because it was not our fault. Because that guy is not above me whether he thinks so or not.

Why do you care so much about how other people are? Just be yourself and rise above.
 

Leros

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Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: tjmudder
So if what I'm understanding is true then your saying that you think your better than other people. You look down on others because they are not as good at something than you. If thats true does this mean you treat people differently? Because this sounds like some of the people that come into my store. Just like the guy that told someone else to not get smart with him because he was chewing us out and I was tired of it and so I gave him some crap back because it was not our fault. Because that guy is not above me whether he thinks so or not.

Why do you care so much about how other people are? Just be yourself and rise above.

Yeah, be whatever you truly feel. If you honestly think you are better than other people, then fine. Don't worry about it, just keep it to yourself and feel superior. If you think everybody is equal then be happy with that. Whatever way you are, it can be a win-win for everybody if you make it.
 

Safeway

Lifer
Jun 22, 2004
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Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: SSSnail
If you think $160K a year will get you into high society, think again.

That is starting, and I don't. My girlfriend will be making $105k in about a year.

$160k + $105k = $265k. Starting. Her earning potential will remain constant. My earning potential, however, is nearly limitless. I can give you the salary table if you want.

I was under the impression that in the legal profession your earnings potential is capped to the number of hours you can work (and subsequently bill). I think law is one of the worst professions in terms of effort input to earnings output. Don't even partners do actual work?

Sure, but associates with the firm work ~2100 hours a year and bill ~1950 hours. Working ~2100 hours a year is better than most engineering and IT jobs.
 

JS80

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Oct 24, 2005
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Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: SSSnail
If you think $160K a year will get you into high society, think again.

That is starting, and I don't. My girlfriend will be making $105k in about a year.

$160k + $105k = $265k. Starting. Her earning potential will remain constant. My earning potential, however, is nearly limitless. I can give you the salary table if you want.

I was under the impression that in the legal profession your earnings potential is capped to the number of hours you can work (and subsequently bill). I think law is one of the worst professions in terms of effort input to earnings output. Don't even partners do actual work?

Sure, but associates with the firm work ~2100 hours a year and bill ~1950 hours. Working ~2100 hours a year is better than most engineering and IT jobs.

Yea but you said your earnings potential is limitless. An engineer who invents something has limitless earnings potential. An entrepreneur that starts a business has limitless earnings potential. A lawyer than works 8am-11pm is limited to the number of hours his body can work.

Not knocking you but just trying to get the point across that legal profession is one of those where the earnings power is the most limited.
 

JEDI

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Originally posted by: tjmudder
Ok so I have pondering this for awhile now and although it may be too deep of a thread for here, I do want to hear what people think.

So lately I've been completely turned off by rich people lately. I'll tell you why in a minute but I'm going to give some background info. I'm in college, I live in a big city, my family is somewhere in the middle class status. I went to a rich private school for high school only because my father teaches there. Right now In college studying for a major which, if you work hard, can land you a really great job. Right now I work at a movie rental store because I love movies, but it happens to be in a rich area of town. Some recent events this past weekend is why I've started asking these questions. This past weekend during my work shift in the morning and afternoon, I was the only person working that was old enough to run a register. Lately we've been having more customers in the store due to some recent closings of our other rental stores. Because of the more customers, the lines have grown longer which has resulted with some angry customers. I have had some people storm out of the store because we couldn't open another register, or maybe because they just don't understand the groundbreaking concept of patience. I had one man get mad about having to wait in line to only find out that his game he wanted to rent wasn't in, so he chewed all of us out about it. I apologized about it but he kept going off about it. I gave him some crap back because it was not our fault and he could have walked up to one us not at a register and ask about it before getting in line. Even the people behind him said he was a dick as he walked off. I another person get mad at us because he didn't know that only one register was open. I mean did he not see the long line for the one register?!

So I guess if there is anything I'm tyring to get at it is this, I'm afraid that if I make a lot of money later on in life, it will keep me from being happy and I will become a dick. Will I become as rude as these other people? Will I forget about that people with lower paying jobs are still equal to me and I am no better than they are? Will my kids be spoiled brats? Will I be caught up in my possessions? Because if anything, they do not lead to happiness, the Bible kind of discusses this a good bit. I mean I can't judge all wealthy people on this basis because I do know some great people that make good money. Part of me wants to be wealthy so I can turn around and help people and give of myself. The other part of me just wants to find a job that allows me to travel the world cause then I think I would be really happy no matter what it pays. So enough with my ranting, I'm curious as to what other people have to say.

$ != happiness? YES! :(

$ = being a dick? no. there are lots of nice rich people. there are lots of poor ignorant scum too
 

IronWing

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The more rich people I meet in life, the more I appreciate Charlie's perspective.
 

eakers

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Originally posted by: yamadakun
Dicks will be dicks with money or not.

seriously.

I worked at a dollar store and the people that were the rudest were trashy-welfare people.