Actually some of us have lives. I don't watch CNN, MSNBC, FOXNews, or the BBC for hours on end. The war was a tragic failure of diplomacy NOT a spectator sport. If one item from the cradle of civilization was stolen it's a crime against humanity . . . when the whole damn museum is sacked it's a disaster. What's overblown is your self righteousness . . . along with the rest of the pro-preemption crowd who think 'winning' is all that matters. Allegedly we are the good guys . . . which means we must meet a higher standard . . . as the great green short one says, "there is no try . . . only do."
Indeed the US efforts to recover artifacts have been very good . . . but much like our call to battle . . . shouldn't we have known that certain locations MUST be protected even at the cost of American lives? Rumsfeld et al crow about saving the oil fields but the richness of history is invaluable. He didn't give a shyte before the war, during, or in the aftermath. At least one decent individual in the administration resigned because he gave DOD advanced notice of what would occur.
By your ledger, you want credit for liberating Iraq but no responsibility for the lack of water, electricity, or security. You want credit for minimizing civilian casualties but make no effort to count them or secure the hospitals in a timely fashion. You want credit for protecting the oil fields but no responsibility for protecting cultural treasures.
You are quite right that America deserves credit for EVERYTHING it has done right in this war. And as soon as you accept the fact that criticism of American actions can be just as valid as your adulation . . . you just might have the inkling of a legitimate argument for excessive criticism versus inadequate gratis for a job well done. Not much of an argument if you are watching/reading anything by Murdoch . . . but at least you would have a start.