Here's the whole crux of the problem - you seem to believe you're entitled to an opinion when your opinion flies in the face of all evidence. Evolution is accepted as fact - it's better understood than gravity. That does not mean that which beneficial mutation occurred when for every single trait of every single species - but the whole process of evolution has been observed, it's been experimented with, experiments match predictions, etc. A "belief" that the flagellum didn't evolve is no different than me believing that if I drop a book during the next minute, it will quickly rise to the ceiling.
So, it's known - it's fact - the flagellum did evolve. However, at the present time, exactly what steps led to it is uncertain. Though, possible steps have been suggested - and people here are trying to explain that to you.