Im really angry with my family :| **UPDATE**

nick1985

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backround info.

I live at college 45 mins from home
sister is a senior in HS
My GF is in my sisters class(she is 18, and im 19...im not THAT bad of a cradle robber ;))


Story

Last weekend my girlfriends car was vandalised. someone had poured syrup all over her car and syran wrapped it. also another friend of mine had her car coated in syrup and had flour mixed with egg all over it. my girlfriends car cleaned off fine, but with noticable scratches from the syran wrapper spindle. the other car had permanent damage also. the paint is peeling all over the place. yet another friend had his car vandalised in a similar fashion, except his car somehow had the bumper dented.

that monday, i heard from a friend who knew who did this. of course he wouldnt tell. so i went online and filed a crime tip with the local police stating that i knew someone who knew who did it and left the name and number of the guy. the next day the police questioned him, but he lied to the detective and told them he didnt know anything. the cop also talked to my girlfriend and told her he knew that guy was lying, and that something like 30 cars had been damaged that weekend very similar to the way the 3 above were described.

right before the police questioned this guy at their high school, my sister(talk about irony) and her 2 accomplices had admitted to a neutral friend that they had commited these vandalisms. then obviously, after the cops questioned the guy who lied, they found out the cops were involved. they freaked out and told the girl that they just confessed too that they were joking and they didnt do it. but it was too late, she had already told the 3 people above the people who vandalised their cars.

my sister and her cronies freaked out and went to some of the houses that knew it was them and apologized, saying they "didnt mean it like that"...bunch of bull.

fast forward to today....the police still havnt found out it was them, and i consider them fvcking lucky as heck that the police havnt found them. they must have done a good job kissing arse to the people whos cars they vandalized. now i am torn. i originally filed a crime tip with the police revealing to them the info i had, because i hope someone would do that for me. also, they only apologized to 3 of the 30 cars the damaged, hoping that the others dont find out so there is still a decent chance the police will get them. i would have told the police by now, except its my sister. i know this isnt right for me to do this...but i just cant call the cops on my sister. but i didnt want to let her go scot free.

so i called home and told my parents what she did so they could at least be informed as to what is going on. suprise suprise, they didnt believe me and she denied it. i turn into the bad guy. my mother started to yell at me saying i only wanted to cause trouble and i was only calling home to start trouble...:roll: now my sister friggin hates me (she hates me because she is a moron i guess) and my parents think i am just trying to get her in trouble (what do i have to gain by getting my sister in trouble?) ...pisses me off that she gets away scot free after vandalising about 30 cars. :|:|


oh, i also forgot my sister called and left my girlfriend a 5min apology on her cell phone, but she accidentally deleted it :(


end rant, thanks for reading. for those wanting cliff notes, go to hell :evil:

**EDIT**

CLIFF NOTES (you guys are good at whining ;))

1. girlfriends car is vandalized, along with several dozen others
2. i file a crime tip with police stating i knew who knows who committed these crimes, but he wouldnt say.
3. i find out my sister was involved
4. im torn whether i should report my sister to the police or not
5. i call my parents so at least she would get into deep sh!t at home
6. my parents dont believe me and my sister lies to them. now i have my sister that hates me and my parents think i was trying to start trouble.
7. my sister gets away scot free for vandalizing 30 cars



**UPDATE**

my parents called me this morning and said that if i told the police on my sister, they would stop paying for my college and i would be forced to quit my cross country and track team and move back home and go to community college. yet they still believe she didnt do anything...:roll: im glad my parents are blackmailing me. :|:| my family is so disfunctional its not even funny...
 

notfred

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Tell your mom to fvck off and stop being a stupid bitch, call the cops on your sister, go to your girlfriend's family's house for thanksgiving dinner.
 

Yossarian

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I think your parents are deranged for thinking you'd make up a story about your sister committing those crimes. Of course they just don't want to believe that their baby caused thousands of dollars of damage to all those cars.
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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Ok, so someone vandalised your sister's car and then she did it to other cars?

Maybe she'll hate you now, but later in life she might thank you for reporting her
 

djheater

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HAHAHAH....

No good deed goes unpunished....

You're pretty much up sh!t creek. You need to work out personally what your morality leads you to belive is correct action.

 

JoeKing

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I hope the male friend at least got a BJ out of it...


seriously that was messed up what they did. How many of them are there in all (counting cronies). What cliche are they in? SemiGoths I'm guessing.
 

nick1985

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Originally posted by: JoeKing
I hope the male friend at least got a BJ out of it...


seriously that was messed up what they did. How many of them are there in all (counting cronies). What cliche are they in? SemiGoths I'm guessing.

well, it was at least 3 people total that i know of, and from the sound of it there could have been several others. suprisingly, this was a huge shock to me. my sister has a 4.0 and is planning on being a doctor...i cant believe she was this stupid. not only is she a moron, but she is also a liar. :|...
 

FoBoT

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if you get her convicted, your parents will probably believe you, but they might still be mad

bummer
 

imported_judge

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unless you can get them on tape sayng they did it, all will happen when cops question them, they will either refuse to talk to them (exercise there right to remain silent) or they will just denie it was them. Unless they left any evidence on the cars nothing will happen to them, IMHO

edit: it was stupid of her to confess to anyone that she did it
 

RaynorWolfcastle

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Originally posted by: nick1985

well, it was at least 3 people total that i know of, and from the sound of it there could have been several others. suprisingly, this was a huge shock to me. my sister has a 4.0 and is planning on being a doctor...i cant believe she was this stupid. not only is she a moron, but she is also a liar. :|...
She should switch into law.
*runs from DonVito*

 

nick1985

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Originally posted by: judge
unless you can get them on tape sayng they did it, all will happen when cops question them, they will either refuse to talk to them (exercise there right to remain silent) or they will just denie it was them. Unless they left any evidence on the cars nothing will happen to them, IMHO

well the thing is, is that they apologized to the 3 people i described above. if that isnt proof i dont know what is. they silenced 3 people, but that leaves 27 other car owners that still do not know who did this and odds are, at least 1 of them would call the cops. i sure as hell would if i found out and it was my car..
 

nick1985

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Originally posted by: judge
unless you can get them on tape sayng they did it, all will happen when cops question them, they will either refuse to talk to them (exercise there right to remain silent) or they will just denie it was them. Unless they left any evidence on the cars nothing will happen to them, IMHO

edit: it was stupid of her to confess to anyone that she did it

that was BEFORE she found out there was a detective working the case. i guess she thought she was tough sh!t. stupid idiot.
 

djheater

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Originally posted by: nick1985
Originally posted by: JoeKing
I hope the male friend at least got a BJ out of it...


seriously that was messed up what they did. How many of them are there in all (counting cronies). What cliche are they in? SemiGoths I'm guessing.

well, it was at least 3 people total that i know of, and from the sound of it there could have been several others. suprisingly, this was a huge shock to me. my sister has a 4.0 and is planning on being a doctor...i cant believe she was this stupid. not only is she a moron, but she is also a liar. :|...

your philosophy as you've so far presented it would call for disowning all of them. you are in the right after all.

Sucks for you.
 

imported_judge

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Originally posted by: nick1985
Originally posted by: judge
unless you can get them on tape sayng they did it, all will happen when cops question them, they will either refuse to talk to them (exercise there right to remain silent) or they will just denie it was them. Unless they left any evidence on the cars nothing will happen to them, IMHO

edit: it was stupid of her to confess to anyone that she did it

that was BEFORE she found out there was a detective working the case. i guess she thought she was tough sh!t. stupid idiot.

what did she think would happen after 30 cars were vandalise, no one would be investigating the crime? she should take administrative of justice classes or if she gets conviceted she will learn all she needs to learn in jail
 

Gooberlx2

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I'd have done the same as you (not turning her into the cops), but I WOULD have come home and regulated on some sh!t, as well as back your sister into a corner where she had to admit to your parents what she had done. I bet your parents will find out eventually through the parental grapevine anyway......then they'll be SUPER pissed that she did it AND lied to their faces.

And then.....divine justice will ensue. OR, nothing will come of it because I doubt your folks would turn her in either, and if she's a senior in HS there's probably not much they can really do to punish her and phase her much.

edit: Your sister's a retard. This story paints her as either one who's part of the bitter-angst-wannabe-miscreant clique, or the lets-shove-our-popularity-down-peoples'-throats-and-be-complete-slutty-b!tches-about-it clique.