dragonballgtz
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Because average people dont have the money to go whenever they feel like it.
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I'm pissed off at my girlfriend! *UPDATE*
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Because average people dont have the money to go whenever they feel like it.
UsandThem
Elite Member
//Your Balls Just Dropped//
Tell her you are going and that she is acting like a little girl and she needs to come back and live in the real world.
Depending on your/her age, you probably aren't going to be with her very long anyhow.
So, five years from now you can be thinking to yourself how you wish you would have gone and seen Japan, as you broke up with her four years ago after she told you that you couldn't go to Taco Bell and eat without her.
//Balls Still Up//
Yes, my unreasonable, immature, overbearing, selfish, and controlling love of my life.
Tell her you are going and that she is acting like a little girl and she needs to come back and live in the real world.
Depending on your/her age, you probably aren't going to be with her very long anyhow.
So, five years from now you can be thinking to yourself how you wish you would have gone and seen Japan, as you broke up with her four years ago after she told you that you couldn't go to Taco Bell and eat without her.
//Balls Still Up//
Yes, my unreasonable, immature, overbearing, selfish, and controlling love of my life.
imported_vr6
Platinum Member
she was going to go with or without you anyway, why can't you do the same?
However, how much fun can you have by yourself? I don't think i would go on vacations by myself.
oh and btw, hand over your man card.:evil:
However, how much fun can you have by yourself? I don't think i would go on vacations by myself.
oh and btw, hand over your man card.:evil:
I would go.
Rumpltzer
Diamond Member
I'm explicitly not allowed to enter Japan without permission.
Obligatory picture of a Japanese school girl standing on a window at the Tokyo Tower.
Obligatory picture of a Japanese school girl standing on a window at the Tokyo Tower.
JetsFanatic
Platinum Member
GO!
I'd go, if I were you. Not to spite the GF, but to have fun. If your GF dumps you over it, then your relationship wasn't meant to be.
Best advice I can give: You're gonna lose your freedom when you get married someday anyway, so why hand it over before then? Go have a good time alone if you have to, don't let a simple GF order you around.
Best advice I can give: You're gonna lose your freedom when you get married someday anyway, so why hand it over before then? Go have a good time alone if you have to, don't let a simple GF order you around.
Simple question - do you even want to go to Japan by yourself?
I personally don't like going solo on vacations, unless I'm single and looking to meet a lot of womenz and hook up hopefully.
I wouldn't go just to spite her, but if you do feel you'll have a blast on your own, then I'd say definitely go.
This is also assuming that you can't cancel those days off and just show up to work and get paid. (Have you even asked your company if you could do that?)
I personally don't like going solo on vacations, unless I'm single and looking to meet a lot of womenz and hook up hopefully.
I wouldn't go just to spite her, but if you do feel you'll have a blast on your own, then I'd say definitely go.
This is also assuming that you can't cancel those days off and just show up to work and get paid. (Have you even asked your company if you could do that?)
Let me make this clear to all of you. I live with my girlfriend and we been living together for almost a year now. Her decisions is important to me and if I simply just went on my own and not respecting what she thinks is wrong of me. So I'm posting here to get some opinions. Going to Japan for me does seem like a one time thing and its not because of the money, but more on the timing. I rarely get a chance like this, because of work. I'm trying to satisfy myself but at the same time respecting her thoughts.
you have been planning this for so long - put much time and effort into this. You should go. As you said, it was a PITA to get to where you at, you cant just turn around and let it go to waste.
"She said she was going to go with or without me.." Well, its your time to turn that around on her. If she has doubts about you being gone for a week or 10 days whichever it is, then she has to question where the relationship is at...
Good luck and have fun!!
"She said she was going to go with or without me.." Well, its your time to turn that around on her. If she has doubts about you being gone for a week or 10 days whichever it is, then she has to question where the relationship is at...
Good luck and have fun!!
I can see two different scenarios here when you're saying that "she wont let me go":
is it in the tone of
1) "HELL NO! YOU'RE NOT STEPPING OUT OF THIS COUNTRY WITHOUT ME!"
or is it
2) "I really do not want you go on this vacation without me. I know we've planned to go on the trip, but I would really like to you to go with me on this trip...."
if it is the first one or closer towards the first one, then i definitely say that you should go. however, if its the second one or closer to the second one, then i think you should consider rescheduling the trip. Like you said earlier, finding a job isnt easy. I am pretty sure if she had a choice then she would have waited until after the trip to start. You can't fault the girl for not wanting to bum off of you all the time.
A trip to Japan isnt exactly a once in a lifetime kind of thing. If it's the vacation days that is stopping you, then you can always get more. The money thing might be an issue, but with your gf having a job, then it will be easier to be able to pick up and go in the future. Hell, it will even be more fun with her bringing in some cash. The difficulties that you spoke about in getting a passport isnt an issue, since you already got it now.
is it in the tone of
1) "HELL NO! YOU'RE NOT STEPPING OUT OF THIS COUNTRY WITHOUT ME!"
or is it
2) "I really do not want you go on this vacation without me. I know we've planned to go on the trip, but I would really like to you to go with me on this trip...."
if it is the first one or closer towards the first one, then i definitely say that you should go. however, if its the second one or closer to the second one, then i think you should consider rescheduling the trip. Like you said earlier, finding a job isnt easy. I am pretty sure if she had a choice then she would have waited until after the trip to start. You can't fault the girl for not wanting to bum off of you all the time.
A trip to Japan isnt exactly a once in a lifetime kind of thing. If it's the vacation days that is stopping you, then you can always get more. The money thing might be an issue, but with your gf having a job, then it will be easier to be able to pick up and go in the future. Hell, it will even be more fun with her bringing in some cash. The difficulties that you spoke about in getting a passport isnt an issue, since you already got it now.
HardcoreRobot
Lifer
if you love her you will do whatever you can to be with her
mchammer187
Diamond Member
go if she was going to go without you than there is no reason she can turn the tables now
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