I'm pissed off at my girlfriend! *UPDATE*

[zimu]

definitely go. no doubt about it.

 

[SociallyChallenged]

Originally posted by: amdguy
DUMp that dumb FVCK bitch and go to japan and have fun!!!

if you have her back home, how are you gonna enjoy all the CUTE ladies in japan? And get a better GF than that thrash or a japan gf.


where does she work? Mcdonalds?

Dude, what the heck? Why does this guy have such a problem with your girlfriend? He's probably just jealous that he doesn't have a girlfriend to order him around. Go, if you think it's worth it. The "she'll miss you too much" part is bull, I just think she doesn't quite trust you enough. If you don't feel its the time, just cancel, you can do it again next year; but if you pull this you might not ever have the opportunity to go with her again because she'll leave you beforehand.

+Brent

 

[MadPeriot]

Originally posted by: SociallyChallenged

Originally posted by: amdguy
DUMp that dumb FVCK bitch and go to japan and have fun!!!

if you have her back home, how are you gonna enjoy all the CUTE ladies in japan? And get a better GF than that thrash or a japan gf.


where does she work? Mcdonalds?

Dude, what the heck? Why does this guy have such a problem with your girlfriend? He's probably just jealous that he doesn't have a girlfriend to order him around. Go, if you think it's worth it. The "she'll miss you too much" part is bull, I just think she doesn't quite trust you enough. If you don't feel its the time, just cancel, you can do it again next year; but if you pull this you might not ever have the opportunity to go with her again because she'll leave you beforehand.

+Brent

I just think she doesn't quite trust you enough
Thats pretty much what shes probably thinking.

 

[Gooberlx2]

That's a tricky situation. It all depends on where you and her are at in the relationship. If you're feeling committed towards the long term, then delay it, go next year and enjoy NYC with her now....it's really NOT a big deal if no money is down yet. If you feel you're on the way out anyway, then go.

 

[z0mb13]

Originally posted by: jtusa4

Originally posted by: KLin

Originally posted by: yllus
This is what you do. I'll play the role of You.

*clears throat*

"Bitch, I'm going to Japan. You'll survive just fine without me for a week. Frankly it's the least you could do after you've screwed me out of good vacation time I could have taken later in the year. Now STFU and turn over."

WINNAR! :thumbsup:😀

 

[manly]

Obligatory :camera:s before we pass final judgment? 😛

 

[imthebadguy]

wont LET you go, grow a pair and put your foot down bro!

 

[Xionide]

Originally posted by: Aimster

Originally posted by: MadPeriot

Originally posted by: Aimster
How long have you been with her?

A year and a half.

If you really want to go then go. You have been together long enough for her to understand. A trip to NY doesn't compare with a trip to Japan. She said she would go without you so I don't see why she is turning it around when you want to go alone. You are going to Japan have fun. Don't let some girl ruin this for you.

Werent you banned or something?

 

[zoiks]

Been to Japan like 5 times and to Singapore about 14 times. Singapore is pretty boring since there isnt anything to do except shopping. Food can be cheaper tho depending where you eat.
Japan really seems different than the US. Girls there seem fake and western wannabe's but if you wanna hit it then go for it.

 

[Gooberlx2]

Originally posted by: zoiks
Been to Japan like 5 times and to Singapore about 14 times. Singapore is pretty boring since there isnt anything to do except shopping. Food can be cheaper tho depending where you eat.
Japan really seems different than the US. Girls there seem fake and western wannabe's but if you wanna hit it then go for it.

Really? I guess that's somehow not surprising to me, but I'd like to hear more about your experience(s).

 

[ckk81]

Originally posted by: MadPeriot
We had plans to go on a trip to either Taiwan, HK, Signapore, or Japan since Feb of this year. And when the time of departure is almost here (next week) she gets a new job and won't be able to go. I went through a lot to get my passport (long story) and asking work for some vacation time (which I don't deserve yet) and now she can't go. But I'm still planning on going without her or I have to wait a whole year for a chance like this. She gets all pansy and won't let me go. Her reasoning is that she'll misses me and wants to try to plan a short vacation like to New York instead. What should I do, should I still go or not?

P.S. when I had a hard time obtaining my passport and difficulty asking for some time off at work she said she was going to go with or without me. And I simply said okay because she was thinking of visiting her parents as well.

if she didn't say that part which i highlighted, i will consider to delay it. but now, fvck that........ u need to let her know who is wearing the pants in the relationship.

 

[zoiks]

Originally posted by: Gooberlx2

Originally posted by: zoiks
Been to Japan like 5 times and to Singapore about 14 times. Singapore is pretty boring since there isnt anything to do except shopping. Food can be cheaper tho depending where you eat.
Japan really seems different than the US. Girls there seem fake and western wannabe's but if you wanna hit it then go for it.

Really? I guess that's somehow not surprising to me, but I'd like to hear more about your experience(s).

Sure. They dress very western like, dye their hair unnatural blonde and are into the pop scene. Same thing with Tattoo's and rings on different part of the anatomy.
Funny thing is that they wanna be like us and then a lot of people on the board wanna be like them in reverse. hah!

 

[dc]

off to japan.

and if you already have the planet tickets, i'll gladly go with you. 😀

 

[rpc64]

No don't take dc he'll scare off all the chicks



j/k 😉

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: yllus
This is what you do. I'll play the role of You.

*clears throat*

"Bitch, I'm going to Japan. You'll survive just fine without me for a week. Frankly it's the least you could do after you've screwed me out of good vacation time I could have taken later in the year. Now STFU and turn over."

:thumbsup:

 

[dc]

so harsh... yet so true. 🙁

actually, i'd probably run off and you wouldn't ever see me again after the flight. lol. 🙂

edit: i would never be seen on these forums again either. so do the forums a favor and take me. 😉

 

[jtusa]

Originally posted by: dc
so harsh... yet so true. 🙁

actually, i'd probably run off and you wouldn't ever see me again after the flight. lol. 🙂

edit: i would never be seen on these forums again either. so do the forums a favor and take me. 😉

ahahahahaha, you wish.

 

[dc]

🙂

 

[Ranger X]

She won't "let you" go? WTH, get that leash off of your neck and grow a pair!

What's she going to do, dump you?

Girlfriend to friend: "Yeah I dumped him because he went on a vacation without me. Can you believe that? I just got a new job and he should respect that."

 

[oogabooga]

she gave you a hard time? i don't see why you can't go alone, but she could have. Go visit her parents for her, and explain where they went wrong with the 'reasonable' part of raising their daughter.

 

[BlamoHammer]

Since you haven't paid, why dont you reschedule the trip to a time at which you can both go?

 

[Corporate Thug]

you shouldnt be mad at her cuz a job is almost always more important than a vacation
she shouldnt be mad at you cuz the trip was planned

common factor: the anger, cancel it out of both statement. she goes to her job and you to japan.

end of story

 

[deejayshakur]

trying to reschedule is fair, but if it doesn't work out then just go. she's just insecure, trust me. where's the poll?

 

[Goosemaster]

Originally posted by: shady06
you shouldnt be mad at her cuz a job is almost always more important than a vacation
she shouldnt be mad at you cuz the trip was planned

common factor: the anger, cancel it out of both statement. she goes to her job and you to japan.

end of story

Quite simple isn't it?


I wonder why no one sees the simplicity.

1. Go and have fun
2. If she's pissed when you get back, leave her. There is no justification for her being mad at you besides jelousy or selfishness, both of which are not commendable qualities.
3. If she is sad that you went but happy that you are back, you will have demonstrated confidence in the "face of bitchoscity" and will will respect you more for it. Then go to New York as well.

2 vacations > 1 vaction😀

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: MadPeriot

Originally posted by: amdguy
DUMp that dumb FVCK bitch and go to japan and have fun!!!

if you have her back home, how are you gonna enjoy all the CUTE ladies in japan? And get a better GF than that thrash or a japan gf.


where does she work? Mcdonalds?

dang, your pretty harsh. Shes actually a really good girl, she just can't stand the fact that I'm going on vacation without her. I really want her to go with me, but I'm looking for advice if I should just go on my own.

But she doesn't mind going without you? If you don't go, then you might as well check in your man card since you don't have the equipment.