im confused, GIRL SITUATION HELP.

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chin311

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ok since they locked my update thread (sorry havent been here in a while)

heres what it said.
HERES TEH UPDATE:

she called me last nite to see if i wanted to come over and watch 'butterfly effect' around 9ish. so i got off work and hauled ass over there (sorry i didnt listen to you guys ) but holy cow. what a nite. we messed around from like 11-130, like with barely any little breaks inbetween, it was like heaven. id never seen her like this, it was crazy, yes "the ring" was there the whole time, but i didnt even think about it. we just stared at each other, she climbed on top of me and was goin at it, shirt came off. . . switched postions about a dozen times. . .ahh, i didnt leave there til like 4 in the morning, then came home and slept til now.

i havent talked to her yet today, but man. oh man. it was the best nite. i would go into all the details, but i dont want it to sound like a porno or anything haha. but nonetheless, it was fun and i had a fun time exploring if you know what i mean. i dont know where its gonna go from here really, just have to go with it, i was never ever expecting that phone call last nite, it was kindof shocking but i wasnt about to pass it up.

when her mom got home (around 2a) we had to kindof keep distance because i guess she hasnt told her anything. or as she put it "she doenst know anything about us yet" so hmm, i dunno. but those were the best hours ive had in a longgg time, ill just tell ya that.
 

Lazy8s

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lol I JUST replied to update thread and they locked it. Anyways HELL YEAH BUDDY!!! Make us here at ATOT proud!! You've already comitted so just go with the flow and see where it takes ya. Hopefully the same place again right? Anyways glad it worked out for you! ;)
:beer::beer::beer::beer:
 

minendo

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Originally posted by: Lazy8s
lol I JUST replied to update thread and they locked it. Anyways HELL YEAH BUDDY!!! Make us here at ATOT proud!! You've already comitted so just go with the flow and see where it takes ya. Hopefully the same place again right? Anyways glad it worked out for you! ;)
:beer::beer::beer::beer:

How in the hell is he making anyone here at AT proud?
 

Doboji

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Well man... I wish you luck.. I really do. If nothing else you got some good booty. Keep us updated...

Red.... He should heed my advice.. because I am ALWAYS right ;) And how can you call me a stranger... we're family here at ATOT... I love you :brokenheart:


-Max
 

chin311

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Originally posted by: Lazy8s
lol I JUST replied to update thread and they locked it. Anyways HELL YEAH BUDDY!!! Make us here at ATOT proud!! You've already comitted so just go with the flow and see where it takes ya. Hopefully the same place again right? Anyways glad it worked out for you! ;)
:beer::beer::beer::beer:

thanks man. i love her to death, hopefully everything will go good from here, and this nite will repeat itself over and over.
 
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i have been negative towards your situation this whole time, but im glad you got some action out of it. i still think it is foolish to get involved with a girl so quickly after she is getting out of a ltr, esp if you have history. judging by your hook-up post, you are obviously very horny/desparate/obsessed with this girl. i hope you are not just setting yourself up for more disappointment.
 

Pex

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WTF is a PROMISE RING? LOL you can't date anyone as long as you have on the almighty RING ROLAWL.




kids these days are incredible.
 

Anghang

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you best detach your feelings for her...cuz in the end, someone's gonna get burned...make sure it's not you....
 

Muadib

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I just read this thread, and I have to say that I'm blown away by the number of people who told him not to go for it. You guys just don't get it. Lucky for him he did. Good luck man.:beer:
 

Lazy8s

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Originally posted by: minendo
Originally posted by: Lazy8s
lol I JUST replied to update thread and they locked it. Anyways HELL YEAH BUDDY!!! Make us here at ATOT proud!! You've already comitted so just go with the flow and see where it takes ya. Hopefully the same place again right? Anyways glad it worked out for you! ;)
:beer::beer::beer::beer:

How in the hell is he making anyone here at AT proud?

Ok let me correct my post then:

Make everyone here at ATOT (except obviously minendo) proud!!!

That better?
 

bleeb

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Doesn't sounds like a good situation to get yourself involved with at the moment. My advice: wait a few months for things to settle down.
 

chin311

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update again. . .

well. bleh.

she said she still needs to talk to him because she doesnt have real 'closure' on their situation. she says she feels like she jumped into something really fast and didnt give herself anytime to 'be over it', because shes not sure if she will be, or if she 'wants to', which didnt make any sense to me. sucks.

she didnt say she wanted to stop whats going on between us, or anything like that. but i dunno man, this is gettin touchy on my poor little heart, cuz now i want to be with her more than ever. she said she 'wasnt saying anything' by what she was telling me, just that she wanted me to understand where shes coming from. i guess we'll see where it goes, if they cant/dont get back together now, i think im in. but it all depends on what kinda crap he says, like if he 'wants to be with her', but 'cant right now' or something to that effect, she might wait it out or something stupid. GAHHHHHHHHH you guys were right, but still that nite was incrediable! now its jus a matter of getting it out of my head.
 

Doboji

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Sorry to hear that man.... can't say I didnt warn ya....

You know what they say: You can lead a horse to water......

:beer:Here have a beer.... know what... here's another :beer:

-Max
 

Lazy8s

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well I hate to say it but...wait a sec no I don't


TOLD YA SO!!!

haha j/k, seriously though man, I say don't ruin a good thing you got goin but you need to tell her straight that you respect her but she has to respect you too, if you wanna be fsck buddies and she's ok with it go for it but you gotta date other people till she's got it figured out otherwise you'll be waiting on her forever and that's exactly what she wants.....refer to me earlier girls=evil post