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I'm 24. I've had one girlfriend. for 6 weeks. 4 years ago.

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Originally posted by: LoKe
Has everyone dated a slut named crystal? Everyone I know had a slutty girlfriend named Crystal at one point. Except me, of course.
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Actually ya I was going to post a response like that.. Yea I also didn't date her, think she caught Hep though.
 
Originally posted by: TheGoodGuy
be an asshole..and you will get women!
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Yep, that certainly seems to work. I have been trying to think of ways for me to increase my assholiness, but I think I am just too nice a guy 😀
 
Originally posted by: RBachman
My slutty g/f was named Elizabeth, not Crystal, so I guess I break the rule. She was the one who tried to get a FFFM going with a couple of her friends... no need to call shens - like a true ATer I screwed it up.

Anyway, as far as the OP's problem, body language is LOUD dude. Louder than if you screamed "I'M LONELY!!!" in someone's ear. Most anyone will tell you people only show interest in them when they have a s/o, and you probably do it yourself, as most of us do, subconciously finding women who are "taken", so to speak, more attractive because of the body language they're giving off.

That was my insight for 2006, now back to my regularly scheduled stupidity for another year.
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unless you weren't the M, where thefvck is the problem?
 
You need to post a pic of yourself...

Sometimes women are simply shallow. If you're "ok" looking...and you have an "ok" personality...you're not gonna get a lot of interest past that first date.

Mediocre guys who have great personalities have a higher success rate than the Average Joe. Great-looking meatheads also have a higher success rate than the Average Joe.

You need something that attracts women to you...if the guy to your left looks better, and the guy to your right is "wowing" the room with his charm...you're not gonna have much luck.
 
Chin up dude :thumbsup:, things should improve later. But in the mean time aren't you having fun dating these girls? If not your probably being too needy/ emotional/ giving off 'dodgy' vibes for whatever reason. If your enjoying your dates just keep on dating these girls. You will come across a girl that you click with sooner or later.

I'm running in to poor 'luck' also but things should be turning up for me :thumbsup:

:beer: for the both of us. Not that I can handle much in the way of :beer:

Maybe join other clubs or widen your circle further? You already have a wide circle of activities and stuff and your still not getting past the 1st date something is with the girls your meeting or you.

Koing
 
Originally posted by: Nutdotnet
You need to post a pic of yourself...

Sometimes women are simply shallow. If you're "ok" looking...and you have an "ok" personality...you're not gonna get a lot of interest past that first date.

Mediocre guys who have great personalities have a higher success rate than the Average Joe. Great-looking meatheads also have a higher success rate than the Average Joe.

You need something that attracts women to you...if the guy to your left looks better, and the guy to your right is "wowing" the room with his charm...you're not gonna have much luck.
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I must have a great personality then :thumbsup: 😛

Koing
 
thats no big deal man, im 23 and I've been single for like 3 months in the past 6 years....you dont want to go through multiple gf's, just one that lasts....
 
Originally posted by: junkerman123
Holy commitment batman....all these 20somethings with 15+ girlfriends? I mean, I've been with a lot of girls but I'm way too scared of commitment, especially in my college days (I had one gf freshman year, that's it). In my life I've had...let's see...4 serious girlfriends (as serious as you can consider a middle school/hs relationship) and a couple girls that I've kind of been "with" in college but never really got serious with.

15+ girlfriends at the age of 20? wtf? thats 2 serious girlfriends per year?? What qualifies as a gf?
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This is ATOT. 15+ girlfriends means about 5, or 0.
 
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: ChiBOY83
Have you ever heard of http://ogame.org/ ?? your are welcome there! you will forget women exist if u play this game, right avg?
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i tried joining up, but I can't find the ATOT group...the reference # or whatever I got from the ATOT thread didn't work 🙁
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just sign up an account in uni 13, and use this name, and we will find you!!
 
OP, don't sweat it. It's hard to find someone where there is mutual compatibility. Also, someone loving you is not all it is cracked up to be when you don't love them back. In fact it is awkward and frustrating. I have had some of the same troubles you have had. One thing you need to do is find something that ameliorates that desperation. Somehow you have to get to a point where you want someone to enhance your life and not fix it. For me it was getting a cat or two and discovering how good of a caretaker I can be. Not everyone is so easily pleased, though.
 
Originally posted by: Koing
Chin up dude :thumbsup:, things should improve later. But in the mean time aren't you having fun dating these girls? If not your probably being too needy/ emotional/ giving off 'dodgy' vibes for whatever reason. If your enjoying your dates just keep on dating these girls. You will come across a girl that you click with sooner or later.

I'm running in to poor 'luck' also but things should be turning up for me :thumbsup:

:beer: for the both of us. Not that I can handle much in the way of :beer:

Maybe join other clubs or widen your circle further? You already have a wide circle of activities and stuff and your still not getting past the 1st date something is with the girls your meeting or you.

Koing
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well yeah, I DO have fun with these girls, but I have 0 girls that I'm close to, and 0 support from a partners; not that I NEED support from a romantic partner, but I've never had it ever, and I wonder what it would be like to have someone that enjoys spending time with you. I've never ever had that for even a second of my entire life.
 
Originally posted by: ChiBOY83
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Originally posted by: ChiBOY83
Have you ever heard of http://ogame.org/ ?? your are welcome there! you will forget women exist if u play this game, right avg?
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i tried joining up, but I can't find the ATOT group...the reference # or whatever I got from the ATOT thread didn't work 🙁
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just sign up an account in uni 13, and use this name, and we will find you!!
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I'm in! Accipiter22, home planet: Striatus
 
Originally posted by: torpid
OP, don't sweat it. It's hard to find someone where there is mutual compatibility. Also, someone loving you is not all it is cracked up to be when you don't love them back. In fact it is awkward and frustrating. I have had some of the same troubles you have had. One thing you need to do is find something that ameliorates that desperation. Somehow you have to get to a point where you want someone to enhance your life and not fix it. For me it was getting a cat or two and discovering how good of a caretaker I can be. Not everyone is so easily pleased, though.
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yah, I think I need some amelioration of my current situation, just gotta figure out what to do. I have nowhere for a litter box right now, so adopting a meow is out of the question for the time being.
 
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