If you're a virgin....

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
in all seriousness, if you're fairly geeky, and haven't had any gf's, I heartilly recommend practicing with someone you don't really care about and is probably a little bit slutty/less attractive than you'de ordinarilly go for. The thing about sex is that the first time you do it, it's a bit awkward. In fact, crappy sex/oral sex, can easily ruin a good relationship. Wouldn't you rather make a good impression on that girl you like? Do you really want to be a complete fool when you attempt to perform cunilingus? I think not.

I was a complete n00b when I went to bed with my wife (who had much more experience than I did) the night we got together as a couple. Did that ruin our relationship? Nope. She was kind and patient with me even though I was so nervous. In the end, I'm glad I didn't have any prior experience before her. It wouldn't have been as special as doing it with my wife that first time, and I probably would have felt cheap for boinking a slut just to get some in the first place. Since then, I've gotten a lot better, of course. Having a huge unit (according to her, anyway) helps some too.

Not to mention, the first time I ever went down on her (the first time I ever went down on anyone, actually) she said it was the first time anyone had ever made her come from oral. I was down there for probably 30 minutes and she claimed to have had 3 orgasms in that time, although it sounded like a lot more...

 

[amdskip]

I'm 20, almost 21 and I am still a virgin.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: FFMCobalt

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: coldcut
Why would you want to have sex before 20 years of age?!?! What if you end up getting your girlfriend pregnant?

I'll wait until marriage.

Eh....

Don't roll your eyes, Mill. Just because someone has different thinking, higher standards, and a stronger will than you do doesn't mean he's wrong. Jesus.

So you are the one that gets to determine the "standards" that we should follow? Stronger will? May I subscribe to your newsletter please?

 

[Spooner]

I'm still not convinced here

 

[isaacmacdonald]

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
in all seriousness, if you're fairly geeky, and haven't had any gf's, I heartilly recommend practicing with someone you don't really care about and is probably a little bit slutty/less attractive than you'de ordinarilly go for. The thing about sex is that the first time you do it, it's a bit awkward. In fact, crappy sex/oral sex, can easily ruin a good relationship. Wouldn't you rather make a good impression on that girl you like? Do you really want to be a complete fool when you attempt to perform cunilingus? I think not.

I was a complete n00b when I went to bed with my wife (who had much more experience than I did) the night we got together as a couple. Did that ruin our relationship? Nope. She was kind and patient with me even though I was so nervous. In the end, I'm glad I didn't have any prior experience before her. It wouldn't have been as special as doing it with my wife that first time, and I probably would have felt cheap for boinking a slut just to get some in the first place. Since then, I've gotten a lot better, of course. Having a huge unit (according to her, anyway) helps some too.

Not to mention, the first time I ever went down on her (the first time I ever went down on anyone, actually) she said it was the first time anyone had ever made her come from oral. I was down there for probably 30 minutes and she claimed to have had 3 orgasms in that time, although it sounded like a lot more...

bravo.

When I was a n00b I was a little stifled by bad oral sex. "WTH am I supposed to tell this girl? why does she keep biting me???". It became an issue after a while because when I was honest it became some dramatic statement (when all I wanted was to get her to stop biting me). *eegad*. I can't tell you how happy I am to be done with all the inexperience and fumbling. Perhaps I was overstating when I said it could a good relationship, but inexperience is certainly annoying, and IMO something to be dispensed with asap. There's really nothing wrong with getting a little experience as long as you're not hurting anyone's feelings or behaving irresponsibly.

 

[tlam617]

Originally posted by: MrCodeDude
Who needs womens when you have the Fleshlight?
-- mrcodedude

lmfao!!

 

[Spooner]

why does she keep biting me???".

Dayum, that's when you know you have an inexperienced girl

 

[bolido2000]

Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
sigh i guess ill post about my personal stuff for the first time

my gf and i are both virgins and we intend to keep it that way because we have a very high level of respect for each other.

im 21 and she's 19 and we've been together for 18 months by the way.. :Q

What are u trying to imply? That sex degrades a person? I think if you love someone you will also have sexual desires towards that person.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?

I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

Well you've come to the right place to ask that question!

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
in all seriousness, if you're fairly geeky, and haven't had any gf's, I heartilly recommend practicing with someone you don't really care about and is probably a little bit slutty/less attractive than you'de ordinarilly go for. The thing about sex is that the first time you do it, it's a bit awkward. In fact, crappy sex/oral sex, can easily ruin a good relationship. Wouldn't you rather make a good impression on that girl you like? Do you really want to be a complete fool when you attempt to perform cunilingus? I think not.

I was a complete n00b when I went to bed with my wife (who had much more experience than I did) the night we got together as a couple. Did that ruin our relationship? Nope. She was kind and patient with me even though I was so nervous. In the end, I'm glad I didn't have any prior experience before her. It wouldn't have been as special as doing it with my wife that first time, and I probably would have felt cheap for boinking a slut just to get some in the first place. Since then, I've gotten a lot better, of course. Having a huge unit (according to her, anyway) helps some too.

Not to mention, the first time I ever went down on her (the first time I ever went down on anyone, actually) she said it was the first time anyone had ever made her come from oral. I was down there for probably 30 minutes and she claimed to have had 3 orgasms in that time, although it sounded like a lot more...

bravo.

When I was a n00b I was a little stifled by bad oral sex. "WTH am I supposed to tell this girl? why does she keep biting me???". It became an issue after a while because when I was honest it became some dramatic statement (when all I wanted was to get her to stop biting me). *eegad*. I can't tell you how happy I am to be done with all the inexperience and fumbling. Perhaps I was overstating when I said it could a good relationship, but inexperience is certainly annoying, and IMO something to be dispensed with asap. There's really nothing wrong with getting a little experience as long as you're not hurting anyone's feelings or behaving irresponsibly.

Ever see Chasing Amy and the scene where they're talking about giving head?

"You ought to handle it like CNN and the Weather Channel - constant updates."



I'm not saying that having experience with someone else is a bad thing, I just personally wouldn't have wanted my experience prior to my wife to be with a hosehound. If it had been someone who I could have respected the next day, that would be different.

 

[bolido2000]

Originally posted by: Booster

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?

I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

It looks like I did lose all interest in sex lately, I'm almost 24, and getting older. I think that's b/c I had only crap concerning relationships with the opposite sex. When I see a pretty girl, my emotions are usually repulsion and fear, not the desire 'to get laid'. Life taught me that way. I never had a GF and I don't think I ever will. I don't feel anything about it, sometimes I'm puzzling over it, but then I realize it's not what I want. Thoughts about women used to occupy such an important place in my mind just a few years back, however, bitches made me change my ways. I think I started a new life, a completely new one. I'm a different person now and maybe, the last thing I care about right now is sex.

That sucks. Don't let crappy relationships make you gay

 

[bolido2000]

Originally posted by: SOSTrooper
Is it warm inside? Only my fingers been in there, and I forgot if it was warm inside or not...

no...it doesn't feel like an apple pie.

 

[BeauJangles]

Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
sigh i guess ill post about my personal stuff for the first time

my gf and i are both virgins and we intend to keep it that way because we have a very high level of respect for each other.

im 21 and she's 19 and we've been together for 18 months by the way.. :Q

If you can't have sex with a girl and maintain the same respect you had beforehand, that's pathetic. I also don't see how having sex would lower that respect....

 

[rahvin]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?

I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

Well you've come to the right place to ask that question!

:beer:

This forum is just bursting with experience! (or should I say inexperience)

 

[CrazyDe1]

Originally posted by: Mavrick

Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
sigh i guess ill post about my personal stuff for the first time

my gf and i are both virgins and we intend to keep it that way because we have a very high level of respect for each other.

im 21 and she's 19 and we've been together for 18 months by the way.. :Q

That just don't make sense dude. If I understand you well, you'll never have sex with her if you continue to love her forever....

Well, I don'T know if I should wish you to break up.... then maybe you can have sex with her....

Having sex has nothing to do with respect or anything like that. You have sex because it's an instinct, and, if you love that person, it's even better!! (the after sex session is really great when you're with a girl you love)

I understand how he feels completely. It's because they think they have somethign special and don't want it to be based around sex yet. I know I was once with a girl and she was like why aren't we having sex yet and I was like because I respect you and want to show you that and I don't want to turn it into that yet. I want to establish that we have something special and can just sit around and hangout and enjoy each other's company without it turning to sex. That and with every relationship I'm in I want it to be that I just look at the chick and think of her as what we are together and as her, without involving sex. I think it's because I think sex brings a lot of BS into relationships and if you establish something before that...it may take a week, it may take 2 years, it's worth it.

 

[ElfHeart]

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?

I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

dunno really, i lost mine one week before my 18th birthday, wasn't very good though

 

[CrazyDe1]

Originally posted by: BlinderBomber

Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
sigh i guess ill post about my personal stuff for the first time

my gf and i are both virgins and we intend to keep it that way because we have a very high level of respect for each other.

im 21 and she's 19 and we've been together for 18 months by the way.. :Q

If you can't have sex with a girl and maintain the same respect you had beforehand, that's pathetic. I also don't see how having sex would lower that respect....

It shows that you guys can maintain a strong relationship without it and that you could care less either way because you're so into her. When you actually do have it..it makes the relationship way stronger.

 

[MaxDepth]

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?

I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

Urge? Don't you mean unslackable, unyielding need...


Uhm, or is that just me?

 

[ElfHeart]

i think that is just you Max... and alot of "normal" men (i am a man, just not very normal)

 

[bolido2000]

Originally posted by: CrazyDe1

Originally posted by: BlinderBomber

Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
sigh i guess ill post about my personal stuff for the first time

my gf and i are both virgins and we intend to keep it that way because we have a very high level of respect for each other.

im 21 and she's 19 and we've been together for 18 months by the way.. :Q

If you can't have sex with a girl and maintain the same respect you had beforehand, that's pathetic. I also don't see how having sex would lower that respect....

It shows that you guys can maintain a strong relationship without it and that you could care less either way because you're so into her. When you actually do have it..it makes the relationship way stronger.

That's complete BS. That only makes sense if they are not virgins. You can't know what you are missing out unless you have experienced it.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: bolido2000

Originally posted by: CrazyDe1

Originally posted by: BlinderBomber

Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
sigh i guess ill post about my personal stuff for the first time

my gf and i are both virgins and we intend to keep it that way because we have a very high level of respect for each other.

im 21 and she's 19 and we've been together for 18 months by the way.. :Q

If you can't have sex with a girl and maintain the same respect you had beforehand, that's pathetic. I also don't see how having sex would lower that respect....

It shows that you guys can maintain a strong relationship without it and that you could care less either way because you're so into her. When you actually do have it..it makes the relationship way stronger.

It's twu, it's twu!! LOL. Nerds have some of the weirdest notions!

That's complete BS. That only makes sense if they are not virgins. You can't know what you are missing out unless you have experienced it.

 

[Spooner]

You can't know what you are missing out unless you have experienced it.

this statement comes back to the original question of the thread. Does this statement apply to sex? I think back to when I was a virgin (15 year old days) and remember how much I knew I was missing something good. I was wondering if you fast-forward a decade if that urge would dissapate. My inclination would lean toward "no way" but I haven't been a virgin for a long time, so I thought I'd ask.

 

[CrazyDe1]

Originally posted by: bolido2000

Originally posted by: CrazyDe1

Originally posted by: BlinderBomber

Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
sigh i guess ill post about my personal stuff for the first time

my gf and i are both virgins and we intend to keep it that way because we have a very high level of respect for each other.

im 21 and she's 19 and we've been together for 18 months by the way.. :Q

If you can't have sex with a girl and maintain the same respect you had beforehand, that's pathetic. I also don't see how having sex would lower that respect....

It shows that you guys can maintain a strong relationship without it and that you could care less either way because you're so into her. When you actually do have it..it makes the relationship way stronger.

That's complete BS. That only makes sense if they are not virgins. You can't know what you are missing out unless you have experienced it.

heh, that's how it worked for me. I denied a few girls...one of which who I ended up walking in on her having sex w/ some other guy because I wouldnt' have sex with her so she decided to find it elsewhere. When I did do it it took about 4 monthes to get to that point and it was awesome...

The thing is I told myself I would never base a relationship or base anythign solely on sex so I stick by it. I'm not saying that he and his girl should remain virgins but I can actually see his point of view and where he's coming from. To each his own...

 

[jadinolf]

Originally posted by: Tabb

Originally posted by: NathanBWF
if you're a man....i don't think the urge ever disappates...

Doesnt it freak you out when they say people still have sex when they are 60+? Thats like your parents having sex......

Disgusting!

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: jadinolf

Originally posted by: Tabb

Originally posted by: NathanBWF
if you're a man....i don't think the urge ever disappates...

Doesnt it freak you out when they say people still have sex when they are 60+? Thats like your parents having sex......

Disgusting!

Is anyone else thinking of the episode of "That 70's Show" where Eric walks in on his parents having sex?

"It was like a National Geographic documentary..."