I'm a virgin, but only completely by choice. I've gone out with girls that wanted to have sex with me, and it ended up ending the relationship every time. I just didn't feel like I had the right kind of relationship with them at the time. I'm not just saying crap, and I'm not trying to save it until marriage. I just want to have the right connection with any girl that I have sex with.
Dude, the one thing that I regret the most in my current relationship is that I DID wait until I met the right girl.. I'm not saying that I would change anything nor would I cheat on her but playing the field before settling down seems like a wonderful, beautiful thing to me!
in all seriousness, if you're fairly geeky, and haven't had any gf's, I heartilly recommend practicing with someone you don't really care about and is probably a little bit slutty/less attractive than you'de ordinarilly go for. The thing about sex is that the first time you do it, it's a bit awkward. In fact, crappy sex/oral sex, can easily ruin a good relationship. Wouldn't you rather make a good impression on that girl you like? Do you really want to be a complete fool when you attempt to perform cunilingus? I think not.
Originally posted by: coldcut
Why would you want to have sex before 20 years of age?!?! What if you end up getting your girlfriend pregnant? I'll wait until marriage.
If you get her pregnant, you at least know she's worth keeping, she's fertile! Just don't pork nasty chicks. Only do babes. Listen to my advice. Before you bone her, look at her mom. If you couldn't see yourself porking her mom (or aunt, sister, someone related), then she won't look good when older.
Dude, are you gay? OMG, I can't belive you've been waiting that long. Why are you waiting so long?
ahh crap, i've been not having sex soo many times now, man now i have to go and find a girl, jeez way to ruin it hehe
Dogg
That just don't make sense dude. If I understand you well, you'll never have sex with her if you continue to love her forever....
Well, I don'T know if I should wish you to break up.... then maybe you can have sex with her....
Having sex has nothing to do with respect or anything like that. You have sex because it's an instinct, and, if you love that person, it's even better!! (the after sex session is really great when you're with a girl you love)
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: Spooner
Anyway, having sex with someone is a lot more fun than just thinking about it. At the risk of sounding sappy, if you do it with someone you love, it's more than just blowing your load. It's a "connection" with your lover.
Gahhhh....I gotta stop before I start sounding like a bad Hallmark card.
That would make an AWESOME anniversary card : "Screwing you is more than just blowing my load...".. You should copywrite that or something!
AHAHAHAHAH!! Wow, that made my day!!!! That one liner is the best!!!
Originally posted by: Millennium
Originally posted by: coldcut
Why would you want to have sex before 20 years of age?!?! What if you end up getting your girlfriend pregnant?
I'll wait until marriage.
Eh....
Don't roll your eyes, Mill. Just because someone has different thinking, higher standards, and a stronger will than you do doesn't mean he's wrong. Jesus.
Same thing for me. Unfortunately, my first experience was with a wonderful girl that I'll probably love for the rest of my life. I just regret not having had a few "fun" with different girls before meeting her. But love IS a wonderful thing, that I wouldn't waste for anything in the world
I kept my virginity until I was 26.
There was a long period of time where I felt that I should save "it" for the one I was going to marry. It was more of a personal choice rather than a religious one. Anyone who has ever met me knows that I'm not religious at all. I wanted it to be special for that girl that I'm going to marry. It would show her (and myself) that I would have enough character, discipline, and principle to make a marriage work. It would make a strong statement that she is THE one.
To make a long story short, I never found that "special" someone. By age 26, I became slightly jaded. None of the girls I was romantically involved with were virgins (majority of them lied to me). The few girls that were virgins were not attracted to me. I am 29 now and have since had "multiple" partners and never been married. I'm completely fine with being single and I don't expect my future wife to be a virgin either. I will always, however, feel jealous of young couples who were married with both being virgins. There is just something special about it.
There was a long period of time where I felt that I should save "it" for the one I was going to marry. It was more of a personal choice rather than a religious one. Anyone who has ever met me knows that I'm not religious at all. I wanted it to be special for that girl that I'm going to marry. It would show her (and myself) that I would have enough character, discipline, and principle to make a marriage work. It would make a strong statement that she is THE one.
To make a long story short, I never found that "special" someone. By age 26, I became slightly jaded. None of the girls I was romantically involved with were virgins (majority of them lied to me). The few girls that were virgins were not attracted to me. I am 29 now and have since had "multiple" partners and never been married. I'm completely fine with being single and I don't expect my future wife to be a virgin either. I will always, however, feel jealous of young couples who were married with both being virgins. There is just something special about it.
Geekbabe
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You sound tired,stressed out,perhaps depressed.Maybe you should seek out someone to talk to about how you are feeling?
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