If you're a virgin....

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
sigh i guess ill post about my personal stuff for the first time

my gf and i are both virgins and we intend to keep it that way because we have a very high level of respect for each other.

How is having sex disrespectful? I have sex with my gf and respect her with every cell of my being..

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: Spooner

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: Spooner
masturbation is NOT sex!

It let's you know within reason what sex feels like.
In direct response to your previous post.

No no, it lets you know what an ejaculation is. Sex with a real woman has a lot more than the final few seconds where you ejaculate.

What he said. Not that beating off is all bad. I did it for 21 years before I got some nookie myself. 😉

Anyway, having sex with someone is a lot more fun than just thinking about it. At the risk of sounding sappy, if you do it with someone you love, it's more than just blowing your load. It's a "connection" with your lover.

Gahhhh....I gotta stop before I start sounding like a bad Hallmark card. 😀

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Spooner
Anyway, having sex with someone is a lot more fun than just thinking about it. At the risk of sounding sappy, if you do it with someone you love, it's more than just blowing your load. It's a "connection" with your lover.

Gahhhh....I gotta stop before I start sounding like a bad Hallmark card. 😀

That would make an AWESOME anniversary card : "Screwing you is more than just blowing my load...".. You should copywrite that or something!

 

[Thegonagle]

I was a virgin into my 20s and, no, the interest does not go away.

 

[Spooner]

No, I'm not knocking beating off. It is crucially important in its own right.

I'm saying that the guy has WAY off when he said masturbation gives you a clue

 

[yakko]

Originally posted by: coldcut
Why would you want to have sex before 20 years of age?!?! What if you end up getting your girlfriend pregnant?

I'll wait until marriage. 😕

Even if I was married I wouldn't want kids right now. I did it and took precautions.

Originally posted by: Spooner

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: Spooner
masturbation is NOT sex!

It let's you know within reason what sex feels like.
In direct response to your previous post.

No no, it lets you know what an ejaculation is. Sex with a real woman has a lot more than the final few seconds where you ejaculate.

Not always.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: Spooner
No, I'm not knocking beating off. It is crucially important in its own right.

I'm saying that the guy has WAY off when he said masturbation gives you a clue

Riiiight. So there is no foreplay. You can't tell me that masturbation doesn't let you know what sex feels like. Emotional connection and foreplay aside, how exactly does it NOT let you know what it feels like? At the very least it gives you enough of a taste of it that you would not just "lose interest."

By your definition casual sex with no emotional attachment just masturbation.

As implied in my first post in this thread, I'm not a virgin.

 

[Booster]

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?

I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

It looks like I did lose all interest in sex lately, I'm almost 24, and getting older. I think that's b/c I had only crap concerning relationships with the opposite sex. When I see a pretty girl, my emotions are usually repulsion and fear, not the desire 'to get laid'. Life taught me that way. I never had a GF and I don't think I ever will. I don't feel anything about it, sometimes I'm puzzling over it, but then I realize it's not what I want. Thoughts about women used to occupy such an important place in my mind just a few years back, however, bitches made me change my ways. I think I started a new life, a completely new one. I'm a different person now and maybe, the last thing I care about right now is sex.

 

[Spooner]

the last thing I care about right now is sex.

you will never hear me say that

 

[BatmanNate]

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?

I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

The fact that you even posted this thread means you are probably as cherry as they come, so you tell us.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Booster

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?

I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

It looks like I did lose all interest in sex lately, I'm almost 24, and getting older. I think that's b/c I had only crap concerning relationships with the opposite sex. When I see a pretty girl, my emotions are usually repulsion and fear, not the desire 'to get laid'. Life taught me that way. I never had a GF and I don't think I ever will. I don't feel anything about it, sometimes I'm puzzling over it, but then I realize it's not what I want. Thoughts about women used to occupy such an important place in my mind just a few years back, however, bitches made me change my ways. I think I started a new life, a completely new one. I'm a different person now and maybe, the last thing I care about right now is sex.

I have a feeling that the urges are still there but they're not for women so you may be supressing them... Embrace yourself and get some vaseline!

 

[Spooner]

Originally posted by: BatmanNate

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?
I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

The fact that you even posted this thread means you are probably as cherry as they come, so you tell us.

Um, not quite.... but think what you may

 

[dighn]

Originally posted by: Spooner
and you get into your 20's... do you just lose all interest?

I can't think of what it would be like never having sex. I'm wondering if the urge disappates over time.

no I don't lose all interest. but it has never been a high priority to me.

 

[Booster]

I have a feeling that the urges are still there but their not for women so you may be supressing them... Embrace yourself and get some vaseline!

No, I'm by and large not a 'homo'. I even hate many men with passion. They invade and piss on my territory. It's all that predatory stuff. Really, man, I tell you. I'm not a virgin and I regret it. I haven't had any sex in like years in a raw, and I can't describe how good it feels. I even feel somewhat closer to God b/c of this. It also has it's merits man.

 

[PatboyX]

Originally posted by: Booster

I have a feeling that the urges are still there but their not for women so you may be supressing them... Embrace yourself and get some vaseline!

No, I'm by and large not a 'homo'. I even hate many men with passion. They invade and piss on my territory. It's all that predatory stuff. Really, man, I tell you. I'm not a virgin and I regret it. I haven't had any sex in like years in a raw, and I can't describe how good it feels. I even feel somewhat closer to God b/c of this. It also has it's merits man.

thats hilarious.
i dont really understand it...but its hilarious.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Booster

I have a feeling that the urges are still there but their not for women so you may be supressing them... Embrace yourself and get some vaseline!

No, I'm by and large not a 'homo'. I even hate many men with passion. They invade and piss on my territory. It's all that predatory stuff. Really, man, I tell you. I'm not a virgin and I regret it. I haven't had any sex in like years in a raw, and I can't describe how good it feels. I even feel somewhat closer to God b/c of this. It also has it's merits man.

I don't know, dude.. You used the word man(or men) three times in a short paragraph and used the word "RAW" instead of row.. Without getting too Freudian, I believe that you have men on your mind!

 

[Booster]

I believe that you have men on your mind!

Unfortunately, that's completely wrong. However, this isn't important, so I should stop replying to this. Yes, I'm still obsessed with these sexual thoughts, but I'm not thinking about sex, I'm thinking about whether this part of my life has come to an end not even having started and what I should do about it. I don't know. Should I look for a woman? Should I stay single? Prolly the latter since I'm feeling much too tired for anything else. OK, note to self: don't threadcrap.

 

[Eli]

No.

I'm not a virgin, but no. There are some major problems if a guy just "loses interest". 😛 If anything, it gets worse.

 

[isaacmacdonald]

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: Spooner
No, I'm not knocking beating off. It is crucially important in its own right.

I'm saying that the guy has WAY off when he said masturbation gives you a clue

Riiiight. So there is no foreplay. You can't tell me that masturbation doesn't let you know what sex feels like. Emotional connection and foreplay aside, how exactly does it NOT let you know what it feels like? At the very least it gives you enough of a taste of it that you would not just "lose interest."

By your definition casual sex with no emotional attachment just masturbation.

As implied in my first post in this thread, I'm not a virgin.

yes and no. first of all, there's just a weird psychological thrill to not being alone (ie: masturbating). This is perhaps even more pronounced with oral sex. Second of all, unless you have a really big hand or a really small dick, it just isn't that good. Masturbation : Sex as crappy fscked up Fax : Original.

 

[Spooner]

Masturbation : Sex as crappy fscked up Fax : Original.

Don't think I'd go that far..... but you're on to something

 

[Spooner]

oops 😕

 

[MrCodeDude]

Who needs womens when you have the Fleshlight?
-- mrcodedude

 

[phreakah]

lost mine at 20 years old.. and i'm still 20 :Q

 

[bradruth]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: Booster

I have a feeling that the urges are still there but their not for women so you may be supressing them... Embrace yourself and get some vaseline!

No, I'm by and large not a 'homo'. I even hate many men with passion. They invade and piss on my territory. It's all that predatory stuff. Really, man, I tell you. I'm not a virgin and I regret it. I haven't had any sex in like years in a raw, and I can't describe how good it feels. I even feel somewhat closer to God b/c of this. It also has it's merits man.

I don't know, dude.. You used the word man(or men) three times in a short paragraph and used the word "RAW" instead of row.. Without getting too Freudian, I believe that you have men on your mind!

Bwahahahaha.

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: Spooner
but, wouldn't it be easier never really knowing what it feels like to begin with?

B) It's a very low-level instinct.

Speak for yourself man! Homo boy 😛 j/k