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If your daughter bacame a XXX star.

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Hmmm....
after carefull thought, I realized that if I threatened to disown her if she continued, she would continue and I'd never see her again. Threats like that usually tend to just drive a wedge in deeper between two people.

Therefore, I'd have to accept it.

Then, I thought.... gotta look for positives in this situation......
So, I'd ask my daughter if she could invite me to a cast party and introduce me to a few of the cute porn starlets 😀

heh heh
 
I would feel she was a disgrace to our family and not that to her ever again. What self respecting person would sell herself to be video'd? Practically whoring herself for money. A big waste of money on my part in raising that stupid girl. I'd beat my son to death as well. Stupid idiots. Especially after putting in so much time and effort to push them to be something bigger than that?
 
make her "pr0n" name something differant than her last name, so no one would find out she was my daughter

Dogg
 
Originally posted by: PunDogg
make her "pr0n" name something differant than her last name, so no one would find out she was my daughter

Dogg
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Your middle name and street name...
 
I'd rather have a daughter that was a porn star than something really sleazy like a lawyer, a used car salesperson or Hillary Clinton.
 
Originally posted by: DrPizza
Hmmm....
after carefull thought, I realized that if I threatened to disown her if she continued, she would continue and I'd never see her again. Threats like that usually tend to just drive a wedge in deeper between two people.

Therefore, I'd have to accept it.

Then, I thought.... gotta look for positives in this situation......
So, I'd ask my daughter if she could invite me to a cast party and introduce me to a few of the cute porn starlets 😀

heh heh
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True.

Hey also what about the your *other half*. If you have a daughter you have a SO. Hey maybe she can find a hungy porno lead guy 😉 j/k
 
would support my daughter in anything she decided to do, however it would take me quite a while to accept it
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It's this sort of Dr. Spock feel-good parenting that gives these children the license to fall off the rails in the first place. Sometimes I think people are more in love with the notion of being "supportive", than actually being so. Issuing approval/condonement of a daughter's entree into porn is HARDLY supportive. Stop trying to be her friend, and be her god damn parent.
 
Hmmm.. why are so many people su upset at the thought, yet I am willing to bet that most, if not all of you watch porn daily? The girls in those videos are someone's daughters; why is it okay for them to be pornstars but not your own daughter?
 
I would be proud of her for being my daughter, and support her in any decision she makes. once she is at that age and in the world finding porn gigs, she is out of my hands. I raised her, I did my job, if she needs me I'm there for her. beyond that she is her own person

if it were my son, RIGHT THE F#*K ON! 😉
 
For those of you saying chicks don't make much money in porn, there's a girl who went to my high school who got into porn after graduation. I didn't know her in high school, but I'm good friends with one of her best friends. Anyways, after a month or two of work, she bought herself a set of implants, and wanted to get my friend a pair for her birthday too. She also bought herself a new BMW, so I figure, if this chick no one's heard of is making enough money, it can't be all that uncommon.
 
I raised her, I did my job, if she needs me I'm there for her
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If your daughter entered into porn, you've done your job BADLY. She needs you, and being there for means, trying to convince her not to prostitute her body.
 
Originally posted by: BlipBlop
I raised her, I did my job, if she needs me I'm there for her
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If your daughter entered into porn, you've done your job BADLY. She needs you, and being there for means, trying to convince her not to prostitute her body.
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dont bag on porn, theres nothin wrong with it, everyone needs a nice pair of jugs in their face every now and then
 
Originally posted by: BlipBlop
would support my daughter in anything she decided to do, however it would take me quite a while to accept it
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It's this sort of Dr. Spock feel-good parenting that gives these children the license to fall off the rails in the first place. Sometimes I think people are more in love with the notion of being "supportive", than actually being so. Issuing approval/condonement of a daughter's entree into porn is HARDLY supportive. Stop trying to be her friend, and be her god damn parent.
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Let me rephrase that. I would -never- support her being a porn star. I would support her as a father. Regardless of what the hell she decides to do with her life, shes my daughter and if thats what she wants to do then I would try to accept it and avoid the topic and be there for her when she decides to leave the industry.

Being a 'god damn parent' means dealing with the fact that after the age of 18 you're no longer in charge of their life.
 

I would -never- support her being a porn star. I would support her as a father
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That sounds great, but it means nothing. If she's decided to do something as self-destructive as prostitute herself, she clearly doesn't want your "support as a father".

Regardless of what the hell she decides to do with her life, shes my daughter and if thats what she wants to do then I would try to accept it and avoid the topic and be there for her when she decides to leave the industry
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Right. But what about the showing her the wrong of her action by your own decision not to communicate with her? If she has an ounce of decency (which I would hoped you've taught her) the depth of your dissapointment and decision not to be involved in her life if she pursued such an avenue would show her the seriousness of her actions. Yes, that's right. She needs to be taught, since she apparently hasn't been so far, that she is responsible for more than herself. Supporting "as a father", to me, amounts to nothing more than condonement of the action. And I'm willing to bet it's percieved by such girls the same way.
 
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