Originally posted by: Klixxer
Considering the outcome in your mind does, as i said, not quite equate to experiencing it, it REALLY doesn't matter how hard you try, the experience will STILL be different.
Many things that you "know" you don't know at all, i am not racking down on YOU or your marriage, i am giving you some sound advice.
I would never get married again, so i don't share your problem, i am divorced.

However, if i was in a relationship of any sort that i valued i would most definently turn it down. But that is me, not you, you will do what you choose and bear the consequences whichever they may be.
Best of luck to you, no matter what you choose.