If you had the chance to sleep with more then 1 girl at the same time..

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blackdogdeek

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Originally posted by: Klixxer

A fantasy rarely turn out as you imagine it, she might very well approach you with the opportunity and discover that she can't stop thinking that you probably had better sex with the other woman than you have with her, VERY few people can let go of jealousy and doubt.

the reason i doubt that would happen is she would have already considered that outcome beforehand. believe me, the way she makes decisions, she would have thought of every contingency.

You have no doubt? Pretty much everyone reacts differently when their fantasies come true, few fantasies are the same IRL. Sratch that, NO fantasies are like real life.

i have no doubt. that's why i married her. she can handle herself to the point where i can take her at face value. if had to try to figure out everything that might happen to her due to her own actions, i wouldn't have married her. i might caution her about some of the things she does if i think i know better, but i'll only do that to a certain point. at some point, i have to let her make her own decisions.

so you're saying that even though you're wife or SO is into the idea, you would still turn it down, because you would worry that it would lead to divorce because your wife/SO might be jealous?

Until you have tried it, you don't know.

exactly the reason i would do it.
 

CVSiN

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Originally posted by: glen
Having done this, I would NOT do it again.
Sex is ALWAYS best 1 on 1 and in a loving committed relationship.

bull crap.. then you had a crappy 3some =P
 

blakeatwork

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Qualify your poll options with the following:

i)Are they Hot?
ii))If you're in a relationship, is there a chance you'll be caught?

If i) is true and ii) is zero risk, then of course... :p
 

Klixxer

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Originally posted by: blackdogdeek
Originally posted by: Klixxer

A fantasy rarely turn out as you imagine it, she might very well approach you with the opportunity and discover that she can't stop thinking that you probably had better sex with the other woman than you have with her, VERY few people can let go of jealousy and doubt.

the reason i doubt that would happen is she would have already considered that outcome beforehand. believe me, the way she makes decisions, she would have thought of every contingency.

You have no doubt? Pretty much everyone reacts differently when their fantasies come true, few fantasies are the same IRL. Sratch that, NO fantasies are like real life.

i have no doubt. that's why i married her. she can handle herself to the point where i can take her at face value. if had to try to figure out everything that might happen to her due to her own actions, i wouldn't have married her. i might caution her about some of the things she does if i think i know better, but i'll only do that to a certain point. at some point, i have to let her make her own decisions.

so you're saying that even though you're wife or SO is into the idea, you would still turn it down, because you would worry that it would lead to divorce because your wife/SO might be jealous?

Until you have tried it, you don't know.

exactly the reason i would do it.

Considering the outcome in your mind does, as i said, not quite equate to experiencing it, it REALLY doesn't matter how hard you try, the experience will STILL be different.

Many things that you "know" you don't know at all, i am not racking down on YOU or your marriage, i am giving you some sound advice.

I would never get married again, so i don't share your problem, i am divorced. ;) However, if i was in a relationship of any sort that i valued i would most definently turn it down. But that is me, not you, you will do what you choose and bear the consequences whichever they may be.

Best of luck to you, no matter what you choose. :)
 

Klixxer

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Originally posted by: CVSiN
Originally posted by: glen
Having done this, I would NOT do it again.
Sex is ALWAYS best 1 on 1 and in a loving committed relationship.

bull crap.. then you had a crappy 3some =P

Not neccessarily, i agree with him, i have had much better sex with just one woman than i have had with 2 or more.
 

FiLeZz

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Are you a straight Male, I mean what non gay man would even have to ask such a question.. Just my food for thought.
 

PanzerIV

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Hell, where's the option for three? :p If I was single and the opportunity arose I would do it in a heartbeat but that's not something I am comfortable with in my marriage. My wife has playfully suggested it but I brush it off. I think it would lead to many problems otherwise.
 

SWScorch

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I have a gf right now, and as much as I would like to, I think given the opportunity right now, I wouldn't; it would just cause too many problems. But if I was unattached, damn straight! I'd do it in a heartbeat :)
 

Talksmartz

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I am amazed at the lack of response to the "More than 3 at the same time" comment....I was only the second.

Just make sure you're sleeping with more than one, and not dealing with more than one =) to very different worlds
 

Klixxer

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Originally posted by: Talksmartz
I am amazed at the lack of response to the "More than 3 at the same time" comment....I was only the second.

Just make sure you're sleeping with more than one, and not dealing with more than one =) to very different worlds

And you hope to experience it one day?
 

Klixxer

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Originally posted by: SWScorch
I have a gf right now, and as much as I would like to, I think given the opportunity right now, I wouldn't; it would just cause too many problems. But if I was unattached, damn straight! I'd do it in a heartbeat :)

The JD is working it's way down my throat and the wenches are awaiting.

Single life is gooooooooooood. :D
 

Klixxer

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Originally posted by: notfred
WTF would I do with two girls anyway? I've only got one dick.

Cuz sex is not just putting your penis into the vagina?

It is an experience.