Have you ever read this book?
http://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Envy-O...ds=north+korea
It is a fabulous book that I just couldn't put down. Perhaps the saddest story is of a North Korean doctor who made it across the Yalu and into China. While wondering the countryside, she came upon a home and in front of that home, in the yard, was a bowl full of meat and rice. She was amazed and didn't understand why it was there. Then it dawned on her -- it was dog food, and dogs in China (a relatively poor part of China IIRC) were eating much better than human beings in North Korea.
Anyway, back to the discussion. I hate the situation Doppel. I feel very, very sorry for those poor people. I've read many books on North Korea and know very well how bad it is for the people there. But what can we really do about it? It really is a situation where South Korea has to make the call and even more importantly, China needs to take ownership of the situation or at least, not prevent the world from doing something. Notice I said "world." I feel bad for the folks in North Korea, but I don't want to waste a single drop of American blood.
Think about this for a minute -- China knows full well what is going on in North Korea. Russia does too. Yet these two will do everything in their power to prevent action against North Korea, even threats of additional sanctions. What does that tell you about these two countries? If they don't want to get involved, fine, but why actively block others who would take even additional political or economic measures against the North Korean regime?
If you really wanted to end the regime in NK, the best bet would be for the CIA or other intelligence agencies to make contacts in the NK military and over time, maybe bring divisions over to the side wanting to free North Korea. As you probably know, though, that is almost an impossible task given the scrutiny and distrust sewn into each and every North Korean by their government's propaganda.
So, I'll ask, what would you have us do?
Some do, some don't. I don't think anyone knows for certain how much of the North Korean population is actually loyal to the Kims and believes them as opposed to those who know it is all a lie and are just trying to survive. From some of the documentaries I've seen, some of them REALLY seem to believe in the propaganda and if it is an act, they should be kidnapped and brought to Hollywood immediately.
I personally wonder if Kim Jong Un is even the one in charge or merely a figurehead.