Not really. A realistic video game would be, like, a washing-up simulator, or a commuting-according-to-the-rules-of-the-road-in-congested-traffic simulator*. Generally the point of them is fantasy, to do things one can't do in the real world due to the likely awfulness of the consequences. Even photo-realistic graphics or physics isn't necessarily desirable - stylized and artistic imagery can be more interesting than photo-realism.
I'd rather shoot invading multi-tentacled aliens (with nil adverse consequences) than some harmless wildlife (and then have to worry what value I might have removed from the world by doing so)..
* OK, some video games _are_ a bit like this and some people seem to like them. But those people are freaks, dammit.