I think trident might be not trolling.
Anyway, women respect a guy who acts like a man. You have to eliminate any elements of your personality that make you a pussy. The way he acts in combination with his tears about girls leads me to believe it's not a troll.
So in short, act confident, like a guy. Get rid of your insecurities. Act emotionally stable. Even if you have actually don't have these traits now, just
'fake it till ya make it.'
And eventually it will be second nature when you actually grow up. Did you have a good male role model or no? Your not the only 20something manchild out there. It's something that plagues this generation. You probably have no idea what your gender role actually is. Your parents probably were big beleivers in gender equality and it turned you into a pussy and it will now take actual mental effort on your own to undo.