I want to put my sisters face through a window...

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LordMaul

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MDay: What would this solve?

I think you DO need to humliate her or something...

Like wash her cloths because you felt "like you wanted to do something for her" and put like 3 pounds of starch in them.

No, that won't help anything...

How about when her freinds come over, mention somethin about something she used to do, or is she knows about what heppeneed to *insert ebarassing item* (IE, "Hey, where did you put my underwear when we, uh, played around last night? *then nudge her and smile cute-like at her*, or "Hehehehehehe, remember that time when you were little and insert childish thing here, like "when you used to run around the house naked, screaming "KISS ME! KISS ME!!" or something of the like, or "Hey, where did you get this vibrator?")

Damn, I'm evil.. :D
 

BigToque

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<< How about when her freinds come over, mention somethin about something she used to do, or if she knows anything about something that would really embarrass her. >>



Like how when she was 10, a friend told her a scary story that involved a washroom. She was so scared to go to the washroom that she took a crap outside on the concrete beside my house?

That might work :D
 

pillage2001

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Sep 18, 2000
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CAtty, sisters/brothers who are like this are usually a parent's pet. They are angels in front of their own parents. :)
 

BatmanNate

Lifer
Jul 12, 2000
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Pillage has it right. My 15 year old sister is the same way, and my parents seem to find a halo looming over her at all times, only to be dismounted by my sheer corruption, of course.

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You dump on us for disliking a boy band because of their music and wishing them ill because they suck, but you want to put your own sister's face through a window? You have problems. :p
 

bigd480

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i have a future sister in law that is very similar: selfish, spoiled, and stupid... when someone gets on your nerves that bad the best way to keep yourself from going crazy is to avoid them whenever possible... think of letting her have the car as a way to buy sanity...
 

Viperoni

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<< saying shes gonna get her boyfriend to 'stab out my eyes' and such >>



It'd be funny to see that! :)
*stefan snaps his arms, breaks is legs, sister cries* ;)

But sereiously, I like the spark plug wire idea :)
Plus it'd only take a few seconds too :D



Well, in retrospect, at least you get to drive the car at all, my dad doesn't let me (I'm 18 in half a month)
 

Soulchaser

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Start playing mind games with her. My brother started doing that to me when I was 12 and now I'm whacked out paranoid. It can really change a person.
 

gmrickards

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I used to be like your sister to my older brother until I went to college. Once you move out, she will miss you and you two will get along much better. It did w/ my brother. Anyways, the best thing to do is ignore her. Don't talk to her at all. She will prob get mad you aren't talking to her. Then she will prob (hopefully) realize what a b*tch she is. Good luck man.
 

Techwhore

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<< I have never met a single person that could come close to her with her attitude. >>



You've never met MY sister...

Dude, I completely empathize with you. The only difference is that my sister is one year older than I am... I can tell you that as she gets older things will change, but not much. Sorry :(
 

Shippy

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Oct 15, 1999
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If you are 19 years old and still living with your parents then you deserve everything you are getting. Don't you think it's about time to be a man and make your mark in the world? Go off to college, get a job, join the Military, do something! I'd be ashamed of myself if I were in your shoes. But I guess I was raised to be more independent than you. But seeing how you can't be man enough to take care of yourself, it figures that you'd let your sister walk all over you. Hopefully one day you'll quit being a mooch and make something of yourself.
 

kami

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Stefan, my sis is the same age and exactly the same. She is a fscking BITCH 24/7. I mean NON-STOP. I have tried HARD to be nice to her, or do favors for her...but she doesn't appreciate anything and turns into a bigass mega-bitch.

Sh!t, I just ignore her now. Maybe that's what you should do. She talks, I act like the bitch isn't even in the room. I don't get any violent tendancies, it's mostly just verbal stuff between us. Maybe you should do the same...IGNORE HER! Alternate weekends with the car or something.

I turn 19 in august and am moving away to college in august. CAN'T FSCKING WAIT. And after college, I sure as hell ain't going back to this damn house!!! ;)
 

poorStudent

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I would try to bring the subject up when she is in a good mood. Try to find out what motivate her and use that as a negotiation point. Find out why she really wants the car on those days...here are some questions that might assist you:

Is she feel embarrass with the truck among her friends? Why? Is the truck looks bad? What is her motivation for using the car? Is there a someone she trying to impress? If she have a steady boyfriend or group of friends then that the questions would be: Do they need the car to transport more people?...etc.

I gather that you have try to talk to her on a numerous occasions and she doesn't listen to you. I would try to talk to her on vocabulary and personality. Your goal is to add comfort to your life by having the car on a more frequent basis. Is that comfort worth fighting for even if you might spend a month trying to negotiate? The important thing is have a plan and the time alloted to that plan so that you are focus and not get sidetracked by the minor set back.

Of all the self help books I've read, the main theme to deal with life situation is not playing the victim role. Why give her the power to upset you? Don't waste your time and energy in feeling anger and rather use them to find the solution. In conclution it's all boil down to the three A. Aware { understand, use methods to understand the situation, problem,...etc}, Accept { accept that there is the problem and not blamming yourself or others, not playing the victim role, and commit all your available resourses to solve it}, and finally take Action.

Please forgave me if I sounded not to your liking. My intention is assist you and on a personal side is review the materials I have read. I welcome all criticisms and comments and please excuse my spelling and grammar.
 

Freejack2

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Sounds like my sister when she was younger. In her case it took a pr!ck ex-husband and having a kid to calm her down.
Hopefully your sister won't go through that but it may take a harsh taste of reality before she calms down.

My wife on the other hand, her youngest brother used to pick fights with her all the time, once she moved out and went to college though, they started getting along pretty good.

Hmm another thing is until my parents got divorced I was living in a dysfunctional family, where as my wife didn't have to go through any of that.
 

BigToque

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<< If you are 19 years old and still living with your parents then you deserve everything you are getting. Don't you think it's about time to be a man and make your mark in the world? >>



Nobody deserves the attitude she gives people. She even swears and screams at my parents when she doesnt get something she wants. Spoiled brat from hell should be her name.

I will be going to University in September, but I'm not moving out. The university is about a 15 minute drive from my house. Why move out and pay out all that extra money, when I could instead use it for school?
 

Dark4ng3l

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<< Why move out and pay out all that extra money, when I could instead use it for school? >>


1. no parents
2. no crazy sister
 

Shippy

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<< Nobody deserves the attitude she gives people. She even swears and screams at my parents when she doesnt get something she wants. Spoiled brat from hell should be her name. >>



Well I guess that's your parents fault for sparing the rod. You are old enough to get away from her though. As an adult, you choose to stay there. She doesn't have a choice.



<< 1. no parents >>
<< 2. no crazy sister
>>



Exactly.
 

Mday

Lifer
Oct 14, 1999
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it's only supposed to scare her, and besides, stefan is the guy wanting to use the car...