I want to get married.

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cKGunslinger

Lifer
Nov 29, 1999
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Originally posted by: mjuszczak
I'm not a virgin. I've had sex with one girl.

Well, yeah. I guess you've experienced it all, nothing left to do but settle down and get married. :roll:
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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you are co dependant so of course you would like to have someone wh ocant leave you. Its a typical trait for someone who is not realizing there full potentail as an independent person. like i've siad before the best thing for you is to forget romantic relationships for a while and concentrate on yourself. Make yourself the best you can be in all areas of your life. Create an exciting lifestyle that a high calibre woman will want to be apart of, then women and romance will no longer be problems.
 

cherrytwist

Diamond Member
Apr 11, 2000
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Happily married here, going on 4 years (been together 9 years).

Nothing wrong with marriage so long as you're doing it for the right reasons.
 

manlymatt83

Lifer
Oct 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: gigapet
you are co dependant so of course you would like to have someone wh ocant leave you. Its a typical trait for someone who is not realizing there full potentail as an independent person. like i've siad before the best thing for you is to forget romantic relationships for a while and concentrate on yourself. Make yourself the best you can be in all areas of your life. Create an exciting lifestyle that a high calibre woman will want to be apart of, then women and romance will no longer be problems.

They aren't problems? I work out every day and am very happy on where I am heading. And I'm a very independent person. I just like cuddling :p
 

Rill22

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Oct 5, 2005
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Pffft, don't let anyone rag on you. Just make sure that you don't get married just because you want to be married. Get married because you love your girlfriend and want to be with her forever. Getting married for the sake of marriage isn't a good idea.
 

manlymatt83

Lifer
Oct 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: Rill22
Pffft, don't let anyone rag on you. Just make sure that you don't get married just because you want to be married. Get married because you love your girlfriend and want to be with her forever. Getting married for the sake of marriage isn't a good idea.

Of course I woudln't do that. I'd drive myself crazy.

I have a bunch of girls interested in me right now, but they are all the type of girls who are high-maintenance, require every little thing from every jewelery store, and hook up with a bunch of people.

Not my type of girl.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: gigapet
you are co dependant so of course you would like to have someone wh ocant leave you. Its a typical trait for someone who is not realizing there full potentail as an independent person. like i've siad before the best thing for you is to forget romantic relationships for a while and concentrate on yourself. Make yourself the best you can be in all areas of your life. Create an exciting lifestyle that a high calibre woman will want to be apart of, then women and romance will no longer be problems.

They aren't problems? I work out every day and am very happy on where I am heading. And I'm a very independent person. I just like cuddling :p

get a dog.

seriously....last thing you need right now is to get involved with someone else. Your coming out of a long relationship with your first love. Its gonna take a while to get your head straight and have the right persepctive.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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What's the divorce rate ? Less than 50% ? See... it works out most of the time!
 

manlymatt83

Lifer
Oct 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: gigapet
you are co dependant so of course you would like to have someone wh ocant leave you. Its a typical trait for someone who is not realizing there full potentail as an independent person. like i've siad before the best thing for you is to forget romantic relationships for a while and concentrate on yourself. Make yourself the best you can be in all areas of your life. Create an exciting lifestyle that a high calibre woman will want to be apart of, then women and romance will no longer be problems.

They aren't problems? I work out every day and am very happy on where I am heading. And I'm a very independent person. I just like cuddling :p

get a dog.

seriously....last thing you need right now is to get involved with someone else. Your coming out of a long relationship with your first love. Its gonna take a while to get your head straight and have the right persepctive.


Why does everyone seem to relate my new posts to my old girl? I'm getting OVER her. Lets stop talking about her. hehe. These posts are completely independent of her.
 

Rill22

Senior member
Oct 5, 2005
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Sounds like you're looking for marriage though. You should look for a girl you like and then down the road, things will fall into place.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: Rill22
Pffft, don't let anyone rag on you. Just make sure that you don't get married just because you want to be married. Get married because you love your girlfriend and want to be with her forever. Getting married for the sake of marriage isn't a good idea.

Of course I woudln't do that. I'd drive myself crazy.

I have a bunch of girls interested in me right now, but they are all the type of girls who are high-maintenance, require every little thing from every jewelery store, and hook up with a bunch of people.

Not my type of girl.

well dont get involved with them in that way.......keep them around to cuddle, clean up your place, cook you meals, take you shopping, . Just becasue they are not romantically your type doesnt mean you cannot have a friendship with them.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: gigapet
you are co dependant so of course you would like to have someone wh ocant leave you. Its a typical trait for someone who is not realizing there full potentail as an independent person. like i've siad before the best thing for you is to forget romantic relationships for a while and concentrate on yourself. Make yourself the best you can be in all areas of your life. Create an exciting lifestyle that a high calibre woman will want to be apart of, then women and romance will no longer be problems.

They aren't problems? I work out every day and am very happy on where I am heading. And I'm a very independent person. I just like cuddling :p

get a dog.

seriously....last thing you need right now is to get involved with someone else. Your coming out of a long relationship with your first love. Its gonna take a while to get your head straight and have the right persepctive.


Why does everyone seem to relate my new posts to my old girl? I'm getting OVER her. Lets stop talking about her. hehe. These posts are completely independent of her.

Your not fooling anyone. You just made a thread about her.....ummmmmmm YESTERDAY!
 

dirtboy

Diamond Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Why does everyone seem to relate my new posts to my old girl? I'm getting OVER her. Lets stop talking about her. hehe. These posts are completely independent of her.

As hung up on her as you were, you're just in denial about getting over her.

Do you really want to get married, or do you want to be married so you don't have to go through the trouble, time and emotion of finding a suitable mate?
 

Steve

Lifer
May 2, 2004
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Your posts are the result of her.

You're young yet, and you have much more living to do. Don't talk yourself into a hasty decision - you have no idea what you're in for.
 

GuitarDaddy

Lifer
Nov 9, 2004
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You just ended a long term relationship and you miss the constant companionship and bennies. Get out there and date some of the girls that "aren't your type", sow some wild oats, be selfish for a change
 

BillyBatson

Diamond Member
May 13, 2001
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it would be nice to have someone especially close enough for marriage but some of us just have to wait longer than others =\
 

Leejai

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Jul 22, 2001
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those girls that aren't your type...the ones that hook up w/ a bunch of ppl....JUST MAKE SURE YOU'RE ONE OF THEM...but be protected of course.

If you've only been with one girl, you really have no idea of what is out there for you....you're young, and i'm sure fully capable of finding a girl...what you should be doing is exactly what those girls are doing....hooking up with a bunch of girls...what you're looking for is a girl that will fit your match, not a girl that will fill the void your ex has left.

Right now, it seems you're just looking to fill the void and not necessarily the right person.