I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me tonight. updated.

[eakers]

well there goes my happy little family fantasy.
i have never been so depressed in my life.
what am i going to do?

*kat. <--

 

[hendon]

Why would he want to do that??

And what makes you think so?

 

[Zoltar]

Come over

Don't worry, that's all.

 

[Regine]

What makes you think that he's going to break up with you?

 

[vi edit]

What makes you think this?

Is it because of the distance thing?

 

[ArkAoss]

AAAACCKKK!!!! noooooo!!!!?!?!?!!!!

eaks, you the one from canada or florida?

why do you think that?

 

[The Stigenator]

just hope for the best.

If he does, just rest in peace that there are other single people here too.

 

[Zapster]

Rent a porno flick and dress in very tight jeans and a halter. He won't leave.

 

[RGN]

If he does, kick him in the Jimmy. :Q

 

[eakers]

i dunno hes been so distant from me this week.
hes usually all &quot;i love you&quot; every 5 minutes now he only says it when i say it first.
last sunday he was like &quot;if we broke up i would still want to be really close with you and cuddle and stuff&quot;

i dont understand how everything was fine until this week now its all messed up.

or maybe im crazy and making big deal outta nothing.

*kat. <-- freaking out.

 

[Optimus]

kat - I hope not, but hang in there if the worst happens. Keep your dignity while he is there and then make sure there are some better people you can talk to afterwards than us here in OT.

Good luck.

 

[tim0thy]

i think eakers is in florida and her bf is in canada?

why do you suspect he's going to do such a thing? is he just acting all freaky wierd or distancing you or something?

 

[BigSmooth]

Try not to be depressed (I know it is hard) - wouldn't it be worse if he secretly wanted it to end but let it continue?

If you subscribe to the theory of &quot;everything happens for a reason&quot; then this is actually a positive step for you. Your &quot;family fantasy&quot; will turn out better when it becomes reality and it includes the right person for you.

 

This week is rough on everyone from what Im seeing.
One of my good friends said that he just all of a sudden lost interest in his 1 year long relationship with his GF.
My best friend broke up with his GF of 2.5 years.
Winter is tearing people apart.

Wish ya the best.

 

[eakers]

okay im in cambridge hes in toronto. less than an hour away.

i dunno on icq everything is wierd but then if i call him it seems okay but i dunno if everything is okay or if he just wants me to stop crying.

hes also been &quot;intoxicated&quot; alot of times when ive talked to him on the phone this week (i dont mean drunk)

*kat. <-- the more she thinks about it the more sad she gets.

 

[NutBucket]

That's a real Phi Beta Kappa move if you ask me. (stolen reference from Chick Hearn, Laker's play by play guy.) What genuis would want to do that?

 

[Isla]

<< if we broke up i would still want to be really close with you and cuddle and stuff&quot; >>



That does sound like code for, &quot;If we break up, I still want to have sex with you until I find someone else&quot;.

Whatever happens, DO NOT let what he does or his opinion make you feel bad about yourself. Keep working to make yourself the best you can be and don't worry about what he thinks or does.

Your life is just beginning and there is much the world has to offer and much YOU have to offer the world. Your education is the key.

 

[eakers]

ps im really scared this is a scretly wanting to end it thing too, he knows how crazy i am about hime.

*kat. <--

 

[Webbed]

<< if we broke up i would still want to be really close with you and cuddle and stuff&quot; >>


Eiks! No!!!! If you break up, that's it, get out the door and don't ever come back. Who knows why men do things like that. If he's a creep this way, then maybe he's not the one for you!

 

[eakers]

i understand his wanting that cuz we are really close.
i know he wouldnt have sex with me if we werent together because hes simply not like that.

*kat. <-- wants it to be last week again.

 

[ArkAoss]

hey, if he gets snotty on ya, and jerky, I know some nice people up near toronto, (girls) ya could icq with, if ya want.

To get your mind off him, maybe he's just had a bad week, give him a call, tell him he's sounded funny, and your worried.

And don't be afraid to stand tall.
make sure ya get the whole story.

 

[Oyeve]

Well, if hes *intoxicated* then you would probably be better off without him! Forget him!

 

[MrAnderson]

SammySon, It's getting towards spring when people wan to break out of their cave (and unfortunately relationships) winter is usually when people stay together.

Kat- Don't worry about it too much. What I said above has been the way people always feel during these times of the year. Get out and do stuff together and try to work your way through whatever might be hitting him (cabin/spring fever) If there is something that makes you really uncomfortable though, it is probably best to talk to him about it to ease yourself.

Hope everything works out well for you!

 

[LordMaul]

<<<If he does, kick him in the Jimmy.>>>



Ooooo, thats a tad harsh, yes?

 

[eakers]

i think he may be on his way home now.
i am going to get some sleep cuz i havent slept well all week.
i will let you know what happens.

i am so scared.
if we brake up i will have nothing, he is my life.

*kat. <--