Originally posted by: BoomerD
Originally posted by: PrinceofWands
Originally posted by: chipy
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Have to be willing to relocate and probably take something less than what you had, but you can still find a job out there.
i completely agree. if you don't think you can get a job where you are at right now, you have to be open to the idea of moving around. military people move around every few years so it can't be that bad. having said that, i also know people that are bent on staying where they are at because of family, familiarity, living costs, etc... just know that you might have to wait a bit longer to find something then.
Actually yes it is that bad for many people. There are differing personalities, and some can do well with frequent moves, but for many people PLACE MATTERS DEEPLY. These people are seriously harmed by relocation. There are enormous volumes to be read on the subject of what is lost through disconnect to place.
If we could sell our house without taking a bath on it, we'd move in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, we live in the middle of meltdown central...and houses are a dime a dozen here. I don't want to be like so many people and just walk away from the house even though we owe more on it than it's currently worth on today's market.
Having moved around almost all my life, I have never really put down roots anywhere. We've been in Kahleeforneeya 22 years, longer than I've ever been in one place, and in our current house over 10 years, far longer than I've ever lived in any one place. This is the closest thing to roots I've ever had...and my wife and I would both move tomorrow if we could.