dxkj, more power to you. I love your bachelor party idea. It is exactly the type of party I would have. In fact, when my best friend got married we played a game of Paranoia (pen and paper role playing game). Your bachelor party sounds like a lot of fun to me.
Also, when a guy gets married, he may not have the freedom to run LAN games on weekends if his wife isn't a gamer. So this may well represent an activity that is fading from his life, or getting drastically reduced.
I skipped a bachelor party altogether (twice, even since I've been married twice) because I was afraid that some ass was going to pressure me into some situation that I prefered to avoid. Anyway, you may not want my approval, because I'm one of those dreadful geeks that don't fondle strippers the night before I get married.
But I've outgeeked you, I'll wager. I got married in the Comic Shop where my best friend worked and where we buy all of our D&D stuff and comics. For us it was the focal point of our friends and our hobbies. (For the record, I don't do live action role playing or Vampire. That's for geeks
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