I made some "home videos" with my SO **UPDATE**

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: necine
I think putting them on an Ipod was a mistake. This isn't a court and you can confront people without 100% evidence. I'd say... go and ask him about it. You have a reason to believe it was him so confront him.

I did. He hasn't replied but he will. My guess is that he will say he didn't so I will need to manipulate the truth out of him. I am very good at this and it will be done.

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: jdini76

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76
When you say 'his boyfriend', do you mean boyfriend, or boy-friend?

yes, they're gay... get over it :roll:

Actually I didn't realize the OP was gay. All that was meantioned was a gay roomate. I was mearly asking because I was confused as to why a gay man would be interested in hetero pron. But I didn't put 2 and 2 together that the OP was gay also. So for me there is nothing to get over other than you being an overly sensitive douche.

lol... his homosexuality was just very obvious, so I took your statement as one of shock -- like you needed it to be bluntly stated so you could be 100% clear on it.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76
When you say 'his boyfriend', do you mean boyfriend, or boy-friend?

yes, they're gay... get over it :roll:

Actually I didn't realize the OP was gay. All that was meantioned was a gay roomate. I was mearly asking because I was confused as to why a gay man would be interested in hetero pron. But I didn't put 2 and 2 together that the OP was gay also. So for me there is nothing to get over other than you being an overly sensitive douche.

lol... his homosexuality was just very obvious, so I took your statement as one of shock -- like you needed it to be bluntly stated so you could be 100% clear on it.

lol
Come on guys. I'm not offended so no one else should be either.

 

[Scarpozzi]

Originally posted by: sixone
Don't make a drama about this. He obviously doesn't want you to know he snooped, so let everyone pretend it didn't happen.

No good can come of getting it out in the open.

I agree. Just keep this whole thing in the closet.

 

[deerslayer]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: deerslayer
Why did you have your amateur porn on your MP3/Video player in the first place?

So I could watch it when my bf is away.

While you're jogging?

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76
When you say 'his boyfriend', do you mean boyfriend, or boy-friend?

yes, they're gay... get over it :roll:

Actually I didn't realize the OP was gay. All that was meantioned was a gay roomate. I was mearly asking because I was confused as to why a gay man would be interested in hetero pron. But I didn't put 2 and 2 together that the OP was gay also. So for me there is nothing to get over other than you being an overly sensitive douche.

lol... his homosexuality was just very obvious, so I took your statement as one of shock -- like you needed it to be bluntly stated so you could be 100% clear on it.

lol
Come on guys. I'm not offended so no one else should be either.

I didn't think you were I just thought it was funny seeing all the comments of "post the videos!" and imagined all these goons salivating in front of their computers thinking it was gonna be something else. I'm honestly waiting for a couple people to edit their posts now

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76
When you say 'his boyfriend', do you mean boyfriend, or boy-friend?

yes, they're gay... get over it :roll:

Actually I didn't realize the OP was gay. All that was meantioned was a gay roomate. I was mearly asking because I was confused as to why a gay man would be interested in hetero pron. But I didn't put 2 and 2 together that the OP was gay also. So for me there is nothing to get over other than you being an overly sensitive douche.

lol... his homosexuality was just very obvious, so I took your statement as one of shock -- like you needed it to be bluntly stated so you could be 100% clear on it.

lol
Come on guys. I'm not offended so no one else should be either.

I didn't think you were I just thought it was funny seeing all the comments of "post the videos!" and imagined all these goons salivating in front of their computers thinking it was gonna be something else. I'm honestly waiting for a couple people to edit their posts now

No the people who asked that were gay too...lol.

 

[K1052]

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76
When you say 'his boyfriend', do you mean boyfriend, or boy-friend?

yes, they're gay... get over it :roll:

Actually I didn't realize the OP was gay. All that was meantioned was a gay roomate. I was mearly asking because I was confused as to why a gay man would be interested in hetero pron. But I didn't put 2 and 2 together that the OP was gay also. So for me there is nothing to get over other than you being an overly sensitive douche.

lol... his homosexuality was just very obvious, so I took your statement as one of shock -- like you needed it to be bluntly stated so you could be 100% clear on it.

lol
Come on guys. I'm not offended so no one else should be either.

I didn't think you were I just thought it was funny seeing all the comments of "post the videos!" and imagined all these goons salivating in front of their computers thinking it was gonna be something else. I'm honestly waiting for a couple people to edit their posts now

I knew exactly what it would be vids of. :evil:

 

[jdini76]

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76
When you say 'his boyfriend', do you mean boyfriend, or boy-friend?

yes, they're gay... get over it :roll:

Actually I didn't realize the OP was gay. All that was meantioned was a gay roomate. I was mearly asking because I was confused as to why a gay man would be interested in hetero pron. But I didn't put 2 and 2 together that the OP was gay also. So for me there is nothing to get over other than you being an overly sensitive douche.

lol... his homosexuality was just very obvious, so I took your statement as one of shock -- like you needed it to be bluntly stated so you could be 100% clear on it.

Sorry, but what was so obvious about his post to state that the OP was gay? That he used SO in his title? To me thats not obvious enough I guess. But no hard feelings.

 

[homercles337]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Fraggable
I'm leaning towards something like 'you shouldn't have made them in the first place and really shouldn't have put them in a location that they could be found by others and deserve whatever reaction your SO has'.

My house, my living room, my mp3 player. Do you go through everyone's stuff when you go to their house?

I would just ask him. Be casual, "hey d00d, did you use my player the other night?" Out of the blue. When people lie they will pause. If hes a really good liar, youre done, but if hes bad call him on it. Then do whatever it is gay guys do to exact revenge.

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: K1052

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76
When you say 'his boyfriend', do you mean boyfriend, or boy-friend?

yes, they're gay... get over it :roll:

Actually I didn't realize the OP was gay. All that was meantioned was a gay roomate. I was mearly asking because I was confused as to why a gay man would be interested in hetero pron. But I didn't put 2 and 2 together that the OP was gay also. So for me there is nothing to get over other than you being an overly sensitive douche.

lol... his homosexuality was just very obvious, so I took your statement as one of shock -- like you needed it to be bluntly stated so you could be 100% clear on it.

lol
Come on guys. I'm not offended so no one else should be either.

I didn't think you were I just thought it was funny seeing all the comments of "post the videos!" and imagined all these goons salivating in front of their computers thinking it was gonna be something else. I'm honestly waiting for a couple people to edit their posts now

I knew exactly what it would be vids of. :evil:

Ah, man you ruined my comedy.

 

[Legendary]

Consider it this way: it's unlikely the videos left your video player in any form other than the viewer's memory. It's not like he copied them to a computer to spread them onto the internet.
Also, without proof, what can you really do except hurl accusations? I'd say just be more careful and move on.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

He admitted to it and apologized via text message. He said he was curious and he is sorry.

 

[Shadowknight]

If anyone hasn't been paying attention to stuff like Pamela Anderson and Paris Hilton... never EVER make "home videos". Even if you're a nobody, it's always possible someone will run across them somehow and watch or steal them.

 

[Roguestar]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
He admitted to it and apologized via text message. He said he was curious and he is sorry.

And he'd never have told you that had you not asked. And would he have done it again in the future? Sounds like you can't trust this guy.

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: jdini76
Sorry, but what was so obvious about his post to state that the OP was gay? That he used SO in his title? To me thats not obvious enough I guess. But no hard feelings.

There were some subtle hints, sure -- his rm is gay, he refers to his SO as his SO, etc. Of course thats not solid evidence...

But, it doesn't get much clearer than:

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
So I could watch it when my bf is away.

Anyway, I'm not here to teach reading comprehension, and I didn't mean to make a big deal over it -- sorry. Like I said, I was enjoying a moment of private comedy till K1052 ruined it for me

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
He admitted to it and apologized via text message. He said he was curious and he is sorry.

haha, did you ask him for at least a cut of the profits?

 

[homercles337]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
He admitted to it and apologized via text message. He said he was curious and he is sorry.

What happened to your sig? I am a guy.

BTW, i was going to PM, but youre turned off or something.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Roguestar

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
He admitted to it and apologized via text message. He said he was curious and he is sorry.

And he'd never have told you that had you not asked. And would he have done it again in the future? Sounds like you can't trust this guy.

I dont care if he wants to J/O to me I just dont appreciate him looking at my bf.
He apologized and admitted it. He said I was not supposed to know and he is very embarrassed and he is very sorry. I understand why he did what he did. But now he knows I am smarter than him so he will not attempt it again.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: homercles337

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
He admitted to it and apologized via text message. He said he was curious and he is sorry.

What happened to your sig? I am a guy.

BTW, i was going to PM, but youre turned off or something.

I dunno. Weird.
Maybe a bug?

 

[DougK62]

I hope for your sake that he didn't take copies of them. A lot of people carry around flash drives these days.

 

[jdini76]

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: jdini76
Sorry, but what was so obvious about his post to state that the OP was gay? That he used SO in his title? To me thats not obvious enough I guess. But no hard feelings.

There were some subtle hints, sure -- his rm is gay, he refers to his SO as his SO, etc. Of course thats not solid evidence...

But, it doesn't get much clearer than:

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
So I could watch it when my bf is away.

Anyway, I'm not here to teach reading comprehension, and I didn't mean to make a big deal over it -- sorry. Like I said, I was enjoying a moment of private comedy till K1052 ruined it for me

I hate to make a big deal about it too, but your comments are bugging me. Originaly you said "very obvious" now you are saying 'subtle hints'. which is it? And I don't need to be tought reading comprehension (you just like to rough people's feathers don't you) if this were a test, I think i would have eventualy figured it out. But since I have graduated I figured why bother making educated guesses when it is a forum of communication.

And the second quote was not in the original post.

 

[apac]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Roguestar

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
He admitted to it and apologized via text message. He said he was curious and he is sorry.

And he'd never have told you that had you not asked. And would he have done it again in the future? Sounds like you can't trust this guy.

I dont care if he wants to J/O to me I just dont appreciate him looking at my bf.
He apologized and admitted it. He said I was not supposed to know and he is very embarrassed and he is very sorry. I understand why he did what he did. But now he knows I am smarter than him so he will not attempt it again.

lol more importantly why was he trying to look at your xmas 2005 pictures when he stumbled upon the home videos

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: jdini76

I hate to make a big deal about it too, but your comments are bugging me. Originaly you said "very obvious" now you are saying 'subtle hints'. which is it?

I was giving you credit for not jumping to conclusions from the one subtle hint you pointed out (using "SO"), but I wanted to show you what the "obvious" hint was...

Originally posted by: Beau
But, it doesn't get much clearer than:

(that pretty much means "obvious")

And I don't need to be taught reading comprehension (you just like to rough people's feathers don't you) if this were a test, I think i would have eventualy figured it out. But since I have graduated I figured why bother making educated guesses when it is a forum of communication.

No comment. (other than: Yes, I like to razz people. It makes me feel like a bigger person. )

And the second quote was not in the original post.

No kidding, though it did happen BEFORE your first comment. Do you only read the OP in a thread?

 

[Q]

Um, if these videos are what I think they are, I'm really grossed out