I just ran into an ex girlfriend

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richardycc

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she has your #, dont call again, if she wanna set something up, she will call, if she doesn't, oh well...
 

Mayfriday0529

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Originally posted by: richardycc
she has your #, dont call again, if she wanna set something up, she will call, if she doesn't, oh well...


yes i know it's here move now.
I called first, she called back, i call again and now it's her turn. I'll give it a week before i toss her number in the garbage.
 

cerebusPu

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i hate it when my female friends hook up with their ex bfs. yet when i get a chance to hook up with my exgf's Im all giddy. my brain is messed up.
 

DennyD

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Meeting up with an ex is painful and fun at the same time... We spoke for the first time in a decade last month and i turned to jelly. Man she was fine... It was one of those cases where she left me and I never knew why.

But then I remembered I'm married with three kids. If we had stayed together I'd not be where I am today. Just like that song by Garth Brooks, "Unanswered Prayers."
 

Mayfriday0529

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I do have to say that this girl, was one of the hottest i ever dated. I hate to think that in the end i just have to settle for someone average.

 
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Originally posted by: Jnetty99
I do have to say that this girl, was one of the hottest i ever dated. I hate to think that in the end i just have to settle for someone average.

Remember - no matter how hot she looks to you, someone, somewhere, is tired of her sh*t.

- M4H
 

agnitrate

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How old are you? If you're over 21 and she isn't pursuing a degree, do you REALLY want to be dating somebody who works at a Wendy's?
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Jnetty99
I do have to say that this girl, was one of the hottest i ever dated. I hate to think that in the end i just have to settle for someone average.

Remember - no matter how hot she looks to you, someone, somewhere, is tired of her sh*t.

- M4H

M4H FOR ELITE!
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Jnetty99
I do have to say that this girl, was one of the hottest i ever dated. I hate to think that in the end i just have to settle for someone average.

Remember - no matter how hot she looks to you, someone, somewhere, is tired of her sh*t.

- M4H

Another item that should be in the YAGT FAQ (if it's not already :p)
 

meltdown75

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Jnetty99
I do have to say that this girl, was one of the hottest i ever dated. I hate to think that in the end i just have to settle for someone average.

Remember - no matter how hot she looks to you, someone, somewhere, is tired of her sh*t.

- M4H

Truer words have never been spoken.
 

Mayfriday0529

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Originally posted by: agnitrate
How old are you? If you're over 21 and she isn't pursuing a degree, do you REALLY want to be dating somebody who works at a Wendy's?


Yeah true, from what she told me she is actually a manager now at Wendy's and Wendy's is going to pay her to go to school, so she is moving on the right direction well i hope.
 

Cal166

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Originally posted by: Jnetty99
I do have to say that this girl, was one of the hottest i ever dated. I hate to think that in the end i just have to settle for someone average.

I feel you man.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: Jnetty99
Originally posted by: agnitrate
How old are you? If you're over 21 and she isn't pursuing a degree, do you REALLY want to be dating somebody who works at a Wendy's?


Yeah true, from what she told me she is actually a manager now at Wendy's and Wendy's is going to pay her to go to school, so she is moving on the right direction well i hope.

Honestly, does it matter? Jnetty, don't listen to other fvckers and they're stupid aspirations to marry into money or require some world-changing mother theresa. If you want to date her, base your decision on her morals/ethics and how well you two get along. Who cares if she works at Wendy's all her life. There are things more important in love than where someone works or how much money they make. Now if she's a lazy stupid good-for-nothing who actually has to TRY not to get fired from Wendy's, then that's another story. Sometimes people just want a sh|t job for a while or could be down on their luck and this could be one of those times.

If you let money or career influence your decision on whether you want to fall in love with someone or not, you've got your priorities mixed up, IMO.
 

Mayfriday0529

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Originally posted by: Nik

Honestly, does it matter? Jnetty, don't listen to other fvckers and they're stupid aspirations to marry into money or require some world-changing mother theresa. If you want to date her, base your decision on her morals/ethics and how well you two get along. Who cares if she works at Wendy's all her life. There are things more important in love than where someone works or how much money they make. Now if she's a lazy stupid good-for-nothing who actually has to TRY not to get fired from Wendy's, then that's another story. Sometimes people just want a sh|t job for a while or could be down on their luck and this could be one of those times.

If you let money or career influence your decision on whether you want to fall in love with someone or not, you've got your priorities mixed up, IMO.

I would not care about it, i would be happy that she was looking to further her career. This goes for my ex or any other girl that came along.

 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: Jnetty99
Originally posted by: Nik

Honestly, does it matter? Jnetty, don't listen to other fvckers and they're stupid aspirations to marry into money or require some world-changing mother theresa. If you want to date her, base your decision on her morals/ethics and how well you two get along. Who cares if she works at Wendy's all her life. There are things more important in love than where someone works or how much money they make. Now if she's a lazy stupid good-for-nothing who actually has to TRY not to get fired from Wendy's, then that's another story. Sometimes people just want a sh|t job for a while or could be down on their luck and this could be one of those times.

If you let money or career influence your decision on whether you want to fall in love with someone or not, you've got your priorities mixed up, IMO.

I would not care about it, i would be happy that she was looking to further her career. This goes for my ex or any other girl that came along.

Exactly. Support them in whatever they choose to do and encourage them to better themselves, but saying "you'd better get your ass out and make some money so you can take care of me later in life!" is just ... well, Grade-A bitch material!
 

Doboji

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Originally posted by: Cal166
Originally posted by: Jnetty99
I do have to say that this girl, was one of the hottest i ever dated. I hate to think that in the end i just have to settle for someone average.

I feel you man.


You guys are retarded.... you won't end up with anyone until you learn to see value beyond their outward appearance. We're all fugly eventually.

-Max
 

Mayfriday0529

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Originally posted by: Yzzim
So why did you guys break up in the first place?


We met at work (restaurant business) then she left and with her long hours and my long hours things were not working out so we mutually broke up. She kept seeing me though and we would go out when we had a chance but eventually she stopped talking to me and never heard from her again until now.

 

Mayfriday0529

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Originally posted by: Jnetty99
Originally posted by: Yzzim
So why did you guys break up in the first place?


We met at work (restaurant business) then she left and with her long hours and my long hours things were not working out so we mutually broke up. She kept seeing me though and we would go out when we had a chance but eventually she stopped talking to me and never heard from her again until now.


Originally posted by: Colt45
no pics = no thread
It's funny but there was only a few pics of her and i destroyed them.

Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: Cal166
Originally posted by: Jnetty99
I do have to say that this girl, was one of the hottest i ever dated. I hate to think that in the end i just have to settle for someone average.

I feel you man.


You guys are retarded.... you won't end up with anyone until you learn to see value beyond their outward appearance. We're all fugly eventually.

-Max

Yeah it was a stupid statement that i just said.
Which ever girl you date, whether hot or not you obviously like something about them. I didnt even love this girl maybe i could have but never got to that point.

Edit: I'm overthinking everything about this topic to much, i need to drop it and let it go. This was over years ago and i wished i had not bump into her again.
 

MustangSVT

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Originally posted by: Jnetty99
Originally posted by: kyparrish
are you going to get some Jnetty99?


Well update, I don't think so.
After we met she told me to call her up Wednesday to setup something. I called and she had already plans and would call me Thursday to setup something. She called and told me she still could not hang out and that Sunday looked good to meet for lunch. She told me to call her Sunday which I did and when I called her place, I was told she never came home that night.

Well I can pretty much, that I will not get any.


you dork...

you have been pwnd :p