I just caught my Dad cheating on my Mom :(

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Geez, OP, you're a biased little b!tch. Why couldn't you show a little maturity and talk directly to your dad first?

Can someone explain to me here why this is considered a GOOD idea? I do not understand your logic. This is a problem between the parents...don't try to play mediator...

 

[akshatp]

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Maybe, Jr. should have walked up to Daddy and this other woman in B&N to get a better take on things....

/with that said - i'd bet there has been issues along these lines for sometime... Maybe Mom needs to not be a doormat and move on....

Or maybe dad has been a doormat for too long and has finally had his fill. Approaching the father and the woman in the B&N would have been the BEST first move. At least in that situation how they act is far more telling than what they say.

Maybe if OP was like 12 or 13 then I could see him calling mom.. But he is 20 years old... TWENTY, an adult. Talk to your dad first, then when you find out he is a cheat, go home and explain the situation to your mom in a MATURE way.

 

[akshatp]

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Geez, OP, you're a biased little b!tch. Why couldn't you show a little maturity and talk directly to your dad first?

Can someone explain to me here why this is considered a GOOD idea? I do not understand your logic. This is a problem between the parents...don't try to play mediator...

Because OP just saw his dad talking to a woman. He didn't walk in on them banging away or anything. There could have been a million reasons he was talking to a woman at B & N

BTW your post count just went up by like 1000% in this thread alone 🙂

 

[George P Burdell]

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Geez, OP, you're a biased little b!tch. Why couldn't you show a little maturity and talk directly to your dad first?

Can someone explain to me here why this is considered a GOOD idea? I do not understand your logic. This is a problem between the parents...don't try to play mediator...

WWYBYWB?

 

[Ronstang]

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Geez, OP, you're a biased little b!tch. Why couldn't you show a little maturity and talk directly to your dad first?

Can someone explain to me here why this is considered a GOOD idea? I do not understand your logic. This is a problem between the parents...don't try to play mediator...

One needs to know exactly what is going on before they butt themselves into other people's business. Like I already stated, he should have approached his dad and the woman in the B&N because in that situation how they act is more important than what is said. You need to have your facts straight before you start messing with other people's relationship, even if it is your parents. The OP is old enough to understand this concept too. It is obvious he is biased in this situation and just couldn't wait to call his mommy.

 

[hypn0tik]

No one has called shens yet?

 

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Geez, OP, you're a biased little b!tch. Why couldn't you show a little maturity and talk directly to your dad first?

Can someone explain to me here why this is considered a GOOD idea? I do not understand your logic. This is a problem between the parents...don't try to play mediator...

Because OP just saw his dad talking to a woman. He didn't walk in on them banging away or anything. There could have been a million reasons he was talking to a woman at B & N

BTW your post count just went up by like 1000% in this thread alone 🙂

Yeah that's cool...


Anyway...I think having that confrontation proved him right...His mom came down and the whole thing blew up...

Embarassment is what the guy deserves for being a cheating c$nt..

 

[eits]

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Maybe, Jr. should have walked up to Daddy and this other woman in B&N to get a better take on things....

/with that said - i'd bet there has been issues along these lines for sometime... Maybe Mom needs to not be a doormat and move on....

Or maybe dad has been a doormat for too long and has finally had his fill. Approaching the father and the woman in the B&N would have been the BEST first move. At least in that situation how they act is far more telling than what they say.

Maybe if OP was like 12 or 13 then I could see him calling mom.. But he is 20 years old... TWENTY, an adult. Talk to your dad first, then when you find out he is a cheat, go home and explain the situation to your mom in a MATURE way.

HAHAHA yeah, i'd love to see how that unfolds... IF you can get him to admit he was cheating in the first place.

 

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: eits

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Maybe, Jr. should have walked up to Daddy and this other woman in B&N to get a better take on things....

/with that said - i'd bet there has been issues along these lines for sometime... Maybe Mom needs to not be a doormat and move on....

Or maybe dad has been a doormat for too long and has finally had his fill. Approaching the father and the woman in the B&N would have been the BEST first move. At least in that situation how they act is far more telling than what they say.

Maybe if OP was like 12 or 13 then I could see him calling mom.. But he is 20 years old... TWENTY, an adult. Talk to your dad first, then when you find out he is a cheat, go home and explain the situation to your mom in a MATURE way.

HAHAHA yeah, i'd love to see how that unfolds... IF you can get him to admit he was cheating in the first place.

If he is cheating, he already is a liar...Why give him time to come up with a story?

 

[akshatp]

Originally posted by: eits

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Maybe, Jr. should have walked up to Daddy and this other woman in B&N to get a better take on things....

/with that said - i'd bet there has been issues along these lines for sometime... Maybe Mom needs to not be a doormat and move on....

Or maybe dad has been a doormat for too long and has finally had his fill. Approaching the father and the woman in the B&N would have been the BEST first move. At least in that situation how they act is far more telling than what they say.

Maybe if OP was like 12 or 13 then I could see him calling mom.. But he is 20 years old... TWENTY, an adult. Talk to your dad first, then when you find out he is a cheat, go home and explain the situation to your mom in a MATURE way.

HAHAHA yeah, i'd love to see how that unfolds... IF you can get him to admit he was cheating in the first place.

He doesn't have to admit it. If the mom doesn't believe the kid when he tells her, then she deserves whatever comes to her...

 

[DarkKnight69]

Originally posted by: Ronstang
You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

Are you effing retarded. I am 21 and if my dad EVER touched my mom it would mean his ass on the floor...

 

[eits]

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Geez, OP, you're a biased little b!tch. Why couldn't you show a little maturity and talk directly to your dad first?

Can someone explain to me here why this is considered a GOOD idea? I do not understand your logic. This is a problem between the parents...don't try to play mediator...

Because OP just saw his dad talking to a woman. He didn't walk in on them banging away or anything. There could have been a million reasons he was talking to a woman at B & N

BTW your post count just went up by like 1000% in this thread alone 🙂

Yeah that's cool...


Anyway...I think having that confrontation proved him right...His mom came down and the whole thing blew up...

Embarassment is what the guy deserves for being a cheating c$nt..

agreed. so what if there was a big scene? who cares, other than the op's dad? from now on, whenever he steps foot into barnes, he'll be the cheating bastard who got caught and embarrassed.

 

[MxChris]

Originally posted by: MBrown
I went to Barnes and Nobles with my buddy and I saw my Dad's car in the parking lot. I went in and there he was with another woman. I called my Mom and she bolted down to B and N and went off on him. She is telling him off right now in the kitchen. My Dad just told my Mom to get her finger out of his face. If my Dad lays ONE finger on my Mom he is going to be bleeding on the floor. :| :| :|

I don't understand why you would even post this. The majority of people on this forum are either too immature to give you solid advice, or too enamored with the idea of making a "shocking" statement and seeing the result. You should call your girlfriend/friend/close relative and talk about this instead of posting it on this cesspool.

 

[eits]

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: eits

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Maybe, Jr. should have walked up to Daddy and this other woman in B&N to get a better take on things....

/with that said - i'd bet there has been issues along these lines for sometime... Maybe Mom needs to not be a doormat and move on....

Or maybe dad has been a doormat for too long and has finally had his fill. Approaching the father and the woman in the B&N would have been the BEST first move. At least in that situation how they act is far more telling than what they say.

Maybe if OP was like 12 or 13 then I could see him calling mom.. But he is 20 years old... TWENTY, an adult. Talk to your dad first, then when you find out he is a cheat, go home and explain the situation to your mom in a MATURE way.

HAHAHA yeah, i'd love to see how that unfolds... IF you can get him to admit he was cheating in the first place.

If he is cheating, he already is a liar...Why give him time to come up with a story?

yup.

 

[akshatp]

Originally posted by: hypn0tik
No one has called shens yet?

I was thinking that.. but then after I realized how much I am enjoying the thread I forced myself to wash those thoughts out of my head...

 

[George P Burdell]

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Geez, OP, you're a biased little b!tch. Why couldn't you show a little maturity and talk directly to your dad first?

Can someone explain to me here why this is considered a GOOD idea? I do not understand your logic. This is a problem between the parents...don't try to play mediator...

Because OP just saw his dad talking to a woman. He didn't walk in on them banging away or anything. There could have been a million reasons he was talking to a woman at B & N

BTW your post count just went up by like 1000% in this thread alone 🙂

Exactly. It's not like he walking into them making out (or worse).

 

[akshatp]

Originally posted by: DarkKnight69

Originally posted by: Ronstang
You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

Are you effing retarded. I am 21 and if my dad EVER touched my mom it would mean his ass on the floor...

What would you do if your mom hit your dad?

'Nuff said.

 

[eits]

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: eits

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Maybe, Jr. should have walked up to Daddy and this other woman in B&N to get a better take on things....

/with that said - i'd bet there has been issues along these lines for sometime... Maybe Mom needs to not be a doormat and move on....

Or maybe dad has been a doormat for too long and has finally had his fill. Approaching the father and the woman in the B&N would have been the BEST first move. At least in that situation how they act is far more telling than what they say.

Maybe if OP was like 12 or 13 then I could see him calling mom.. But he is 20 years old... TWENTY, an adult. Talk to your dad first, then when you find out he is a cheat, go home and explain the situation to your mom in a MATURE way.

HAHAHA yeah, i'd love to see how that unfolds... IF you can get him to admit he was cheating in the first place.

He doesn't have to admit it. If the mom doesn't believe the kid when he tells her, then she deserves whatever comes to her...

yeah, trusting your spouse = "deserve whatever comes to you"

:roll:

i'm not married, but i'm willing to bet that if someone said that their spouse might be cheating on them in barnes and noble right now, they might have to say that they'd have to see it to believe it.

 

[raildogg]

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: DarkKnight69

Originally posted by: Ronstang
You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

Are you effing retarded. I am 21 and if my dad EVER touched my mom it would mean his ass on the floor...

What would you do if your mom hit your dad?

'Nuff said.

Just because your dad hits your mom, you should not hit him back. You are still his child. Shield her from him. Protect her, but do not hit your father. He is your father, remember that.

 

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: eits

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Maybe, Jr. should have walked up to Daddy and this other woman in B&N to get a better take on things....

/with that said - i'd bet there has been issues along these lines for sometime... Maybe Mom needs to not be a doormat and move on....

Or maybe dad has been a doormat for too long and has finally had his fill. Approaching the father and the woman in the B&N would have been the BEST first move. At least in that situation how they act is far more telling than what they say.

Maybe if OP was like 12 or 13 then I could see him calling mom.. But he is 20 years old... TWENTY, an adult. Talk to your dad first, then when you find out he is a cheat, go home and explain the situation to your mom in a MATURE way.

HAHAHA yeah, i'd love to see how that unfolds... IF you can get him to admit he was cheating in the first place.

He doesn't have to admit it. If the mom doesn't believe the kid when he tells her, then she deserves whatever comes to her...

WHAT THE HELL???

Okay so the next time someone get's mad at their dad, they should tell their mother that he spotted the father out cheating?

If Mommy goes and sees Daddy at B&N with another woman (which is COMPLETELY justified as he has apparently done this before), and he can't explain the situation without a conflict, then where is this wrong? If the dad did something wrong, he should be able to explain it, otherwise he is busted...

 

[akshatp]

Originally posted by: eits

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: eits

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Maybe, Jr. should have walked up to Daddy and this other woman in B&N to get a better take on things....

/with that said - i'd bet there has been issues along these lines for sometime... Maybe Mom needs to not be a doormat and move on....

Or maybe dad has been a doormat for too long and has finally had his fill. Approaching the father and the woman in the B&N would have been the BEST first move. At least in that situation how they act is far more telling than what they say.

Maybe if OP was like 12 or 13 then I could see him calling mom.. But he is 20 years old... TWENTY, an adult. Talk to your dad first, then when you find out he is a cheat, go home and explain the situation to your mom in a MATURE way.

HAHAHA yeah, i'd love to see how that unfolds... IF you can get him to admit he was cheating in the first place.

He doesn't have to admit it. If the mom doesn't believe the kid when he tells her, then she deserves whatever comes to her...

yeah, trusting your spouse = "deserve whatever comes to you"

:roll:

i'm not married, but i'm willing to bet that if someone said that their spouse might be cheating on them in barnes and noble right now, they might have to say that they'd have to see it to believe it.

OK.. i see your point... But I still think he should have talked to his dad first.... Just to make sure he isn't creating something out of nothing...

 

[tyler811]

Originally posted by: Ronstang
You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

If the old man jumps on the old lady, you better take a baseball bat to his head

 

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: raildogg

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: DarkKnight69

Originally posted by: Ronstang
You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

Are you effing retarded. I am 21 and if my dad EVER touched my mom it would mean his ass on the floor...

What would you do if your mom hit your dad?

'Nuff said.

Just because your dad hits your mom, you should not hit him back. You are still his child. Shield her from him. Protect her, but do not hit your father. He is your father, remember that.

Wrong he looses all respect when he hits your mother...

 

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: eits

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: eits

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Maybe, Jr. should have walked up to Daddy and this other woman in B&N to get a better take on things....

/with that said - i'd bet there has been issues along these lines for sometime... Maybe Mom needs to not be a doormat and move on....

Or maybe dad has been a doormat for too long and has finally had his fill. Approaching the father and the woman in the B&N would have been the BEST first move. At least in that situation how they act is far more telling than what they say.

Maybe if OP was like 12 or 13 then I could see him calling mom.. But he is 20 years old... TWENTY, an adult. Talk to your dad first, then when you find out he is a cheat, go home and explain the situation to your mom in a MATURE way.

HAHAHA yeah, i'd love to see how that unfolds... IF you can get him to admit he was cheating in the first place.

He doesn't have to admit it. If the mom doesn't believe the kid when he tells her, then she deserves whatever comes to her...

yeah, trusting your spouse = "deserve whatever comes to you"

:roll:

i'm not married, but i'm willing to bet that if someone said that their spouse might be cheating on them in barnes and noble right now, they might have to say that they'd have to see it to believe it.

OK.. i see your point... But I still think he should have talked to his dad first.... Just to make sure he isn't creating something out of nothing...

OMG LET THEM SORT IT OUT!!!! MAYBE THIS IS WHAT IT WILL TAKE FOR HIM TO STOP!!!

HOLY SH!T!!!

 

[akshatp]

Originally posted by: guidomyte
WHAT THE HELL???

Okay so the next time someone get's mad at their dad, they should tell their mother that he spotted the father out cheating?

If Mommy goes and sees Daddy at B&N with another woman (which is COMPLETELY justified as he has apparently done this before), and he can't explain the situation without a conflict, then where is this wrong? If the dad did something wrong, he should be able to explain it, otherwise he is busted...

I didnt say that the kid should lie to his mother. A vigilante child out for revenge is not the case here. Dont confuse the situation.