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notfred

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<< I've done something like that before... is it really that bad? >>



Not at all! That is, unless you have respect for others...

I don't know of any real relationship where one can arbitrarily transpose one's feelings to another so quickly without personal issue or regard for the feelings of your other.

Either way, it's not the actions of a gentlemen.
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Like I said, I didn't really have much in the way of feelings for her anymore. I was loosing interest. And it's not like I told her "Oh, I jsut met this other girl and like her better, so screw you"
 

Koing

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<< I've done something like that before... is it really that bad? >>



Not at all! That is, unless you have respect for others...

I don't know of any real relationship where one can arbitrarily transpose one's feelings to another so quickly without personal issue or regard for the feelings of your other.

Either way, it's not the actions of a gentlemen.
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Like I said, I didn't really have much in the way of feelings for her anymore. I was loosing interest. And it's not like I told her "Oh, I jsut met this other girl and like her better, so screw you"
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True but when you were going out with that girl you were losing interest with I bet if you told her you were seeing this new girl that just called you'd up she'd be a bit pissed....
 

Geekbabe

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<< So last night I went out with me2, and gave her a kiss goodnight. Looks like things are going to progress nicely there. I had to dump my g/f (the asian girl in katerachel.jpg) today. She cried a lot and said she would change, but sometimes that isn't enough. :confused: >>



from the sounds of it today was the luckiest day of your former g/f 's life!
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Freejack2

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It's stuff like this that makes me glad I'm married. You really shouldn't have used your last girlfriend until you got a new one. The most emotionally health way would have been to dumped your first g/f long ago when you realized how much of a "psycho" she is and then took the time to get over the pain of ending it and getting past the rebound period.
It's generally agreed that dating someone in the rebound period is a bad time to start dating.
Also by dumping your last girlfriend the day after your date with your new girlfriend it could come back to bite you in the arse.
The ex being a "psycho" as you call her may find out about your new girlfriend and make life a living hell for the two of you. You new girlfriend may not be very thrilled to find out that you didn't decide to dump your ex until after you started dating her...
 
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<< I've done something like that before... is it really that bad? >>



Not at all! That is, unless you have respect for others...

I don't know of any real relationship where one can arbitrarily transpose one's feelings to another so quickly without personal issue or regard for the feelings of your other.

Either way, it's not the actions of a gentlemen.
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Again, let me explain. My were NOT arbitrary. It wasn't really a whimsical decision. I had been planning on doing it for a while, and I was just too timid to do so. I stuck in pics to grab people's attention and formulate a better discussion. You gotta put asses in the seats.
 
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<< You new girlfriend may not be very thrilled to find out that you didn't decide to dump your ex until after you started dating her... >>



She already knows, I've known her for about four months so she knows what I've gone through. Also, I'm not officially dating her... yet. Maybe this was a test of hers, to see if I am willing to risk relationship security with a mentally unstable girl, for what I really desire: her.
 

CloroxCowboy

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It seems to me that posting pictures of the people involved could do nothing but stoke your own ego, or hurt those affected.

Grow up and respect others and you may find something within yourself rather than threw others.

Of course I have been married for over 20 years so I am old and "out of touch"
 

Maleficus

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Wasnt their a picture of the girl in me2 posted somewhere else today or yesterday? was it you who posted it? seems like it was some guy talking about her and how he couldnt believe she liked him or something.

 

bozack

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and I am sure you cleared it with your EX before you posted her picture here right??

I agree with the majority here, pretty crapptastic thing to do. Just has"Klass" written all over it :)
 

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<< Wasnt their a picture of the girl in me2 posted somewhere else today or yesterday? was it you who posted it? seems like it was some guy talking about her and how he couldnt believe she liked him or something. >>



yup its him.
 

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<< I guess rallispec is an attention whore too. And Luvly, I didn't just break up with Kate because of me2, I broke up with her because she's a psycho, and wasn't compatable with me. So the whole "what goes around comes around" spiel isn't even close to valid here. >>



Well first off you surely are an attention whore, you talk of putting pics to get people's attention and put asses in the chairs. So you are doing this to get attention or to actually enlighten all of us with your amazing writing skill?

And "what comes around goes around" surely is valid here. You said you wanted to break up with your gf, but before you did that you went out a few times with some other girl, then hooked up with her, while you still were with the first girl. So how exactly is that not valid then?
 
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<< I guess rallispec is an attention whore too. And Luvly, I didn't just break up with Kate because of me2, I broke up with her because she's a psycho, and wasn't compatable with me. So the whole "what goes around comes around" spiel isn't even close to valid here. >>



Well first off you surely are an attention whore, you talk of putting pics to get people's attention and put asses in the chairs. So you are doing this to get attention or to actually enlighten all of us with your amazing writing skill?

And "what comes around goes around" surely is valid here. You said you wanted to break up with your gf, but before you did that you went out a few times with some other girl, then hooked up with her, while you still were with the first girl. So how exactly is that not valid then?
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If the girl was going to break up with me anyway, and I found out she was with a guy the night before she finally did it, I wouldn't be affected.
 

PlatinumGold

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I'd say this thread proves he's an attention hound.

i find what you did most distasteful. not because you did it but because you posted bragging about it. as if it earned you some kind of merit badge into STUDHOOD.

oh btw, whats the difference between a stud and a WHORE? one is a guy and one is a girl. in this case i'd call you a whore. :)
 

shiner

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You're one classy guy.....I hope your crotch gets infested with small parasites....
 

AreaCode707

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You are the type of person that I hope I never accidentally date. I'm sure that's a great relief to you.
 
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So if I ended it 2 weeks ago, before I became interested in another girl, that would make me what? A great stand-up guy, but since I put the cart before the horse momentarily, that makes me some kind of stud bastard? I hardly think so. Instead of brooding over jealousy and downloading porn on Kazaa, be happy for somebody with a hot woman.
 

PlatinumGold

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<< since I put the cart before the horse momentarily, that makes me some kind of stud bastard? >>



anyone with any honor or sense of honor would know what this is about. the fact that it has to be explained to you shows us just what kind of person you are.

yes, you should've broke up with your gf first. the way it happened it looks like you were just holding on to her until something for sure came along. there's no risk taking there.
 

shiner

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I didn't take that pic of Kristy....it was one her Mom or somebody took....don't remember...

And Tina knows how to do more than just pose....YOWZA!!