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I just broke up with my g/f. PICS

So last night I went out with me2, and gave her a kiss goodnight. Looks like things are going to progress nicely there. I had to dump my g/f (the asian girl in katerachel.jpg) today. She cried a lot and said she would change, but sometimes that isn't enough. 😕

 
the link to tripod on the g/f pic doesn't work.

I hope the girl in me2 is worth breaking up with someone, but I suppose its better than lying to your old girlfriend
 


<< So you went out with her to see how it would go, then the next day broke up with your g/f? >>


That is what I was thinking.
 


<< So you went out with her to see how it would go, then the next day broke up with your g/f? >>



Sounds like it.
 
I had been planning on breaking up with her for a while. She was a total psycho. I've wanted me2 for a while, and just yesterday acted on it. We'd gone out a few times, but no physical contact besides a hug.
 


<< the link to tripod on the g/f pic doesn't work.

I hope the girl in me2 is worth breaking up with someone, but I suppose its better than lying to your old girlfriend
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drag and drop the tripod pic
 
It's still an asshole thing to do






<< Yeah, me and my wife have an open relationship. I just never really could find the time or place to tell her that >>

The Kids in the Hall
 


<< It's still an asshole thing to do






<< Yeah, me and my wife have an open relationship. I just never really could find the time or place to tell her that >>

The Kids in the Hall
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I do admit it was a little shady. It's not like I was involved in a web of lies or anything.
 


<< Yeah, me and my wife have an open relationship. I just never really could find the time or place to tell her that >>


OMFG!!! THAT IS FUNNY STUFF! I can't believe I've never seen that one...
 
What goes around comes around. You're gonnna have it coming back at ya in the exact same manner: You'll get jilted in the exact same if not worse manner.

You know what's funny? One need not believe in any high authority. Just common sense spells it: Your very nature that attracted you a lady of this calibre will stretch to another that will interrupt your relationship with her.

No offence, but it's my opinion. If you are happy and have enough conscience to carry it on like that, then so be it. Only time will tell. 🙂
 


<< ... but I suppose its better than lying to your old girlfriend >>



anything is better than lying to your girlfriend.
 
I guess rallispec is an attention whore too. And Luvly, I didn't just break up with Kate because of me2, I broke up with her because she's a psycho, and wasn't compatable with me. So the whole "what goes around comes around" spiel isn't even close to valid here.
 
Oh yeah, SmirnoffIsTasty? Uhmmm . . . listen to me hon', it would make sense what you are saying had you jilted this supposed psycho gf since. Don't you think? So, you use her to your silly pleasure of always having a trophy even if you didn't like its look? So even if the trophy was ugly and you did not like it, but just the mere fact that it was a trophy, it was good enough for you? So you're shopping around whilst pretending you can endure it? And then when you are done shopping and found your new trophy rather more appealing to you, then you abandon the ugly one? Oh my! Goooooooooooooooood! It never tastes more delicious; does it?

Hon', it takes two and you are not relieved of the duties and obligation you owed her. That is why it will come back to bounce on you . . . 'cuz your nature will not cease overnight. It's called honey moon period now. Let's see what past the honey moon will be . . . if it will continue to conceal your saddening nature. 🙂

At least even if you claim you were not meant for the other, you should apologise to her for your conduct. Instead, you continue to praise yourself and lay all blame upon her? As the saying goes, pride goes before a fall. 🙂

Need I state this is simply my expressed opinion? I did not and do not claim it is some divine truth. 🙂
 
I don't think she's ugly by any means. We went out for almost seven months, and I'd say my love and interest started to fade away about a month ago. I don't blame her completely, I'm tough to deal with sometimes; but ultimately I believe it's her fault. WTF is the "honeymoon period" you speak of?
 


<< So you went out with her to see how it would go, then the next day broke up with your g/f? >>



I've done something like that before... is it really that bad? I was seeing one girl, but was losing interest. Another girl was gaining my interest. Second girl called me up one night, we talked, went out for coffee, hung out, didn't have sex or anything, didn't even kiss. Next day I ended the thing with the original girl, and I'm still with the new girl (almost 3 years later). It's not like I was cheating on her or something....
 
Judging by his posts, I'd say he's probably in his teens. Based on that, I'd say his behavior isn't all that uncommon for that particular age group as (most) haven't much concept of what relationship is anyway.



 


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<< So you went out with her to see how it would go, then the next day broke up with your g/f? >>



I've done something like that before... is it really that bad? I was seeing one girl, but was losing interest. Another girl was gaining my interest. Second girl called me up one night, we talked, went out for coffee, hung out, didn't have sex or anything, didn't even kiss. Next day I ended the thing with the original girl, and I'm still with the new girl (almost 3 years later). It's not like I was cheating on her or something....
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Thank you notfred, I appreciate a person who understands rather than vilifies.


EDIT: I'm 19
 


<< I've done something like that before... is it really that bad? >>



Not at all! That is, unless you have respect for others...

I don't know of any real relationship where one can arbitrarily transpose one's feelings to another so quickly without personal issue or regard for the feelings of your other.

Either way, it's not the actions of a gentlemen.
 


<< I guess rallispec is an attention whore too. And Luvly, I didn't just break up with Kate because of me2, I broke up with her because she's a psycho, and wasn't compatable with me. So the whole "what goes around comes around" spiel isn't even close to valid here. >>



he'd have stuck in pics but didn't want to. He was sharing as he has friends on here that care........

ps read his posts......

Well as for you if you were thinking of splitting up with your g/f I'd say split with her then go and have fun with the other girl. Not see if you would enjoy her company then afterwards split with her. Be a man about it. Like what Luvly saids I believe what goes around comes around......
 
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