I'm sorry, but your argument and backpedaling is idiotic. If it is your position that anyone who files for and intends to use a patent should be prepared to spend $1 million or just forget about it, then you truly deserve the ridicule you are getting in this thread. Yes - when Apple sues Samsung for violating a patent, it's going to cost both parties $5 million +. If you believe that is the rule rather than the exception, then there's really no hope reasoning with you.
This argument is idiotic because you guys appear to agree on the average/normal costs for filing and maintaining a patent in the USA and beyond. You're turning this into an absurd exercise by assuming that every patent owner needs to sue to protect their patent and that such lawsuit will probably cost a minimum of $1 million. Using your logic, nobody should invent anything, enter into any business agreement, get behind the wheel of a car, etc. because doing so will ultimately result in millions of dollars of fees. The only person being disingenuous in this thread is you.
** Oh, and if you're right that all patent litigation is "probably" going to cost a minimum of $1 million, I damn sure fucked up by not going into patent law.