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I hate my girlfriend

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I'm not sure I understood much of what you typed. But that aside if you really want to get her goat simply stop arguing with her. When she gets mad and yells do not play her game. Stay cool and nice. Do not let her get to you under any circumstance. If she starts crying simply walk away and when she tells you that you are a jerk for making her cry tell her that crying is a woman's way of trumping in an argument to get the upper hand and you simply will not play that game. It takes two to argue so choose not to. It is fun to watch them squirm as they realize that all of a sudden they have no control. Let her do what she wants and don't complain or judge. That will confuse the crap out of her too. Have some fun with her and if things don't come around at least you messed with her head and didn't get dumped like a chump.
 
Just grab a sewing needle, pop her, and get on with your life.
 
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Originally posted by: acemcmac


I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?

Because you're too afraid to be alone. Go out and find some girl you REALLY want to be with. Less time with this b*tch means more time to find true happiness, or at least a girl better than the one you're currently with.
 
well if you really hate her, marry her first. get life insurance, shoot her in the head while she sleeps, you get lots of money plus whatever may be in her name, then you can have a really cool story for meeting new chicks how your wife was brutally murdered. plus you'll be rich
 
Originally posted by: acemcmac
She's an insensitive bitch, as selfish as they come. She got into her head at a young age that "ADD" was a reason for her to not be measured up to the same standards as the rest of the universe, so even though she's two years older than me, I may as well be dating a highschool girl sometimes... I think there's a 400 point SAT gap and a 40-45 point IQ gap

She thinks she has fvcking cancer, so when she spend the weekend with me (also her period) we just had fight after fight after fight. I took her to a party with her friends and she refused to drink, yet she got sh!tfaced last week at the bar, she got sh!tfaced tonight and is going to get sh!tfaced tomorrow night at her friend's birthday even though that's the only night I can see her before she gets the cancer screening to lend her any support... I set that time aside for her and now she's going to get plastered because she'd rather see me on the weekend.

I'm not 21 and she is. She thinks the bar is the center of the universe. She wears the 2 carrat some odd ring I gave her on her left hand when she goes to the bars, but I still don't buy it. She's a fvcking stupid b!tch and she needs to grow up. I work to eat, go to school and get around and her parents give her everything...

She even makes fun of my GPA for being in the upper 2's... I'm a CS major at a state school graduating in 3 years while working full time at a real job. She's pulling a 3.8 at a school that's barley accredited and even looks down on my engineer friend's GPA's...

:|:|:|:|:|

I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?


I dont think that you are that special sorry. You are working to eat and get through school but you purchased a 2 carat ring for her? That was really financially stupid....

Next, youre a CS major with 3 years to go and you have a high 2 GPA. You might want to look into the job market for CS majors. You are going to be working tech support for Dell if you dont get that GPA to skyrocket or have an "in" already. My professors wife graduated last semester with her MS CS 3.6 GPA from UF and it took her months to find a job.

Lastly, you are fighting with your girlfriend who thinks she might have cancer and staying with a woman who is bar hopping without you.
 
From my experience with women, I think you should try to move on to find someone more compatible with you.
 
Originally posted by: acemcmac

I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?


oh god damn. if you feel that way about her, just fvcking dump her.


why waste your time?


just in case.......pics?
 
I just love people who use ADD as an excuse for not doing anything with their life. Sometimes it's applicable -- I've met people who literally can't focus long enough to read two words without pills -- but most people who actually have ADD can control it through meds, diet, or otherwise. Sure, we aren't exactly normal even then, but you can compensate for most of it. I have ADD but I've yet to let it screw up my life irrevocably. If she doesn't get off her ass and at least try something she has none of my sympathy.
 
Originally posted by: acemcmac

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I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?

Yes. either she is your first or you have VERY low selfesteem.

please dump that dumb bitch.
 
Originally posted by: Sheepathon
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Sheepathon
Ah okay. The "totally doesn't deserve to be with you but still stays with you because she knows that you could do so much better but you're scared to be with someone else because you've been out of the game so long" type. DUMP.

please elaborate

Look, people are usually hesitant to split up with their SOs because they've invested a lot of time, money, and effort into it, so when they come to the realization that they're in a relationship that is going nowhere fast and is actually self destructive, their first reaction is damage control. You're still in damage control mode.

Now heres where I disagree with you. I dont think the first thought when breaking up is how much money you've spent on them. Sure you might do that when you're 14-16 but when breaking up I would rather think of all the emotions and time I invested in it. And if we end it on good terms focus on all the good times. If we end on bad terms. Post bad pics on ATOT :evil:
 
Originally posted by: acemcmac
She's an insensitive bitch, as selfish as they come. She got into her head at a young age that "ADD" was a reason for her to not be measured up to the same standards as the rest of the universe, so even though she's two years older than me, I may as well be dating a highschool girl sometimes... I think there's a 400 point SAT gap and a 40-45 point IQ gap

She thinks she has fvcking cancer, so when she spend the weekend with me (also her period) we just had fight after fight after fight. I took her to a party with her friends and she refused to drink, yet she got sh!tfaced last week at the bar, she got sh!tfaced tonight and is going to get sh!tfaced tomorrow night at her friend's birthday even though that's the only night I can see her before she gets the cancer screening to lend her any support... I set that time aside for her and now she's going to get plastered because she'd rather see me on the weekend.

I'm not 21 and she is. She thinks the bar is the center of the universe. She wears the 2 carrat some odd ring I gave her on her left hand when she goes to the bars, but I still don't buy it. She's a fvcking stupid b!tch and she needs to grow up. I work to eat, go to school and get around and her parents give her everything...

She even makes fun of my GPA for being in the upper 2's... I'm a CS major at a state school graduating in 3 years while working full time at a real job. She's pulling a 3.8 at a school that's barley accredited and even looks down on my engineer friend's GPA's...

:|:|:|:|:|

I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?

That would be because you're a decent human being. She's obviously has some mental problems and you are just trying to be supportive of her. Get together somewhere and talk; open up the lines of communication.

If she can't handle that, then tell her how you feel and let her make her decision. She knows how/where to find you, so when she realizes that she is acting like a bitch, she will act differently.

In the mean time, cool off
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EvolutionWRC
 
By law you are entitled to the ring back if given with the intent to marry, regardless of fault in the breakup.
 
Originally posted by: EvolutionWRC
Originally posted by: acemcmac
She's an insensitive bitch, as selfish as they come. She got into her head at a young age that "ADD" was a reason for her to not be measured up to the same standards as the rest of the universe, so even though she's two years older than me, I may as well be dating a highschool girl sometimes... I think there's a 400 point SAT gap and a 40-45 point IQ gap

She thinks she has fvcking cancer, so when she spend the weekend with me (also her period) we just had fight after fight after fight. I took her to a party with her friends and she refused to drink, yet she got sh!tfaced last week at the bar, she got sh!tfaced tonight and is going to get sh!tfaced tomorrow night at her friend's birthday even though that's the only night I can see her before she gets the cancer screening to lend her any support... I set that time aside for her and now she's going to get plastered because she'd rather see me on the weekend.

I'm not 21 and she is. She thinks the bar is the center of the universe. She wears the 2 carrat some odd ring I gave her on her left hand when she goes to the bars, but I still don't buy it. She's a fvcking stupid b!tch and she needs to grow up. I work to eat, go to school and get around and her parents give her everything...

She even makes fun of my GPA for being in the upper 2's... I'm a CS major at a state school graduating in 3 years while working full time at a real job. She's pulling a 3.8 at a school that's barley accredited and even looks down on my engineer friend's GPA's...

:|:|:|:|:|

I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?

That would be because you're a decent human being. She's obviously has some mental problems and you are just trying to be supportive of her. Get together somewhere and talk; open up the lines of communication.

If she can't handle that, then tell her how you feel and let her make her decision. She knows how/where to find you, so when she realizes that she is acting like a bitch, she will act differently.

In the mean time, cool off
rose.gif


EvolutionWRC

Whhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaat?

Are you retarded? Women, when faced with the realization that they've been caught being bitches, will do their damndest to drive the person who discovered their dirty secret into the grave. It's a defense mechanism.
 
Originally posted by: EyeMWing
Originally posted by: EvolutionWRC
Originally posted by: acemcmac
She's an insensitive bitch, as selfish as they come. She got into her head at a young age that "ADD" was a reason for her to not be measured up to the same standards as the rest of the universe, so even though she's two years older than me, I may as well be dating a highschool girl sometimes... I think there's a 400 point SAT gap and a 40-45 point IQ gap

She thinks she has fvcking cancer, so when she spend the weekend with me (also her period) we just had fight after fight after fight. I took her to a party with her friends and she refused to drink, yet she got sh!tfaced last week at the bar, she got sh!tfaced tonight and is going to get sh!tfaced tomorrow night at her friend's birthday even though that's the only night I can see her before she gets the cancer screening to lend her any support... I set that time aside for her and now she's going to get plastered because she'd rather see me on the weekend.

I'm not 21 and she is. She thinks the bar is the center of the universe. She wears the 2 carrat some odd ring I gave her on her left hand when she goes to the bars, but I still don't buy it. She's a fvcking stupid b!tch and she needs to grow up. I work to eat, go to school and get around and her parents give her everything...

She even makes fun of my GPA for being in the upper 2's... I'm a CS major at a state school graduating in 3 years while working full time at a real job. She's pulling a 3.8 at a school that's barley accredited and even looks down on my engineer friend's GPA's...

:|:|:|:|:|

I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?

That would be because you're a decent human being. She's obviously has some mental problems and you are just trying to be supportive of her. Get together somewhere and talk; open up the lines of communication.

If she can't handle that, then tell her how you feel and let her make her decision. She knows how/where to find you, so when she realizes that she is acting like a bitch, she will act differently.

In the mean time, cool off
rose.gif


EvolutionWRC

Whhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaat?

Are you retarded? Women, when faced with the realization that they've been caught being bitches, will do their damndest to drive the person who discovered their dirty secret into the grave. It's a defense mechanism.

lolol, ppl are looking at me wierd for laughing. in class. you bastard!

also, do this. its good.
 
Originally posted by: EyeMWing
Originally posted by: EvolutionWRC
Originally posted by: acemcmac
She's an insensitive bitch, as selfish as they come. She got into her head at a young age that "ADD" was a reason for her to not be measured up to the same standards as the rest of the universe, so even though she's two years older than me, I may as well be dating a highschool girl sometimes... I think there's a 400 point SAT gap and a 40-45 point IQ gap

She thinks she has fvcking cancer, so when she spend the weekend with me (also her period) we just had fight after fight after fight. I took her to a party with her friends and she refused to drink, yet she got sh!tfaced last week at the bar, she got sh!tfaced tonight and is going to get sh!tfaced tomorrow night at her friend's birthday even though that's the only night I can see her before she gets the cancer screening to lend her any support... I set that time aside for her and now she's going to get plastered because she'd rather see me on the weekend.

I'm not 21 and she is. She thinks the bar is the center of the universe. She wears the 2 carrat some odd ring I gave her on her left hand when she goes to the bars, but I still don't buy it. She's a fvcking stupid b!tch and she needs to grow up. I work to eat, go to school and get around and her parents give her everything...

She even makes fun of my GPA for being in the upper 2's... I'm a CS major at a state school graduating in 3 years while working full time at a real job. She's pulling a 3.8 at a school that's barley accredited and even looks down on my engineer friend's GPA's...

:|:|:|:|:|

I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?

That would be because you're a decent human being. She's obviously has some mental problems and you are just trying to be supportive of her. Get together somewhere and talk; open up the lines of communication.

If she can't handle that, then tell her how you feel and let her make her decision. She knows how/where to find you, so when she realizes that she is acting like a bitch, she will act differently.

In the mean time, cool off
rose.gif


EvolutionWRC

Whhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaat?

Are you retarded? Women, when faced with the realization that they've been caught being bitches, will do their damndest to drive the person who discovered their dirty secret into the grave. It's a defense mechanism.

yep, women have this habit of when they are sprung they will make it out to be all your fault and you will suffer for it.
 
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