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I hate my girlfriend

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acemcmac

Lifer
She's an insensitive bitch, as selfish as they come. She got into her head at a young age that "ADD" was a reason for her to not be measured up to the same standards as the rest of the universe, so even though she's two years older than me, I may as well be dating a highschool girl sometimes... I think there's a 400 point SAT gap and a 40-45 point IQ gap

She thinks she has fvcking cancer, so when she spend the weekend with me (also her period) we just had fight after fight after fight. I took her to a party with her friends and she refused to drink, yet she got sh!tfaced last week at the bar, she got sh!tfaced tonight and is going to get sh!tfaced tomorrow night at her friend's birthday even though that's the only night I can see her before she gets the cancer screening to lend her any support... I set that time aside for her and now she's going to get plastered because she'd rather see me on the weekend.

I'm not 21 and she is. She thinks the bar is the center of the universe. She wears the 2 carrat some odd ring I gave her on her left hand when she goes to the bars, but I still don't buy it. She's a fvcking stupid b!tch and she needs to grow up. I work to eat, go to school and get around and her parents give her everything...

She even makes fun of my GPA for being in the upper 2's... I'm a CS major at a state school graduating in 3 years while working full time at a real job. She's pulling a 3.8 at a school that's barley accredited and even looks down on my engineer friend's GPA's...

:|:|:|:|:|

I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?
 
Ah okay. The "totally doesn't deserve to be with you but still stays with you because she knows that you could do so much better but you're scared to be with someone else because you've been out of the game so long" type. DUMP.
 
Originally posted by: ElFenix
dtb

and get that ring back
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it's not diamond. It's actually some pretty cheap gemstones in her favorite colors and favorite arrangement in a really expensive looking setting 😉
 
I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?
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If she does have cancer, you can see how that might make her a little wacked out.

Good luck whatever you do, but careful about the dump timing, don't want to appear to be and insensitive @ss hole.

 
get that ring back asap and then suck it up and break up with her. You are still with her why?
 
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: JasonSix78
Are you venting or is this the way you feel about her all the time?

-Jason
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its almost 50/50 🙁 and has been forever
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I feel ya bro. It's easier said than done, but IMHO it'd be best to move on. You both are still young, date around and don't waste your time and energy on someone like that.

-Jason
 
Originally posted by: Sheepathon
Ah okay. The "totally doesn't deserve to be with you but still stays with you because she knows that you could do so much better but you're scared to be with someone else because you've been out of the game so long" type. DUMP.
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please elaborate
 
Originally posted by: JasonSix78
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: JasonSix78
Are you venting or is this the way you feel about her all the time?

-Jason
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its almost 50/50 🙁 and has been forever
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I feel ya bro. It's easier said than done, but IMHO it'd be best to move on. You both are still young, date around and don't waste your time and energy on someone like that.

-Jason
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anther thing that gets me:

socratic debate is how knowledge evolves. I can't have an intellectual conversation with her. She gets defensive and turns things into arguments. She fears what she doesen't understand. Even my dad said that it doesen't matter how good the sex is, if you can't talk to her, she's useless....
 
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Sheepathon
Ah okay. The "totally doesn't deserve to be with you but still stays with you because she knows that you could do so much better but you're scared to be with someone else because you've been out of the game so long" type. DUMP.
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please elaborate
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according to you, she is selfish, stupid, insensitive, and everything else negative. You are frustrated at her and even called her a b!tch. Furthermore, you have NO idea why you're with her.

So why are you with her? You want to break up with her but you don't have the strenght to because you don't want to be alone? You don't know how to get back in the game? You don't know what's out there now? You two have been together for so long? You need the guaranteed sex?

Why are you with her still? If you don't love her anymore or don't see the potential with her, then just be a man and break up with her.
 
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Sheepathon
Ah okay. The "totally doesn't deserve to be with you but still stays with you because she knows that you could do so much better but you're scared to be with someone else because you've been out of the game so long" type. DUMP.
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please elaborate
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Look, people are usually hesitant to split up with their SOs because they've invested a lot of time, money, and effort into it, so when they come to the realization that they're in a relationship that is going nowhere fast and is actually self destructive, their first reaction is damage control. You're still in damage control mode.
 
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: JasonSix78
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: JasonSix78
Are you venting or is this the way you feel about her all the time?

-Jason
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its almost 50/50 🙁 and has been forever
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I feel ya bro. It's easier said than done, but IMHO it'd be best to move on. You both are still young, date around and don't waste your time and energy on someone like that.

-Jason
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anther thing that gets me:

socratic debate is how knowledge evolves. I can't have an intellectual conversation with her. She gets defensive and turns things into arguments. She fears what she doesen't understand. Even my dad said that it doesen't matter how good the sex is, if you can't talk to her, she's useless....
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Dump her! :thumbsdown:
 
Originally posted by: webcammie
If you don't love her anymore or don't see the potential with her, then just be a man and break up with her.
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QFT. It's better to be alone for the right reasons than to be with someone for the wrong ones. Maybe your upper 2s GPA could creep into the 3s if you moved along and focused on CS instead of drama.
 
I'm so pissed at her right now. Why can't I find the nerve to break up with her?

It's pretty easy, you say, "I can't be with you anymore," finished.
 
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