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I Feel Left Out...

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I'm the last of the virgins here too. 😛 Well, besides my ex GF. One of my good friends just started having sex with her BF (and is very happy about this), and I just found out that an old friend, a very religious goody-two-shoes type person is also no longer a virgin.
I'm 20 and ready.
 


<< How can girls have trouble finding sex???
Just smile and the guys will follow! >>



Finding it isn't the problem, you dolt, she has simply chosen abstinence thus far.

Viper GTS
 


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<< LOL,I wouldn't want to have to deal with your pm's this morning... >>



Just what she needs, 37 110 lb Asian men volunteering to help her out with her problem.

😛

Viper GTS >>




Ahh... a man in denial. There have to have been at least 48 110lb Asian men volunteering, along with 62 275lb 5'6" computer geeks.

BTW, for hoihtah, Viper GTS and TheBlondOne are a couple, though Viper GTS lives in Oregon and TheBlondOne lives in Penn, I think.

In all seriousness, I think what you and Viper do together is your business. That said, if you are feeling like this, what stopped you and Viper from fixing that problem (I think I saw something about Viper going to visit you sometime in the last month or two)? Moral, religious, or practical concerns?

EDIT: to fix the #$%^ing bold markup location
 


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<< How can girls have trouble finding sex???
Just smile and the guys will follow! >>



Finding it isn't the problem, you dolt, she has simply chosen abstinence thus far.

Viper GTS >>



So why complain about it in public? 😎
 
As the mother of a baby at 18, I say screw your friends, and enjoy the fact that your not only the blonde one, but the smart one too. 😉

(Ok, maybe the term screw your friends was a bad one, but you know what I mean.) 😀
 
TheBlondOne,

As somebody who is old enough to be your father and has, unlike most of the half-blind hairy palmed big-talking horny nerds here, actually HAD sex, I say: KUDOS TO YOU! Stay strong and true to your heart and don't listen to any turd who tells you otherwise.

You should be proud of your beliefs, and even more proud of the fact that in the face of overwhelming pressure you have stood your ground. There are far more important things to achieve in your life then getting laid. That can wait for as long as YOU decide it should.

Your primary goal in life should be to live up to your own personal expectations, not the expectations of others.

Russ, NCNE
 


<< Maybe your friends are the ones missing out on something by having sex. >>



Whoa. Someone is really bitter about something. Gotta disagree with you there.

Sex is the most beautiful thing in the entire world. It's the reason for my existence. :Q There is no feeling like making love with someone. And you don't have to be in love with someone to make love to them.

There's sex that was "just sex." Quickie-get-it-over-with-because-I-want-to-get-back-to-the-party sex. And "hey, you're really pretty...you think I'm cute?" Well, alrighty then, come to Papa!" type sex.

If someone wants to remain a virgin for religious or personal reasons, that's great, but let's be honest; sex can be a wonderful thing. 🙂
 


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<< How can girls have trouble finding sex???
Just smile and the guys will follow! >>



Finding it isn't the problem, you dolt, she has simply chosen abstinence thus far.

Viper GTS >>



So why complain about it in public? 😎 >>



Just because one chooses something willingly does not make it easy, nor does it make it pleasant. All of us have sex drives, & the closer you get to someone (both physically and emotionally) the harder it gets to maintain what you believe to be right.

Viper GTS
 


<< Sex is the reason for my existence. :Q >>



rolleye.gif
don't you mean LOOKING for sex is the reason for your existence 😉
 
dont feel left out hunny.
not having sex until you are with someone you love makes it that much more special.

*kat. <-- cuddle monster.
 


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<< Sex is the most beautiful thing in the entire world. >>


Is that why fugly people like myself rarely or never have sex? >>



Hey, don't despair 🙂. I'm not exactly Fabio myself. It took me 22 years, but I finally did it. And it just happens that my girlfriend is so beautiful that other guys stare at her when they see her (and sometimes they look at me and get the "Why the hell is that gorgerous woman with a guy like that?!"-expression on their faces).

Just be yourself, and things will work out. Trust me on this one.
 
hmmm...

viperGTS...
you have a good woman. don't let this get to you.

and TheBlondOne...
you are left out. however your feelings on this one is a bit foreign to me.

i choose not to smoke weed. for whatever reasons, i choose to be un-drugged.
there are many out there that do smoke weed... for a reason or another.
especially in college, i'd say that there are more people that either do drugs or have tried drugs.

leaving the whole argument of whether drugs are good for you out of the equation...
if it is my decision... if it is my choice not to do drugs...
am i left out as a non-druggie?
yes.
should i feel all jealous over people who do... and feel left out?
no.

your decision to stay virgin is your choice.
not your lack of choice.

hence, i think you should embrace your current state... at least until you decide to have sex.

i'm not sure whether i'm helping or not helping... but leaving the moral out of the equation...
this makes most sense to me. 🙂
 
OK....wow.

Why am I still a virgin? Because I have huge plans for my life and don't want pregnancy to ruin them. I want to be pregnant when I'm READY to be pregnant. Other reasons do not necessarily include religion, but the fact that I've waited 21 years so far does make me think, "Heck, a few more years won't hurt."

No, this is not a "should I have sex with Viper?" thread. It's just me complaining that it feels like everyone's having sex and I'm not (as a few of you aren't either, it seems). It just sucks to think that everyone's having a good old time and the rest of us just sit here and...wait. But I know it's my decision, so it's not anyone's fault but my own.

Heh...just my bitching for the day, I guess.

--Sarah
 
IMHO, sex is one of the great things in life. Don't feel left out though if you are waiting for personal reasons. It's better to have sex when you really want to than to have it just because you are feeling left out.
 


<< OK....wow.

Why am I still a virgin? Because I have huge plans for my life and don't want pregnancy to ruin them. I want to be pregnant when I'm READY to be pregnant. Other reasons do not necessarily include religion, but the fact that I've waited 21 years so far does make me think, "Heck, a few more years won't hurt."

No, this is not a "should I have sex with Viper?" thread. It's just me complaining that it feels like everyone's having sex and I'm not (as a few of you aren't either, it seems). It just sucks to think that everyone's having a good old time and the rest of us just sit here and...wait. But I know it's my decision, so it's not anyone's fault but my own.

Heh...just my bitching for the day, I guess.

--Sarah >>



you do know there are other ways to satisfy that need other than intercourse right? altho Bill Clinton might say one of them is 'not sex' 😉

 
For all you people giving her props, her post comes down to this.
She is either complaining, or bragging in a indirect way.

 


<< you do know there are other ways to satisfy that need other than intercourse right? altho Bill Clinton might say one of them is 'not sex' >>


Yeah, there's always "sandwiching." :Q:Q:Q:Q:Q


OK, that made no sense whatsoever. 😀
 
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