I feel bad for my friend

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Kadarin

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: Hammerhead
He's just mad because he didn't any while they were on a break. If he had gotten some he'd be singing a different tune.
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Absolutely.
 
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PatboyX

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Hammerhead
He's just mad because he didn't any while they were on a break. If he had gotten some he'd be singing a different tune.
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Absolutely.
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i agree!
actually, when i think about it, even if he did get some he would be pissed that she did.
 
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timxpx

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jack bauer slept with nina myers when he was on a break with his wife... and then everything went to hell. and now we're waiting on a 5th season.
 
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Bryophyte

Lifer
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Wow, so once she had his c0ck, she was sworn to a life of celibacy? Give me a fvcking break. When you break up with someone, you don't own them. They aren't answerable to you. You are now the "ex" and have no say in how they live their lives or who they decide to bang. Your opinion doesn't matter anymore. If you go crawling back to her and beg her to take you back, that doesn't mean that the time apart was suddenly null and void. It was HERS.
 
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91TTZ

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Wow, so once she had his c0ck, she was sworn to a life of celibacy? Give me a fvcking break. When you break up with someone, you don't own them. They aren't answerable to you. You are now the "ex" and have no say in how they live their lives or who they decide to bang. Your opinion doesn't matter anymore. If you go crawling back to her and beg her to take you back, that doesn't mean that the time apart was suddenly null and void. It was HERS.
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Yes, and it was HIS right to break it off with her.

I don't see how there is guilt on either side of this.... she had the right to date other people after the breakup, and he had the right to break it off when he found out about it. Both sides can do as they please, there are no obligations to stay in the relationship.

For a relationship to work both parties must be willing to stay. Once one decides to go, that's it, and there's nothing you can do about it.
 
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Landroval

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Feb 5, 2005
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Originally posted by: Stefan
Originally posted by: Aimster
she broke up with him so she could screw him and not feel guilty.

bitch needs to be pissed on.

/end thread
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Actually, she didn't break up with him to screw someone else. She feels horrible right now. She thought the relationship was toally over with. Then 3 months later, my friend told her that he wanted to get back together and she was really happy because I know she really loves him.

It's just too bad she decided to mess around with someone so soon after their break up.
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Your friend is an immature a$$hole
 
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maziwanka

Lifer
Jul 4, 2000
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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Wow, so once she had his c0ck, she was sworn to a life of celibacy? Give me a fvcking break. When you break up with someone, you don't own them. They aren't answerable to you. You are now the "ex" and have no say in how they live their lives or who they decide to bang. Your opinion doesn't matter anymore. If you go crawling back to her and beg her to take you back, that doesn't mean that the time apart was suddenly null and void. It was HERS.
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Yes, and it was HIS right to break it off with her.

I don't see how there is guilt on either side of this.... she had the right to date other people after the breakup, and he had the right to break it off when he found out about it. Both sides can do as they please, there are no obligations to stay in the relationship.

For a relationship to work both parties must be willing to stay. Once one decides to go, that's it, and there's nothing you can do about it.
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exactly. i dont understand why there is so much discussion about this.
 
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91TTZ

Lifer
Jan 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: Landroval


Your friend is an immature a$$hole
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How is that? It was his right to leave the relationship. He had no obligation to stay in it, just as she had no obligation to refrain from dating other people. Couldn't he claim that she was the immature s$$hole for sleeping with someone so soon? I don't blame her, but I don't blame him for leaving, either. In the end they both did what they felt that they should do.

They both made choices, which they're allowed to do. Neither was wrong.
 
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Bryophyte

Lifer
Apr 25, 2001
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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Wow, so once she had his c0ck, she was sworn to a life of celibacy? Give me a fvcking break. When you break up with someone, you don't own them. They aren't answerable to you. You are now the "ex" and have no say in how they live their lives or who they decide to bang. Your opinion doesn't matter anymore. If you go crawling back to her and beg her to take you back, that doesn't mean that the time apart was suddenly null and void. It was HERS.
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Yes, and it was HIS right to break it off with her.

I don't see how there is guilt on either side of this.... she had the right to date other people after the breakup, and he had the right to break it off when he found out about it. Both sides can do as they please, there are no obligations to stay in the relationship.

For a relationship to work both parties must be willing to stay. Once one decides to go, that's it, and there's nothing you can do about it.
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I don't disagree that he has the right to decide whether or not he wants to date her. What I find absurd is the people who posted above that she was a slut or that she should've waited longer or that she did something unforgivable or even wrong. He was involved with a sexually active young woman, not some virginal saint. Why fault her for living her life after the breakup?
 
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91TTZ

Lifer
Jan 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: Bryophyte

I don't disagree that he has the right to decide whether or not he wants to date her. What I find absurd is the people who posted above that she was a slut or that she should've waited longer or that she did something unforgivable or even wrong. He was involved with a sexually active young woman, not some virginal saint. Why fault her for living her life after the breakup?
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Without knowing all the facts I can't say what really happened or place any blame.

If it was a mutual breakup and she met some other guy later on, thinking her old relationship was over, I couldn't blame her for doing that.

But if she already had the other guy lined up and broke up with the bf in order to have sex with the new guy without the guilt, then she's a slut.
 
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maziwanka

Lifer
Jul 4, 2000
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Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Wow, so once she had his c0ck, she was sworn to a life of celibacy? Give me a fvcking break. When you break up with someone, you don't own them. They aren't answerable to you. You are now the "ex" and have no say in how they live their lives or who they decide to bang. Your opinion doesn't matter anymore. If you go crawling back to her and beg her to take you back, that doesn't mean that the time apart was suddenly null and void. It was HERS.
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Yes, and it was HIS right to break it off with her.

I don't see how there is guilt on either side of this.... she had the right to date other people after the breakup, and he had the right to break it off when he found out about it. Both sides can do as they please, there are no obligations to stay in the relationship.

For a relationship to work both parties must be willing to stay. Once one decides to go, that's it, and there's nothing you can do about it.
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I don't disagree that he has the right to decide whether or not he wants to date her. What I find absurd is the people who posted above that she was a slut or that she should've waited longer or that she did something unforgivable or even wrong. He was involved with a sexually active young woman, not some virginal saint. Why fault her for living her life after the breakup?
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i agree with this too. all the idiots who deem themselves fit to call this girl a slut are fvcking morons in the first place.
 
ElFenix

ElFenix

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and then she comes back! hello, if you let something go and it comes back it was meant to be! holy sh!t this guy is an idiot.
 
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Ronstang

Lifer
Jul 8, 2000
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Originally posted by: ifoundthetao
yeah. i can understand everyone saying "they were broken up.. she had every right" which is completely legit.. but like, i dont know.. like, if the dude didnt sleep with anyone else.. then it might be more personal. if my girlfriend and i broke up or took a break, then got back together and i found out she had slept with someone i would be very hurt.. and we've only been together for about a year and a half.. ya know. like. its more of the fact that she would do that. like, when you find a wallet on the ground with no ID, and you give it to the police department because you think that someone might come and pick it up.. you have the option of keeping it. you dont really know where the person lives.. you just know that you found a wallet.. no strings attached really. but like, lets say that a week later, you lose your wallet, with no ID in it.. and you go to the 5-0 to see if anyone brought it in.. and nobody did.. you'd feel kinda hurt... like, "geeze.. i brought someone else's money in when i could have just as easily taken it... how come people dont do that for me?" meh, i dont know.. i just think that sucks that the chick did that.. because like, who knows what might have happened.. in any event, the dude is probably luckier.. from what i've found, sex is the root of most problems in relationships.
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I didn't realize it was possible for stupid kids to type as bad as they, like speak....I was like very wrong.
 
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CVSiN

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Jul 19, 2004
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you and him are both *****s then.. they were broken up..

girls and guys sleep with other people its a fact of life...
get over it...

you expect a girl to weep in her corner for 3 months over him or lock herself into a nunery just becasue you or someone else broke up with them...

omfg get over yourself...


 
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