I feel bad for my friend

[shilala]

Originally posted by: Stefan

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: Stefan

Originally posted by: Aimster
she broke up with him so she could screw him and not feel guilty.

bitch needs to be pissed on.

/end thread

Actually, she didn't break up with him to screw someone else. She feels horrible right now. She thought the relationship was toally over with. Then 3 months later, my friend told her that he wanted to get back together and she was really happy because I know she really loves him.

It's just too bad she decided to mess around with someone so soon after their break up.

Too bad she decided to mess around so soon? Get a grip. She thought the relationship was over. If your friend can't deal with it then he is obviously an annoying little turd so she is better off as he would eventually drive her crazy anyway.

3 months is way to short a time to screw someone after ending a 3 year relationship.

Bullshyt.
If I get a "break", I'll be mindfully setting out on a quest to drop my meat in every hog in the tri-county area inside 15 minutes.
It should be different for the one with the vag? Once again, bullshyt.

 

[sao123]

Originally posted by: Preyhunter
I'd hit it.

You do not have permission to post here until you have fully updated your own thread...
post removed.

 

[Argo]

although it looks bad on her to sleep with a guy less than 3 months after ending a 3 year relationship

Wth, no it doesn't. Most people would sleep with somebody else after 1 week.

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: Stefan

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: Stefan

Originally posted by: Aimster
she broke up with him so she could screw him and not feel guilty.

bitch needs to be pissed on.

/end thread

Actually, she didn't break up with him to screw someone else. She feels horrible right now. She thought the relationship was toally over with. Then 3 months later, my friend told her that he wanted to get back together and she was really happy because I know she really loves him.

It's just too bad she decided to mess around with someone so soon after their break up.

Too bad she decided to mess around so soon? Get a grip. She thought the relationship was over. If your friend can't deal with it then he is obviously an annoying little turd so she is better off as he would eventually drive her crazy anyway.

3 months is way to short a time to screw someone after ending a 3 year relationship.

Um... No it isn't.

 

[Anubis]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Stefan

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: Stefan

Originally posted by: Aimster
she broke up with him so she could screw him and not feel guilty.

bitch needs to be pissed on.

/end thread

Actually, she didn't break up with him to screw someone else. She feels horrible right now. She thought the relationship was toally over with. Then 3 months later, my friend told her that he wanted to get back together and she was really happy because I know she really loves him.

It's just too bad she decided to mess around with someone so soon after their break up.

Too bad she decided to mess around so soon? Get a grip. She thought the relationship was over. If your friend can't deal with it then he is obviously an annoying little turd so she is better off as he would eventually drive her crazy anyway.

3 months is way to short a time to screw someone after ending a 3 year relationship.

Um... No it isn't.

well IMO and and in his opionion it is as well, i would have been just as mad as the OPs friend

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Goosemaster
He can do whatever he wants.

Thats the long and the short of it. Sounds like she had every right to go ahead and try to move on. But in his mind, he probably didn't think the relationship had ever really ended...so he just can't deal with it. I think, they both probably have valid feelings here.

PS: Breakups are never mutual. Thats pure horsesh|t.

Ross and Rachel was the perfectly designed sitcom breakup, a breakup where you can't blame either character. You can't hate ross because he thought it was over, he was dejected, drunk, and had a girl throw herself at him. You can't blame rachel because she didn't think it was over, and got cheated on.

 

[Argo]

Originally posted by: Anubis

well IMO and and in his opionion it is as well, i would have been just as mad as the OPs friend

You serious? You guys have strange expectations of your partners. If I broke up with somebody I would feel free to start seeing other people the next day. As for my ex doing the same, for starters once you break up with somebody it's never a good idea to get back together, IMO. Secondly, if we did get back together and she did sleep with somebody I'd probably be upset but more with myself for giving her a chance to sleep with somebody else, rather than with her.

 

[meltdown75]

i feel bad for you for feeling bad for him

 

[Kenazo]

Man, you come up with some great sob stories.

 

[Doboji]

And thats why yo-yo relationships are doomed to failure... 1 break up is more than enough....

 

[ggnl]

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Stefan

3 months is way to short a time to screw someone after ending a 3 year relationship.

Um... No it isn't.

well IMO and and in his opionion it is as well, i would have been just as mad as the OPs friend

I agree. Amicable breakups aren't the same as your usual breakup. In most cases, the couple still cares about each other, but for some reason they just don't think it can work out. To move on so soon without giving the chance for feelings to fade is just disrepectful. I would have dumped her too.

 

[BigToque]

I find it amusing that 90% of AT has probably never had a relationship, let alone a long term relationship and yet almost all of you are yammering about how "she had every right", "he's just pissed", "he's just jealous"... blah blah blah.

There's more to relationships than just what's right and whats wrong, which is apparently all you guys can focus on.

I feel bad for my friend because AFTER they got back together, she told him she slept with someone else. Just because it wasn't "wrong" doesn't mean it can't hurt. It's too bad she didn't tell him this when they decided to get back together as opposed to telling him after they had been back together for a while again.

And for those of you who say "She should have just not told him"... Relationships work on trust, and part of that trust is openess about your past.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Stefan

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: Stefan

Originally posted by: Aimster
she broke up with him so she could screw him and not feel guilty.

bitch needs to be pissed on.

/end thread

Actually, she didn't break up with him to screw someone else. She feels horrible right now. She thought the relationship was toally over with. Then 3 months later, my friend told her that he wanted to get back together and she was really happy because I know she really loves him.

It's just too bad she decided to mess around with someone so soon after their break up.

Too bad she decided to mess around so soon? Get a grip. She thought the relationship was over. If your friend can't deal with it then he is obviously an annoying little turd so she is better off as he would eventually drive her crazy anyway.

3 months is way to short a time to screw someone after ending a 3 year relationship.

Um... No it isn't.

well IMO and and in his opionion it is as well, i would have been just as mad as the OPs friend

not if they were over it before they broek it off which happens alot. Girls often line up the next guy b4 cutting off the last guy so they dont have to go with out sex and the other perks

 

[KingPhil]

Did he tell her that he boinked someone / something else during those 3 months?? <woof woof woof>

 

[eigen]

The lesson to be learned is to cheat fast and hard like an adulterous airborne commando.

 

[BMdoobieW]

If they had both refrained from sex until marriage, this never would have happened.

 

[Hammer]

Originally posted by: lancestorm
Your friend is whacko. Let me explain. It is not as bad as it could have been. This happened to a friend of mine as well. 'Cept she got PREGNANT. They are back together. She gave the baby for adoption. They are going to be married this year.

wow. that is worse.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: meltdown75
i feel bad for you for feeling bad for him

that is country music GOLD right there baby :thumbsup:

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Stefan
I find it amusing that 90% of AT has probably never had a relationship, let alone a long term relationship and yet almost all of you are yammering about how "she had every right", "he's just pissed", "he's just jealous"... blah blah blah.

There's more to relationships than just what's right and whats wrong, which is apparently all you guys can focus on.

I feel bad for my friend because AFTER they got back together, she told him she slept with someone else. Just because it wasn't "wrong" doesn't mean it can't hurt. It's too bad she didn't tell him this when they decided to get back together as opposed to telling him after they had been back together for a while again.

And for those of you who say "She should have just not told him"... Relationships work on trust, and part of that trust is openess about your past.

yeh, but you quickly discount the fact that she told him at all. she didn't have to. it seems to me she was trying to be honest.
and the fact also remains that they were broke up at the time this happened.

your friend's ego and pride is hurt. it's too bad he will be letting possibly the best girl he will ever have go over that.

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

Originally posted by: Preyhunter
I'd hit it.

No Posting until you update you SOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
just kidding...
But can you give us an update here?

 

[meltdown75]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: meltdown75
i feel bad for you for feeling bad for him

that is country music GOLD right there baby :thumbsup:

heh - seriously though... i'm pretty sensitive and i'd have to smack my friend and then tell him to smack me if we were sobbing about what some 3-months-ago floozy is up to. unless she was "the one" or something...

 

[PingSpike]

Just tell your friend this, Its both the truth and comforting: If you guys thought throwing in the towel was a realistic option even for a little while, chances are that it wasn't going to work out anyway. If you were really meant for eachother, that idea would have never crossed your minds to begin with.

 

[mordantmonkey]

it's his fault for not banging another girl after they broke up. he had the chance to, i mean 3 months come on. one month of greiving is plenty. it's not like his wife died or something.

 

[Hammerhead]

He's just mad because he didn't any while they were on a break. If he had gotten some he'd be singing a different tune.

 

[clamum]

Almost the same thing happened to me. We took like a week off (still seeing each other about every day) and she slept with a dude. I'm guessing she just wanted to have sex with him, hence the week off so it's not techincally cheating.