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I dunno if it's God, fate, or coincidence, but SOMETHING sucks.

Funny story:

Sometime in early january, I bought a cheapy Logitech Quickcam Express and downloaded some software from Camarades (camarades.com I think). I played with it for a while, and just left my cam running more often than not. I got the usual IMs and chat room come-ons from sickos and the like, but I also met some cool people.

One night, someone IMs me simply saying "I think you're hot!". I immediately assumed this was another pervert, but I play along with this kinda crap for fun. After talking to it for a while, I was left with a reasonably strong impression that they were who they said they were: a teenage girl with about 1 year on me. After we talked for several weeks constantly, I finally bothered asking her where she lived. Her response stunned me. She lived in another part of my town about 20 miles from my house!

Now, I didn't have any real confirmation yet that this person was who she said she was, but I had reasonable evidence to assume she was. When I got a picture of her... it turns out she's stunningly beautiful. And I mean incredible! (Yes, I've still got the pic, and I'll post it if I find it again). Her high school was going to run in a track meet against our school in the next month, so we decided to meet there. That way, it was assuredly a large and public place, so neither of us could kidnap the other... 🙂

About a week before the track meet, I get an email from her stating, "I got hurt, and I can't come to the track meet, I'm sorry!" This seemed too convenient to be true, and things seemed even more suspicious when I didn't see her online for ~3 months. I figured I had just been played, so I moved on with my life.

Here's where things get interesting: Last saturday, I saw her screen name show up on my buddy list. I got one of my friends to IM her, and check out what she says about herself. He says to me, "She says she lives in LA." I was thinking, "OK, so it WAS a joke. Oh well."

Just then, he says, "Wait, she says she moved here from XXXXX XXXX earlier this year. Something about her dad's job getting transferred." He then gave her my screen name, and she proceeded to IM me and say almost verbatim, "I still really like you! When we moved, I lost your screen name. I was so sad."

This is where I decided someone hates me. And to make matters worse, she then said, "If we had actually gotten to meet, you would've been my first." How's THAT for making a teenage guy want to cry? I mean, my God. I finally meet some really cool chick, and she gets hurt and has to move away before we even get to meet one another in real life!

Anyways, I just wanted to share my story with some people. I realize most of you are horribly insensitive, but I just needed to vent. Ugh. She's 2300 miles away.

P.S. She might be coming back for a week during the summer. Maybe something good WILL come of this! 😉

EDIT: Pic is Here . Gotta love glamour shots.
 
"We were born, we will die, and everything in between is crap." - Samuel Beckett
if you don't see her again, tough luck kid. if you do, good for you.
 
just my opinions and i know some here were involved/are involved in one but i think that Internet Relationships = no
 


<< Find a best friend and date her.

Nik
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Wish it were that easy... 🙁 Anyway, sorry about what happened. Sooner or later, the right girl is going to come along. 🙂
 
it's okay... you'll learn soon enough that you never actually get what you want... until then you can live on hope... have fun...
 
ok, I had to laugh when reading this. Not because I'm mean or anything, but because it's one of those situations that sucks so much it makes you wanna cry. I've ended up in some situations that sucked before, but this beats anything thats happened to me. I feel for you man, try to keep it together after figuring this out.
 


<< PICS? (wtf 9 replies and nobody prompted him to dig up the pic yet? i'm ashamed of my fellow ATOT'ers.) >>



well he promised to "dig it up" in his first post... I was going to give him a 24 hour grace period. I guess that doesn't apply to all "dig up" promises like I thought it did 😱
 
"If we had actually gotten to meet, you would've been my first." How's THAT for making a teenage guy want to cry?

and it all comes down to this 😀
 
Heh, I haven't forgotten, I'm still looking for pics.

As for getting real life friends, I've got plenty. I'm not gay, so the guys can be counted out, and I'm too good friends with the girls to consider going out with any of them. 😛
 


<< "If we had actually gotten to meet, you would've been my first." >>


a girl would never say this... at least not one you'd want to meet in person.

it was a guy.
 


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<< "If we had actually gotten to meet, you would've been my first." >>


a girl would never say this... at least not one you'd want to meet in person.

it was a guy.
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true man true.

In my experiences a girl IS NOT going to tell you this unless shes been good friends with you for a while. And suddently you weren't going to be seeing each other for a long time. Say if you were to move away or split and go to Uni. And when I mean *friends* I mean friends in real life when you chilled and spent real time together instead of time on the net. Man you SHOULD OF AT least got her number. If shes keen she would have given it to you......

Anyway mate too bad and just chill out have fun and a cool girl will come your way. You just got to wait....

The more your out and about the more chances of this happening, so get off your ass and get away from this dam pc!!!! and ATOT!!!!.....

as for me I got my plans sorted for Valentines day 😀

Now after having had the some sort of similar situations like you (about a year ago) I chat to people on the net but you can't trust them that much. They could be JUST very good liars or not. And if you intend to hook up with girls the chances are slimmer but worth a try I guess. Better to go out and have fun with your mates and you'll meet loads of people......

 
let me chime in with my 2cents here.. First off, its completely true.. No girl would ever admit to a guy about you being their first.

Either:

A) it was an older girl whom gave you a fake pic
B) a dude that gave you a fake pic

I remember what it was like to be a teen, but don't get your hopes up to high.. esp when someone can hide underneath the blanket that is the internet.
 
Heh, I know, I know, the chance is STILL there that this is a guy. I'm not TOTALLY stupid, but I've talked to (it) enough that I've decided if they're fake, they make a VERY convincing impression. And then there's the whole thing about them keeping up the charade for quite a long while (if it's a guy).

I dunno about y'all, but after I've played a trick on someone for a while, I get bored with it.

To summarize: Hopes are high, but expectations are not unrealistic.

BTW, pic is bout to be posted.
 
Picture's posted. While you're there, cut off the name of the picture, and visit my clan's website. We suck, but we've got enough ego to go around.
 
HAHA, back in college one of my roommate's used to pull a stunt like this as well, it gave us many Friday night laughs.
He'd pretend to be a chick and IM some guy in town here, my friend would lead him along and send him obscure pictures of girls off the net, so as not to draw suspicion. Eventually, he'd ask to meet and we'd(by this time there were at least 5 of us drinking and laughing and having a good ol time, watching this unfold) give him an address. We'd drive over to that area of town and park just down the block and enjoy the show.

Saw a couple slaps occur when there actually was a chick at the address, but we never hit the holy grail and had the 250 jealous boyfriend come running out to have a go at Romeo.

Good times, good times.
 


<< HAHA, back in college one of my roommate's used to pull a stunt like this as well, it gave us many Friday night laughs.
He'd pretend to be a chick and IM some guy in town here, my friend would lead him along and send him obscure pictures of girls off the net, so as not to draw suspicion. Eventually, he'd ask to meet and we'd(by this time there were at least 5 of us drinking and laughing and having a good ol time, watching this unfold) give him an address. We'd drive over to that area of town and park just down the block and enjoy the show.

Saw a couple slaps occur when there actually was a chick at the address, but we never hit the holy grail and had the 250 jealous boyfriend come running out to have a go at Romeo.

Good times, good times.
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Haha. I might be talking to your friend right now.

See, new devleopments are occuring. I might've been taken. If so, I'm going to laugh. If not, I'm going to laugh harder.

Either way now, life still sucks. 🙂
 
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