Stay in Texass.
Cost of living in TX is much lower than CT. TAXES on a house, etc is dealbreaking HUGE!!! While the CT coast is really nice, the weather in winter sucks and the humid summer can be a ballbreaker. But...NYC is close by which is great if you're into the "big city" thing.
If you 100% know that you'll get a sales job in TX, try to get it in writing. If the "promise" of it occurring is 50%, then take the CT job....after all, 35% raise ain't that small, regardless of the cost of living.....
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.....another thing you could do is take the CT job, for now, and put your TX things in storage. Do the job for some months UNTIL the TX job opens up, then apply to get it. You'll have the equivalent experience from CT (sort of like what an expat worker does) and you won't lose out on the potential of the TX not happening (promises in corporate America are worth shyte!). In the meantime, you make more money and get to experience CT and the environs for a while...........WIN/WIN. :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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BTW, IMHO, sales jobs are HIGH STRESS. Most people I know in big company tech sales HATE their jobs. You're "on call" all the time, have to constantly travel to XYZ (no consistently set time for yourself) and have to MEET unrealistic sales numbers. Turnover and firings are high and your income swings with the economy. In good times, the increased income can be great, but in bad times it can be baaaaad. My wife could make double what she make now in sales but we stay away b/c of what we see from others. We knew one guy who was making $350k in sales and completely burned out (no life outside of work)....he left to a lower paying more predictable lifestyle and is MUCH happie for it.