I can't see the point behind getting married nor having kids.

[BD2003]

Their "off the top of their head" reply is NOT NOT NOT their unbiased opinion. Their judgement is clouded by their affection for their kids. Life is always easier without kids. If you dug deep into their souls and asked for an opinion based on only logic, not feelings, they would say their kids made their life more difficult.

Where are you getting these numbers from?

About 35% of pregnancies in the US are out of wedlock, we need 15% more to get to 50% to deem the majority of pregnancies as not planned. I think it's safe to say that we can assume that many are married couples who simply did not care and had kids without any long term prior planning.

Again, the facts say one thing, and yo magically pull something out of your ass to make them say what you want them to.

I think John Lennon himself said that kids today (well the 1970s, it's even worst today) aren't planned, their created out of "bottle of wiskey on a Saturday night." This was in an interview, not a song.

Now thats what I call a fact.

Intelligence! Because people with the financial means to enjoy their life do not want kids to ruin the party. They do not want to spend their life babysitting. Who can blame them?

Most people with the financial means can afford a babysitter.

And most poor people who have kids are probably simply guilty of nihilism. They simply do not care or are mute to the consequences of their actions.

Here you are again, talking about most this most that, when youve got nothing to back that up.

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: Mo0o
So what you're saying is, unless you found a girl that you're absolutely sure will be perfeect (which from your OP sounds like you dont believe), you're never going to be married ergo you're never going to have sex. Is this correct?

When I say perfect I only mean that she should match my idea of what she should be like, not perfect in a God like sense. Anyway should I ever meet that girl and we get married then so be it, otherwise It doesn't matter much really, so if the possibility of me meeting this girl ever is remote, then yes I guess I will never have, sex, and since it's not that that matters to me much I am ok with that, hope that answers your question.

And yes Linux is one of the requirements for thsoe who mentioned it LOL.

 

[Sphexi]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: Sphexi
If you can't see the point, just don't do it. Not a complicated thing, plenty of people go their whole lives like that. My aunt is almost 60, she's never seriously dated, just worked hard at her career and retired early, and enjoys her time on her farm now. My older brother is almost 30, he never seriously dated, and although it's a possibility, I don't personally see him married or having kids.

I happen to like kids, I like hanging out with them and being silly, I'm going to love being a dad, so I can't see myself old and dying without having a few kids or grandkids kicking around.

Ok I got your point

Hey, just do whatever makes you happy, and to hell with everybody else. If they really care about you, they'll get over their notions and just accept you as whoever you end up being.

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: Sphexi

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: Sphexi
If you can't see the point, just don't do it. Not a complicated thing, plenty of people go their whole lives like that. My aunt is almost 60, she's never seriously dated, just worked hard at her career and retired early, and enjoys her time on her farm now. My older brother is almost 30, he never seriously dated, and although it's a possibility, I don't personally see him married or having kids.

I happen to like kids, I like hanging out with them and being silly, I'm going to love being a dad, so I can't see myself old and dying without having a few kids or grandkids kicking around.

Ok I got your point

Hey, just do whatever makes you happy, and to hell with everybody else. If they really care about you, they'll get over their notions and just accept you as whoever you end up being.

Thank you for your input, if you really take a closeup at my posts I am not that kind of guy that would care what others think is right or not, otherwise I would have ended up getting laid every Saturday night just to let my buddies know that I am the beast.

 

[JLGatsby]

Originally posted by: BD2003

Where are you getting these numbers from?

????? There are no numbers in that statement. It was simply a "psychoanalysis" of the common human mold.

Again, the facts say one thing, and yo magically pull something out of your ass to make them say what you want them to.

These are facts, look them up. I've posted them on ATOT before. In urban areas, the out of wedlock birthday is as high as 90%.

Most people with the financial means can afford a babysitter.

You still have to give them some attention, like advice and affection, which can take up a considerable amount of time and energy.

I don't blame people for not having kids because they do not want to give them the emotional attention necessary, that's much better than having the kids and still not giving it to them.

Here you are again, talking about most this most that, when youve got nothing to back that up.

That has not yet been proven, to my knowledge. It is simply a conclusion based on common logic by myself.

 

[biostud]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: biostud

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: Tikloos
if one think no point in having kid or marry, then they real big stupid dick!

I didn't say their is no point behind getting married and having kids, but I just don't see a reason for me in particular to do it.

love

once you've tried it you'll know.

look I am 23 now, if I hadn't experienced by now I am not sure when, when I was kid my firends where chasing girls when they where less than 10 years old 13 years after that and I couldn't fin this girl that will stop me from sleeping at night becasue I was thnking about her, I think sleeping at night is more valuable than that.

It's not for all to have a relationship, someone prefers not to (and probably more likely if they feel forced into having one).
I've been single for 5 years from 21 to 26 without any relationship even though I would have liked to. Now I have one and couldn't be happier. My point is that if you don't feel for a relationship don't have one. But at some point some of us wake up next to a person and our first thought is: "I want to wake up next to him/her for the rest of my life". It's not "just" sex lust or whatever, it's something more.
You don't need to be so cynical about it, just live your life as you like, tell your parents that you wan't to live your life as you like and if that is beeing single for the rest of yout life, that's your decision, but don't rule out meeting a person you want to wake up with for the rest of your life.

 

[BD2003]

????? There are no numbers in that statement. It was simply a "psychoanalysis" of the common human mold.

Isnt that basically pulling it out of your ass then? The numbers being that "most" (over 50%) of people would say they would rather have not had children.

These are facts, look them up. I've posted them on ATOT before. In urban areas, the out of wedlock birthday is as high as 90%.

Youre the one posting them, you link them. That doesnt change the *fact* you pulled the other 15% conveniently out of your ass.

You still have to give them some attention, like advice and affection, which can take up a considerable amount of time and energy.

What does that have to do with financial means again?

I don't blame people for not having kids because they do not want to give them the emotional attention necessary, that's much better than having the kids and still not giving it to them.

Clearly.

That has not yet been proven, to my knowledge. It is simply a conclusion based on common logic by myself.

More code for "I pulled it out of my ass."


Your problem is evident. You assume that if people disregarded their feelings that their "unbiased", cold, hard, logical opinion would clearly be that kids arent worth it. But youre trying to take feelings about something that is primarily about feelings. People dont have kids because theyre expecting financial rewards...they have them because they want them. Because it feels like the right thing to do. And having them and loving them feels right.

Dont get me wrong, Ive got no problem with logic, but dont try to apply logic and logic alone to situations that are more about emotion than anything else.

 

[JLGatsby]

Originally posted by: BD2003

Your problem is evident. You assume that if people disregarded their feelings that their "unbiased", cold, hard, logical opinion would clearly be that kids arent worth it. But youre trying to take feelings about something that is primarily about feelings. People dont have kids because theyre expecting financial rewards...they have them because they want them. Because it feels like the right thing to do. And having them and loving them feels right.

Dont get me wrong, Ive got no problem with logic, but dont try to apply logic and logic alone to situations that are more about emotion than anything else.

When people ignore logic and act based on feelings, they always get burned.

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: BD2003

Your problem is evident. You assume that if people disregarded their feelings that their "unbiased", cold, hard, logical opinion would clearly be that kids arent worth it. But youre trying to take feelings about something that is primarily about feelings. People dont have kids because theyre expecting financial rewards...they have them because they want them. Because it feels like the right thing to do. And having them and loving them feels right.

Dont get me wrong, Ive got no problem with logic, but dont try to apply logic and logic alone to situations that are more about emotion than anything else.

When people ignore logic and act based on feelings, they always get burned.

When people ignore feelings and act based solely on logic, they might as well be robots.

 

[The Linuxator]

So I was trying to determine how rare girls that would match my criteria would be , lets see :
- She gotta love Linux and more precisely the ideology behind it open-source.
- She gotta love Trance , Dance music of all it's varities.
- She needs to be either a Computer Science and Engineering major or Electrical Engineering major.
- BMW should be her car of choice
- Black is her color of choice
- She must beleive that signs are BS, cancer, scorpion....etc all of that is non-sense and most of the girls that I have met ask me about that stuff first, and I am like are you serious?."
- She must be very independent and not be influencd easy by other's opinions INCLUDING mine.
- She must not be a go with the flow girl, I hate fads and if you see a girl wearing an iPod around her neck just becasue it's the fad, guess what ? Chances are it's not going to be that girl
- She hates fashion
- She doesn't need too much makeup to show her beauty
- An IBM Thinkpad should be her ONLY Laptop of choice
- She must be a person that always has a goal to pursue, once she is done with one she has a nother and so on.
-She must be highly educated, and very very open minded and always seeking to know more.
- And no not like what you guys had in mind she should not look like a master geek if she is into computers. Yes a pretty face is a requirement.
- Last but not least she must be very very very humble and not be arrogant like most of the girls I see nowadays

Alot of criteria and hence why I don't think I will meet on of these. But oh well that's what my phsycology demands

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator
So I was trying to determine how rare girls that would match my criteria would be , lets see :
- She gotta love Linux and more precisely the ideology behind it open-source.
- She gotta love Trance , Dance music of all it's varities.
- She needs to be either a Computer Science and Engineering major or Electrical Engineering major.
- BMW should be her car of choice
- Black is her color of choice
- She must beleive that signs are BS, cancer, scorpion....etc all of that is non-sense and most of the girls that I have met ask me about that stuff first, and I am like are you serious?."
- She must be very independent and not be influencd easy by other's opinions INCLUDING mine.
- She must not be a go with the flow girl, I hate fads and if you see a girl wearing an iPod around her neck just becasue it's the fad, guess what ? Chances are it's not going to be that girl
- She hates fashion
- She doesn't need too much makeup to show her beauty
- An IBM Thinkpad should be her ONLY Laptop of choice
- She must be a person that always has a goal to pursue, once she is done with one she has a nother and so on.
-She must be highly educated, and very very open minded and always seeking to know more.
- Last but not least she must be very very very humble and not be arrogant like most of the girls I see nowadays

Alot of criteria and hence why I don't thnk I will meet on of these.

So you mean to tell me you are not willing to date a girl that would use a compaq laptop and drive a honda?

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: BD2003

Originally posted by: The Linuxator
So I was trying to determine how rare girls that would match my criteria would be , lets see :
- She gotta love Linux and more precisely the ideology behind it open-source.
- She gotta love Trance , Dance music of all it's varities.
- She needs to be either a Computer Science and Engineering major or Electrical Engineering major.
- BMW should be her car of choice
- Black is her color of choice
- She must beleive that signs are BS, cancer, scorpion....etc all of that is non-sense and most of the girls that I have met ask me about that stuff first, and I am like are you serious?."
- She must be very independent and not be influencd easy by other's opinions INCLUDING mine.
- She must not be a go with the flow girl, I hate fads and if you see a girl wearing an iPod around her neck just becasue it's the fad, guess what ? Chances are it's not going to be that girl
- She hates fashion
- She doesn't need too much makeup to show her beauty
- An IBM Thinkpad should be her ONLY Laptop of choice
- She must be a person that always has a goal to pursue, once she is done with one she has a nother and so on.
-She must be highly educated, and very very open minded and always seeking to know more.
- Last but not least she must be very very very humble and not be arrogant like most of the girls I see nowadays

Alot of criteria and hence why I don't thnk I will meet on of these.

So you mean to tell me you are not willing to date a girl that would use a compaq laptop and drive a honda?

I was pushing it with those extra details but I wouldn't mind if she had the same taste in gadgets as I do

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator
So I was trying to determine how rare girls that would match my criteria would be , lets see :
- She gotta love Linux and more precisely the ideology behind it open-source.
- She gotta love Trance , Dance music of all it's varities.
- She needs to be either a Computer Science and Engineering major or Electrical Engineering major.
- BMW should be her car of choice
- Black is her color of choice
- She must beleive that signs are BS, cancer, scorpion....etc all of that is non-sense and most of the girls that I have met ask me about that stuff first, and I am like are you serious?."
- She must be very independent and not be influencd easy by other's opinions INCLUDING mine.
- She must not be a go with the flow girl, I hate fads and if you see a girl wearing an iPod around her neck just becasue it's the fad, guess what ? Chances are it's not going to be that girl
- She hates fashion
- She doesn't need too much makeup to show her beauty
- An IBM Thinkpad should be her ONLY Laptop of choice
- She must be a person that always has a goal to pursue, once she is done with one she has a nother and so on.
-She must be highly educated, and very very open minded and always seeking to know more.
- Last but not least she must be very very very humble and not be arrogant like most of the girls I see nowadays

Alot of criteria and hence why I don't thnk I will meet on of these.

I used to make stupid lists like that too. You're young. Date around and have fun. One day you'll find someone that makes you happy. It took me until my mid-thirties to find who I was looking for. (Or more correctly for her to find me) Prior to that, marriage was a scam and kids were a trap.

Funny how things change with the right person.

 

[JLGatsby]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

I was pushing it with those extra details but I wouldn't mind if she had the same taste in gadgets as I do

IBM Thinkpad, isn't that a bit outdated? What if she has a Lenovo?

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: BD2003

Originally posted by: The Linuxator
So I was trying to determine how rare girls that would match my criteria would be , lets see :
- She gotta love Linux and more precisely the ideology behind it open-source.
- She gotta love Trance , Dance music of all it's varities.
- She needs to be either a Computer Science and Engineering major or Electrical Engineering major.
- BMW should be her car of choice
- Black is her color of choice
- She must beleive that signs are BS, cancer, scorpion....etc all of that is non-sense and most of the girls that I have met ask me about that stuff first, and I am like are you serious?."
- She must be very independent and not be influencd easy by other's opinions INCLUDING mine.
- She must not be a go with the flow girl, I hate fads and if you see a girl wearing an iPod around her neck just becasue it's the fad, guess what ? Chances are it's not going to be that girl
- She hates fashion
- She doesn't need too much makeup to show her beauty
- An IBM Thinkpad should be her ONLY Laptop of choice
- She must be a person that always has a goal to pursue, once she is done with one she has a nother and so on.
-She must be highly educated, and very very open minded and always seeking to know more.
- Last but not least she must be very very very humble and not be arrogant like most of the girls I see nowadays

Alot of criteria and hence why I don't thnk I will meet on of these.

So you mean to tell me you are not willing to date a girl that would use a compaq laptop and drive a honda?

I was pushing it with those extra details but I wouldn't mind if she had the same taste in gadgets as I do

I can tell you right now that that is by far the most ridiculous list that Ive ever read in my entire life. If thats what you expect from a girl you are going to die alone.

Believe me, there is no bigger mistake you can make in the world than thinking cause a girl isnt exactly like you that she's not worth your time.

I did that, and regretted it almost immediately. I broke up with a girl cause she didnt understand me. Cause we didnt have enough in common I said. There was more to it than that, but that was basically the problem I was having. It didnt take me long to realize that even though she doesnt listen to the same music as I do, that even though she doesnt like to play video games and doesnt do this and does that and doesnt do this, that I was making the biggest mistake of my life. Because when it comes down to it, those are the least possible important things. What WAS important was that aside from the fact that we didnt always agree on what we considered to be a good time was that we were thinking on the same wavelength. We were together in a way thats hard to describe, and words dont quite do it justice. I spent too much time thinking about what was wrong instead of recognizing what was right.

It will never be perfect in any relationship. But no two people in he world will ever be as exactly alike as youre expecting them to be.

Besides, I cant think of anything more boring than being with someone that agrees with your every word.

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy

Originally posted by: The Linuxator
So I was trying to determine how rare girls that would match my criteria would be , lets see :
- She gotta love Linux and more precisely the ideology behind it open-source.
- She gotta love Trance , Dance music of all it's varities.
- She needs to be either a Computer Science and Engineering major or Electrical Engineering major.
- BMW should be her car of choice
- Black is her color of choice
- She must beleive that signs are BS, cancer, scorpion....etc all of that is non-sense and most of the girls that I have met ask me about that stuff first, and I am like are you serious?."
- She must be very independent and not be influencd easy by other's opinions INCLUDING mine.
- She must not be a go with the flow girl, I hate fads and if you see a girl wearing an iPod around her neck just becasue it's the fad, guess what ? Chances are it's not going to be that girl
- She hates fashion
- She doesn't need too much makeup to show her beauty
- An IBM Thinkpad should be her ONLY Laptop of choice
- She must be a person that always has a goal to pursue, once she is done with one she has a nother and so on.
-She must be highly educated, and very very open minded and always seeking to know more.
- Last but not least she must be very very very humble and not be arrogant like most of the girls I see nowadays

Alot of criteria and hence why I don't thnk I will meet on of these.

I used to make stupid lists like that too. You're young. Date around and have fun. One day you'll find someone that makes you happy. It took me until my mid-thirties to find who I was looking for. (Or more correctly for her to find me) Prior to that, marriage was a scam and kids were a trap.

Funny how things change with the right person.

LOL most of this list was a joke, but I was serious about like 4 points in there.

 

[Taejin]

Originally posted by: kogase

Originally posted by: The Linuxator
I don't believe in pre-marital sex and I'm in to Linux, next.

rofl!

 

[konakona]

Originally posted by: Lithium381
I'm with the OP on this one...I don't have this urge to get married and have children either. And i also stand by the no-sex-before-marriage ideal. It's just so logical. I also have the same view towards women, they're great, and yes i'm attracted to them, but sex isn't #1 on my list.....i dont' even know if it's on my list at this point in time. I have had plenty of opportunities if i had cared to. When the girl comes that i want to spend my life with, it will happen, but that isn't my lifes goal. I'm comforatable with myself alone, and as with the OP, i've got lots of friends.

It is surprising there are people out there sharing the same view as mine. More often than not, I see people with peculiar priorities. For them, it matters more just to get married to someone, moreso than who are they getting married to. I am not very fond of the idea of marriage or the idea of living too close to someone for the entire life, but if I find somone I am comfortable with doing that, why not. On the flip side, it really doesnt worry me if I dont find that someone and dont get to marry till the end. If I cant find someone I cherish enough, what is the point in marrying? It is always midly amusing to hear people getting anxious to get married as they grow older, possibly passing their "prime".

mercanucaribe

Too bad, someone else beat you to it on the first page of the thread while at it

With all that being said, both the OP and JLGatsby, consider expressing yourself in a more corteous tone next time you post stuff. I mostly agree with your opinions, but with your posts you looked like "pushing buttons" that might have provoked people with different opinions. When you make a broad statement aimed at a bunch of people calling them "idiots", the chances are you may get yelled at. I would want my opinion respected, so I respect theirs first and try not to say something that might offend them; respect is always mutual.

 

[Booster]

I can't see the point behind getting married

No wonder you don't. You're still a kid. When I was your age, I didn't see any point in marriage either. Now I catch myself thinking I would do anything just to have a wife and a baby.

Now you may think you don't want a marriage, but reality is cold - if you ever wanted to find someone to marry, it wouldn't be an easy task. It's more difficult than finding a job etc, perhaps the most difficult thing people ever go through.

I could see a woman saying she doesn't need men, because she can have her baby on her own. But we, men? What are we without women? You'll adopt someone?

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: VanillaH

Originally posted by: Lithium381
I'm with the OP on this one...I don't have this urge to get married and have children either. And i also stand by the no-sex-before-marriage ideal. It's just so logical. I also have the same view towards women, they're great, and yes i'm attracted to them, but sex isn't #1 on my list.....i dont' even know if it's on my list at this point in time. I have had plenty of opportunities if i had cared to. When the girl comes that i want to spend my life with, it will happen, but that isn't my lifes goal. I'm comforatable with myself alone, and as with the OP, i've got lots of friends.

It is surprising there are people out there sharing the same view as mine. More often than not, I see people with peculiar priorities. For them, it matters more just to get married to someone, moreso than who are they getting married to. I am not very fond of the idea of marriage or the idea of living too close to someone for the entire life, but if I find somone I am comfortable with doing that, why not. On the flip side, it really doesnt worry me if I dont find that someone and dont get to marry till the end. If I cant find someone I cherish enough, what is the point in marrying? It is always midly amusing to hear people getting anxious to get married as they grow older, possibly passing their "prime".

mercanucaribe

Too bad, someone else beat you to it on the first page of the thread while at it

With all that being said, both the OP and JLGatsby, consider expressing yourself in a more corteous tone next time you post stuff. I mostly agree with your opinions, but with your posts you looked like "pushing buttons" that might have provoked people with different opinions. When you make a broad statement aimed at a bunch of people calling them "idiots", the chances are you may get yelled at. I would want my opinion respected, so I respect theirs first and try not to say something that might offend them; respect is always mutual.

Uh ? I think you mixed me up with someone else, where did I insult others plz ??

 

[Taejin]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator
So I was trying to determine how rare girls that would match my criteria would be , lets see :
- She gotta love Linux and more precisely the ideology behind it open-source.
- She gotta love Trance , Dance music of all it's varities.
- She needs to be either a Computer Science and Engineering major or Electrical Engineering major.
- BMW should be her car of choice
- Black is her color of choice
- She must beleive that signs are BS, cancer, scorpion....etc all of that is non-sense and most of the girls that I have met ask me about that stuff first, and I am like are you serious?."
- She must be very independent and not be influencd easy by other's opinions INCLUDING mine.
- She must not be a go with the flow girl, I hate fads and if you see a girl wearing an iPod around her neck just becasue it's the fad, guess what ? Chances are it's not going to be that girl
- She hates fashion
- She doesn't need too much makeup to show her beauty
- An IBM Thinkpad should be her ONLY Laptop of choice
- She must be a person that always has a goal to pursue, once she is done with one she has a nother and so on.
-She must be highly educated, and very very open minded and always seeking to know more.
- And no not like what you guys had in mind she should not look like a master geek if she is into computers. Yes a pretty face is a requirement.
- Last but not least she must be very very very humble and not be arrogant like most of the girls I see nowadays

Alot of criteria and hence why I don't think I will meet on of these. But oh well that's what my phsycology demands

you're joking, right? or else you have problems that we can't even begin to solve, much less understand

EDIT: Saw the OP's responses..late post. But still, reading his posts I can't be entirely too certain he was joking..

Also I'm a no-sex-before-marriage kind of guy too, so hey - what can you say.

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: Taejin

Originally posted by: The Linuxator
So I was trying to determine how rare girls that would match my criteria would be , lets see :
- She gotta love Linux and more precisely the ideology behind it open-source.
- She gotta love Trance , Dance music of all it's varities.
- She needs to be either a Computer Science and Engineering major or Electrical Engineering major.
- BMW should be her car of choice
- Black is her color of choice
- She must beleive that signs are BS, cancer, scorpion....etc all of that is non-sense and most of the girls that I have met ask me about that stuff first, and I am like are you serious?."
- She must be very independent and not be influencd easy by other's opinions INCLUDING mine.
- She must not be a go with the flow girl, I hate fads and if you see a girl wearing an iPod around her neck just becasue it's the fad, guess what ? Chances are it's not going to be that girl
- She hates fashion
- She doesn't need too much makeup to show her beauty
- An IBM Thinkpad should be her ONLY Laptop of choice
- She must be a person that always has a goal to pursue, once she is done with one she has a nother and so on.
-She must be highly educated, and very very open minded and always seeking to know more.
- And no not like what you guys had in mind she should not look like a master geek if she is into computers. Yes a pretty face is a requirement.
- Last but not least she must be very very very humble and not be arrogant like most of the girls I see nowadays

Alot of criteria and hence why I don't think I will meet on of these. But oh well that's what my phsycology demands

you're joking, right? or else you have problems that we can't even begin to solve, much less understand

Ok lets cut the joking now from that list let me point to some of the stuff that I really think are important :

- She must be a person that always has a goal to pursue, once she is done with one she has a nother and so on.
-She must be highly educated, and very very open minded and always seeking to know more.
- And no not like what you guys had in mind she should not look like a master geek if she is into computers. Yes a pretty face is a requirement.
- Last but not least she must be very very very humble and not be arrogant like most of the girls I see nowadays
- She must be very independent and not be influencd easy by other's opinions INCLUDING mine.
- She must not be a go with the flow girl, I hate fads and if you see a girl wearing an iPod around her neck just becasue it's the fad, guess what ? Chances are it's not going to be that girl

 

[konakona]

Just the mere fact that you put a title like
"you dont see a point"
is begging for cynical replies. It could be just me, but that sounds like you are flat out denying the logic of marrying altogether (including other people's)

dunno, maybe I was being a bit too PC, but in JLGatsby's case it sure did sound somewhat provoking.

 

[spidey07]

you just described a woman.

fortunately you'll meet them. They have to grow up first.

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: VanillaH
Just the mere fact that you put a title like
"you dont see a point"
is begging for cynical replies. It could be just me, but that sounds like you are flat out denying the logic of marrying altogether (including other people's)

dunno, maybe I was being a bit too PC, but in JLGatsby's case it sure did sound somewhat provoking.

If you look at my posts carefully you would see that I am all for the marriage idea, but what I am saying is that my situtation is a little different from other ppl's situation.