I can't see the point behind getting married nor having kids.

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: Tikloos
if one think no point in having kid or marry, then they real big stupid dick!

I didn't say their is no point behind getting married and having kids, but I just don't see a reason for me in particular to do it.

 

[biostud]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: Tikloos
if one think no point in having kid or marry, then they real big stupid dick!

I didn't say their is no point behind getting married and having kids, but I just don't see a reason for me in particular to do it.

love

once you've tried it you'll know.

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: Tikloos
if one think no point in having kid or marry, then they real big stupid dick!

I didn't say their is no point behind getting married and having kids, but I just don't see a reason for me in particular to do it.

Once you get a taste of it, youll understand why.

Besides, everyone here already knows how fast youll change your tune as soon as you find someone. Youre not the first person to ever be in this situation.

Every single person I know that says they dont want to get married kids is the kind of kid that has never been with a girl seriously. It is self justification, and its obvious to everyone but the person in question.

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: biostud

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: Tikloos
if one think no point in having kid or marry, then they real big stupid dick!

I didn't say their is no point behind getting married and having kids, but I just don't see a reason for me in particular to do it.

love

once you've tried it you'll know.

look I am 23 now, if I hadn't experienced by now I am not sure when, when I was kid my firends where chasing girls when they where less than 10 years old, 13 years after that and I still couldn't fin this girl that will stop me from sleeping at night becasue I was thinking about her, I think sleeping at night is more valuable than that.

 

[Dissipate]

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: Dissipate

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

You are a clueless moron. That is perhaps the dumbest thing I've ever read in my life. Please ban yourself because you clearly don't know WTF you're talking about.

That's funny, I don't see anyone refuting my comment.

It is so outrageous, why would anyone waste their time refuting it?

It is not outrageous, I merely explore into untrodden teritorries of truth others before me had never dared to go.

But deep down, most people would be happier without kids, especially because most kids are trouble makers.

I think this is flat out false. The vast majority of people would not be happier without kids. If that was the case and kids made people so unhappy, then they wouldn't have them.

But only a idiot would have kids.

I think this statement is just stupid. Every class of people in society has kids. Rich people, poor people, uneducated people, educated people, smart people, not so smart people... guess what they all have in common? They all have kids.

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: biostud

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: Tikloos
if one think no point in having kid or marry, then they real big stupid dick!

I didn't say their is no point behind getting married and having kids, but I just don't see a reason for me in particular to do it.

love

once you've tried it you'll know.

look I am 23 now, if I hadn't experienced by now I am not sure when, when I was kid my firends where chasing girls when they where less than 10 years old 13 years after that and I couldn't fin this girl that will stop me from sleeping at night becasue I was thnking about her, I think sleeping at night is more valuable than that.

Let it all out. Heh, now we're getting somewhere.

The reason you havent found someone is because youre still harboring fantasies bred by fiction. You already think you know what love and relationships are all about when youve never been in one. ANYONE will tell you that you simply do not understand until you are in the position yourself.

But at this point youre so used to your rejection that youve slunk into a corner, and nothing reeks worse than that to a woman except desperation.

Its like telling yourself that youll never drive a car unless its an m6, meanwhile everyone else is out driving their cars, whatever they may be, while youre sitting at home on a forum dogging on any car that isnt an m6.

 

[Lithium381]

I'm with the OP on this one...I don't have this urge to get married and have children either. And i also stand by the no-sex-before-marriage ideal. It's just so logical. I also have the same view towards women, they're great, and yes i'm attracted to them, but sex isn't #1 on my list.....i dont' even know if it's on my list at this point in time. I have had plenty of opportunities if i had cared to. When the girl comes that i want to spend my life with, it will happen, but that isn't my lifes goal. I'm comforatable with myself alone, and as with the OP, i've got lots of friends.

 

[Schadenfreude]

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

It is not outrageous, I merely explore into untrodden teritorries of truth others before me had never dared to go.

You are teh suck as posting.

True you are only posting your opinions, just like everyone else, but DAMN. You know if I'm at a public place and if there's an obnoxious kids there, well, I tell the parents that their kid is a jackass - not necessarily worded so, but I convey it to them.

I taught kids - did I have to do it? No. Were some of the kids brats? Undoubtedly. But do I, in the core of my being, think that I was wasting my time with them? Hardly. In fact, I think it was the greatest influence in me shaping myself into a better person as a whole.

If all kids are brats/ little bastards with no redeeming value, then how do they improve as adults? Everyone was a kid once in their life, you know. :roll:

 

[JLGatsby]

Originally posted by: Jehovah

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

It is not outrageous, I merely explore into untrodden teritorries of truth others before me had never dared to go.

You are teh suck as posting.

True you are only posting your opinions, just like everyone else, but DAMN. You know if I'm at a public place and if there's an obnoxious kids there, well, I tell the parents that their kid is a jackass - not necessarily worded so, but I convey it to them.

I taught kids - did I have to do it? No. Were some of the kids brats? Undoubtedly. But do I, in the core of my being, think that I was wasting my time with them? Hardly. In fact, I think it was the greatest influence in me shaping myself into a better person as a whole.

If all kids are brats/ little bastards with no redeeming value, then how do they improve as adults? Everyone was a kid once in their life, you know. :roll:

Even most adults are pricks and moral/financial/social failures.

 

[ngvepforever2]

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: sheik124

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: Jehovah
You've never had sex, have you?

Irrelevant.

No no I think it is, why you dodging that question, hmm?

I don't believe in pre-marital sex, next.

So you are thinking in never having sex! OMFG :Q

Dude....seriously...you are weird man....

Regards

ng

 

[Tea Bag]

"Money is like manure; it's not worth a thing unless it's spread around encouraging young things to grow."
- Thornton Wilder

The number one argument for NOT having a kid I think is becuase "they are expensive". That may be true, but the money you save throughout those years can't buy everything. Even with that money that you save - what's left? Buy MORE material posessions trying to fill a void in your life? Now I'm not a prude, I love new shiny things just as much as the next guy, but eventually I know that those kind of things can't keep me happy forever.

On the other hand, marrige isn't for everyone. I know a handful of people that are not married and are happy with the desicion they made, but you are still young. I'd like to see your opinon in 5 years on the topic.

 

[Schadenfreude]

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: Jehovah

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

It is not outrageous, I merely explore into untrodden teritorries of truth others before me had never dared to go.

You are teh suck as posting.

True you are only posting your opinions, just like everyone else, but DAMN. You know if I'm at a public place and if there's an obnoxious kids there, well, I tell the parents that their kid is a jackass - not necessarily worded so, but I convey it to them.

I taught kids - did I have to do it? No. Were some of the kids brats? Undoubtedly. But do I, in the core of my being, think that I was wasting my time with them? Hardly. In fact, I think it was the greatest influence in me shaping myself into a better person as a whole.

If all kids are brats/ little bastards with no redeeming value, then how do they improve as adults? Everyone was a kid once in their life, you know. :roll:

Even most adults are pricks and moral/financial/social failures.

Okay then, say that's true ( :roll: ); still, you didn't answer my question; how does the successful minority become so great if they were fvckups?

 

[JLGatsby]

Originally posted by: Dissipate

But deep down, most people would be happier without kids, especially because most kids are trouble makers.

I think this is flat out false. The vast majority of people would not be happier without kids. If that was the case and kids made people so unhappy, then they wouldn't have them.

But only a idiot would have kids.

I think this statement is just stupid. Every class of people in society has kids. Rich people, poor people, uneducated people, educated people, smart people, not so smart people... guess what they all have in common? They all have kids.

You need to take some reading classes.

I specifically said, in my original statement, that if you asked most parents about their kids, they would say they are happy to have them and would not have had it any other way. But they only say that because of the attachment involved in having kids, which is completely understandable.

But if you were to somehow get their completely unbias opinion, they probably would regret having kids.

Also, I also said that most pregnancies are UNPLANNED. So most people do not "choose" to have kids.

As for statement #2 of yours, every class of people have kids, but fertility rates for poorer people are much higher, so what does that tell you? Smarter people have less kids.

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: Dissipate

But deep down, most people would be happier without kids, especially because most kids are trouble makers.

I think this is flat out false. The vast majority of people would not be happier without kids. If that was the case and kids made people so unhappy, then they wouldn't have them.

But only a idiot would have kids.

I think this statement is just stupid. Every class of people in society has kids. Rich people, poor people, uneducated people, educated people, smart people, not so smart people... guess what they all have in common? They all have kids.

You need to take some reading classes.

I specifically said, in my original statement, that if you asked most parents about their kids, they would say they are happy to have them and would not have had it any other way. But they only say that because of the attachment involved in having kids, which is completely understandable.

But if you were to somehow get their completely unbias opinion, they probably would regret having kids.

Also, I also said that most pregnancies are UNPLANNED. So most people do not "choose" to have kids.

As for statement #2 of yours, every class of people have kids, but fertility rates for poorer people are much higher, so what does that tell you? Smarter people have less kids.

Arent you gay?

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: ngvepforever2

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: sheik124

Originally posted by: The Linuxator

Originally posted by: Jehovah
You've never had sex, have you?

Irrelevant.

No no I think it is, why you dodging that question, hmm?

I don't believe in pre-marital sex, next.

So you are thinking in never having sex! OMFG :Q

Dude....seriously...you are weird man....

Regards

ng

Thank you I am flattered. I think. It's good to know that I am different.

 

[Adica]

I have felt the same way as you. I don't know you, but as I grew older my views changed many times. I respect your opinion, but advise you that it is likely to change.

 

[JLGatsby]

Originally posted by: Jehovah

Okay then, say that's true ( :roll: ); still, you didn't answer my question; how does the successful minority become so great if they were fvckups?

Most people who are successful were merely born with a combination of natural intelligence and natural drive for success.

In my opinion, intelligence, motivation, and many other factors are simply random genetic combinations.

Some people are born to strive for success, others are born lazy. Environment plays a role, but I think genetics moreso.

I believe most people are born with a natural tendancy towards laziness.

Notice how most average people always dream of moving to an island and sitting on a beach all day if they suddenly were to become rich? But notice how most people who are already rich don't sit around all day, they have drive, they continue to work even after they have more money than they could even spend. This is not true for 100% of anyone, only for a majority, so don't give me the "I know a guy" reply.

But I still do not completely understand your question. How are most people "fvckups"?

 

[JLGatsby]

Originally posted by: BD2003
Arent you gay?

No, but I'm often mistaken for being gay.

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: Adica
I have felt the same way as you. I don't know you, but as I grew older my views changed many times. I respect your opinion, but advise you that it is likely to change.

As long as I stay happy it really doesn't matter if I am married or not, but at the moment I am not married and have no kids and can't imagine my life otherwise again ATM .

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: BD2003
Arent you gay?

No, but I'm often mistaken for being gay.

Ah, thats the impression I got from the other thread. That WOULD have explained a lot, but considering the fact that most guys that are mistaken for gay get tons of poon I dont even know what to think anymore.

Unless youre gay and dont know it.

 

[JLGatsby]

Originally posted by: BD2003

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: BD2003
Arent you gay?

No, but I'm often mistaken for being gay.

Ah, thats the impression I got from the other thread. That WOULD have explained a lot, but considering the fact that most guys that are mistaken for gay get tons of poon I dont even know what to think anymore.

Unless youre gay and dont know it.

I don't like men. All hairy and sweaty. Yuck.

Even most of my friends are girls.

 

[Lithium381]

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: BD2003
Arent you gay?

No, but I'm often mistaken for being gay.

I've got the same problem.....

 

[The Linuxator]

Originally posted by: Lithium381

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: BD2003
Arent you gay?

No, but I'm often mistaken for being gay.

I've got the same problem.....

I am often mistaken to be an Anti-Gay activist , I am not but at the same I don't support homosexuals in general.

 

[alm4rr]

Originally posted by: chambersc
it's all about having compassion and knowing that you will always have someone who loves you and you love no matter what. on those days where life couldn't seem any worse, you remember that you have someone to come home to and just know that you two share that love and kids make life more entertaining.

and then get served with divorce papers

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: BD2003

Originally posted by: JLGatsby

Originally posted by: BD2003
Arent you gay?

No, but I'm often mistaken for being gay.

Ah, thats the impression I got from the other thread. That WOULD have explained a lot, but considering the fact that most guys that are mistaken for gay get tons of poon I dont even know what to think anymore.

Unless youre gay and dont know it.

I don't like men. All hairy and sweaty. Yuck.

Even most of my friends are girls.

How about hairless and clean men, who act like girls?

Anyways, it sounds to me that you have a lot of opinions, and not a lot of facts.